Basically, met this girl at our mutual friend's birthday lunch yesterday. We got on pretty well, some banter etc and I thought she was pretty damn attractive lol. The only snag is she was in the area visiting family and lives quite far away.

Anyway, literally a couple of hours after the whole lunch finished and everyone had gone home, I noticed she had added me on facebook. So, I waited a bit and then accepted her and sent her a message as shown below:

Me: Stalking me on facebook already are we

She later replied.

HB: Haha yeh. God im just so damn creepy!
I saw you randomly our "mutual friend's" list when i went to add "another mutual friend"

How would you respond bearing in mind our situation?

Was thinking something along the lines of:

"hmmm so maybe my first imprerssion of u was wrong after all
It's ok, u don't need to justify it to me lol"

What do you guys think?

no please.. that sounds really weird and not funny at all.. you already got on a good start with her.. move it along the lines of "what a coincidence.. I'm currently interested in sociology.. you are so gonna be my lab rat for now"

change the topic, don't linger on this YOU'RE CREEPY shit for too long, get off of insulting her, onto figuring out what she is like and letting her know what you like about her, finding things in common, talking about the shit you have in common, then inviting her out to do something you both can enjoy... then try to have sex with her

also, don't wink too much, after a while it get redundant

so for example, you just take what she has, and go with it onto something else

''cool, just my kind of creeper, you into mini golf?'' (or w/e you wanna talk about, just get off the subject and take this to where you want it to go, instead of leaving it at where it is at, lead somewhere)

Thanks guys, in the end did a half hearted response as it didn't matter too much because of the distance and I might see her at some point anyway. She didn't have to reply to it, and she didn't lol.

good luck to you