TBH, this is what i want to do. I want to make jokes about sex, like "I bet I could bang while doing this." I don't want to talk about my goals or my job or my lifestyle because its just a 1 night thing.


Also, I have future plans to be a Christian so I'm not into putting my future on lust.

so go try it out then and try to find an angle to make it work for you, just keep reviewing the kind of results you are getting and if you are happy with them and enjoying the process then keep what you like and keep making it better

Job, goals, lifestyle is just pointless fluff most of the time. I avoid those subjects at all costs unless I'm forced to drag it out, ei I can't K-close or F-close them right there and then. This is why I hate big groups because it's too much fluff and bullshit.

Meet a chick at a bar, open direct or indirect barely matters. What's important though is you sexually escalate pretty much immediately and build up the tension until the K-close or F-close. When I'm out I aim to K-close within 5 minutes of opening and if you do it right 5 minutes seems like plenty of time.

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From your post, seems like you would be weird guy to hang out with. Don't even wanna hold a conversation and go straight to sex, meanwhile you wanna be a future Christian. Weirdo.

You would be better off just paying for prostitutes instead of try to go out and sarge.

I crack sexual jokes like that all the time... chicks dig it. Go for it.

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I wouldnt be a wierd guy to hang out with at all because I wouldnt just talk about women with guys. I can respect other peoples' choices in life. Open your horizons and realize your friends don't always have to have everything in common with you. One reason why I need religion is because Obama is about to turn this economy upside down. I don't want to be caught with my pants down.

I have lost can't of the amount of girls who dig me (that I don't dig) where I just talk about banging them etc.. and they can't get enough of it.

Sure they criticise and say things like 'is that all you think about'.. and 'Im not that type of girl'. but believe me.. when every other AFC out there is talking about jobs, answering all their questions like good little boys and asking to take them out for dinner, you have them hooked alot more.

I think that talking sex with a girl ( and some of you may disagree), is a DHV for you a DLV for her. It's like saying ' I am a sexual guy not afraid to be open and Im going to talk about what I like and I dont care what you think'. A girl then has to prove her worth to be more in your books than just a fuck so it goes a long way. I never seem to lose out from talking sex, but I do from talking shop or being nice.

Sad but true..

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It depends on the girl how well this tactic will work. Some girls are very sexual and very experienced. Some are reserved and have little experience, and quite frankly, don't really enjoy sex. Some girls need to cum all the time, and others don't care about it because they've never really had good orgasms.

Think about it this way, if a girl started talking to you about ninjas, you'd probably start yawning and and peeling the label off your beer bottle out of boredom. Yet if she did that with me I'd be like "This is the most awesome girl in the world!" It's all about what the person is interested in and passionate about. You need to put out some feelers first and find out if they are a sexual person or not. If they are, then start talking about it. If they are not, then try to find what they actually do care about, and talk about it instead.

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