She's got a boyfriend. Worth investing any time?



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 9:11 pm 
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So I met this girl last night who works on the door at a bar. It was really hot inside so I spent quite a bit of time outside talking to her. Mainly asking her questions on what she does, interests, etc and she did most of the talking.
Just before leaving I said we should meet up some time and she said sure and gave me her number.
She said "in case I don't respond, don't think I'm being rude" to which I said "because you have a boyfriend". She then responded "Yes, but I've been having problems with my phone. Best to get in touch by Facebook" and she gave me her full name.
I've been thinking about her today and she's really hot. But since she has a boyfriend I'm not sure whether or not to invest any time in her.
What do you guys think? If you would, what would be a good way to see if anything could happen?
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 9:14 pm 
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Not worth it


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 9:17 pm 
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She clearly likes you, she has a boyfriend and still gave you her number with no hesitation! You want my honest opinion? shes a whore...take it for what it is lol She will probably put out, and if you play your card right it won't be to hard to get her in bed, but don't get attached because if she does this to her current bf, she will probably do it to you.

Sounds like the typical bar star, waitress/bartender...nothing new. I personally think seeing a girl with a bf is a grey area but if you have no issues with it then go for it because she is clearly into you.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 10:14 pm 
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I always tell myself and my friends that it's worth it to keep in touch with girls that are "taken" because

1- She might break up and see you as an option later
2- You become friends and she gives you social value
3- She might have hot girlfriends she'll be willing to hook you up with

As long as she shows some kind of interest in you, you want to maintain or up that relationship. It doesn't take any effort to text her once in a while...you never what happens!

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 10:50 pm 
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never invest, keep her on periphery and ping her now and then to let her know you're still around orbiting and when things go sour between her and the bf, hey guess what there you are!


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I always tell myself and my friends that it's worth it to keep in touch with girls that are "taken" because

1- She might break up and see you as an option later
2- You become friends and she gives you social value
3- She might have hot girlfriends she'll be willing to hook you up with

As long as she shows some kind of interest in you, you want to maintain or up that relationship. It doesn't take any effort to text her once in a while...you never what happens!
What he said. The hottest girls I have met were through my girl friends who are just friends. Personally, I think everyone learning pick up needs to start working on a social circle with cool group of guys and girls that are just friends. Does A lot for your social value. Is a lot more of a DHV when you brings girls to your social circle instead of going out for coffee or a stupid date.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 11:03 pm 
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Nah, leave the girls with boyfriends alone. Let them introduce you to their girlfriends. Too much energy with the girls with boyfriends.


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thanks for the responses. think i might shoot her a message or something, but won't bother with the meetup. maybe message every few months in case something happens with her boyf...


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 23, 2012 6:09 pm 
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short answer yes...sometimes they need a break from their relationship and have fun with a lucky guy who knows how to charm her...aka...you


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