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PostPosted: Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:48 pm 
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Opportunity: Went into this club surrounded by girls...DHV. At the bar trying to get drinks, this drunk girl starts dancing on my from behind. I turn around and lean in to talk to her, she starts kissing my cheeks. I kiss her. I ask what are we drinking? She says a tequila for her, water for her friend. We have a shot then she fucks off..I learned that lesson the hard way.

Opportunity: Was hanging out with this girl I had a bit of history with - basically I went over to hers to watch a film, tried to kiss her but she refused because she has a bf. But she added she would get with me if she was drinking. So I remembered and got some shots going there as well, danced alot. Then I isolated her to one of those couches. Tons of kino: hand holding, hands on waist, arms around me, arms around her, hugging. Moved in for a kiss: "Nooo I have a bf." Still smiling.

Spent an hour trying to get around this bf thing. Eventually I realised we need more alcohol. Got some more shots, isolate her to a separate dancefloor to her friends. Grinding like crazy. Left to go back to my place.

We go back to my room. So much LMR its crazy.. I let her tell her friends she sleeping with me. BIG MISTAKE.She comes back with a tail of about 5 girls long. They are all trying to cockblock me, trying to get her back to her room.
She deals with the cockclock and they leave.

It's just me and her now, but I promised her friends I wouldn't take advantage of her and she doesn't want to do anything either. I'm down to my boxers, she's in her panties. No sex. We kiss once but that's it. She tells me everything. How much she wants to have sex and how much she wants me, but she can't do it because of the bf.

I get fedup and go to sleep. She leave after a few hours and then comes back and kisses me again.

Tonight she came back for her belt, I asked her about it and she gave me some news that indicated she has buyers remorse. She said "I'm just lucky I still have a bf...we can't be alone together bounty."

I can't believe I started having feelings for her, its so fucked up. I must be crazy.

NEVER buy girls drinks. Lesson learned.

All in all it was a productive night, I got to practice SMT and qualification, as well as being cocky funny and brave. Off to the libary now.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 23, 2012 9:18 pm 
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Opportunity: Went over to this girl I've met in my residence for an oven tray borrowed. She invited me in and we had had lots of banter going. Then she started telling me about her ex, and I could tell she was getting emotional about it. So when she finished I gave her a big hug and told her I would come back that night to return the tray.

That night I return. There is tons of cocky funny and she's laughing at almost everything I say. We start talking about one night stands. She tells me some embarassing stories and she shows me some pictures of her family. I use this chance to kino her hard, my crotch was pressed up against her shoulder.

With all the back and forward banter the icing was when she opened her draw and joked about the condoms at the front.."i'm not implying anything here."

So as I was about to leave:
me- should i leave?
her-you dont have to
me-should i spend the night then?
her-maybe?

At this point it was so fucking tense I bailed out I cudnt take the heat. I was already at the door and I instinctly opened it and told her I'd see her tomorrow.

I don't have her number I just know her room..so I'm thinking of just going over there and knocking tonight to redeem myself and finish what I started.


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 Post subject: Finally some progress
PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 2:04 am 
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Went over to her room, knocked and waited. Nervous as fuck. She opens and is surprised to see me..I give her the chocolates and she invites me in.

Once inside I set my frame and I'm at ease. I get her to sit next to me on the bed.

Then after a little bit of banter I say: "I really like you, you know."

her: *after a long pause* define like.

me: *realising she probably doesn't want me to be clingy* yeah you know you're really chill to hang with and you're different to other girls.

*queue super long pause*

me: is that too much for you?
her: yeah a little bit
me: is this too much for you? *kiss*

We kiss for a few minutes and then she tells me to stop..she can't.

Then proceeds the longest LMR session in the history of PU. I'm sure that hour long back and fourth speech to get her to sleep or at least become sexual again has set a record. I tried EVERYTHING I knew.

Until I gave up, said:

me:I'm going to give you 5 seconds to say no to this...if you do I'll leave and you might not hear from me again.

Counted and kept moving closer to her. We're kissing again! Great, but now to escalate. I start appreciating her entire body, feeling her elbows her knees her damn neck. Then I start rubbing her pussy and she doesn't object to it. Very nice.

So I get on top her, open her legs and dive in. She would not let me take her top off, but I still got to her breasts. I start sucking these puppies and then I lean back and take my shirt off. I try to get her to take my pants off but she doesn't want to. Then I try to move my hands back to her pussy and she moves them. wtf?

We continue for another bit and then suddenly she stops me and says "I think you should leave?"

I ignore and continue kissing her. "I really think you should leave".

I realise I could have stayed and tried to convince her for another hour that its ok and that sex was natural etc etc but I was far too hungry at this point so I kissed her and left to get some dinner.

Of course I made AFC mistakes from the beginning, especially trying to DHV with a story about a girl that slept with me but didn't have sex. She did tell me she is afraid that I get taken up with her, but I think she was more concerned that I am a player. She made it clear no one was ever so up front with her.

All in all a good learning experience.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 27, 2012 2:51 am 
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Today was a good day.

Opportunity: Walked to the bus stop. Saw an Asian girl waiting. Went over:

me: excuse me, how long have you been waiting for the bus?
her:yes im waiting for the bus
me:no no how long? im wondering if to wait on it or walk
her:ohh about 5 minutes
me:haha ok..where are you from anyways? i like your accent
her:japan..bla bla bla
me:haha oh really? konishiwa then! (only jap word i know)

We talk for a bit more and she tells me what she's studying, where she's staying etc I build comfort with a dhv story (true) about how I planned to come to Japan to study, but changed my mind at the last minute. She was impressed with my cultural awareness.

We get on the bus and I sit next to her and we continue. After some more chatting:
me:you know what, i'm tired of going out and partying with these freshers...i think i'll go to the movies tonight.
her:haha yeah u sound soo mature..what year are you in?
me:*lieing*im in my third year? and you?
her: yada yada yada

At that point I ask about her plans for that night (friday) and she doesn't have any. So I invite her to the movies. She's agrees but I could sense the reluctance in her voice. It's only natural I assumed. So we exchange numbers and I say Sayonara to her as we get off the bus.

Texted her that evening about our plans, but she was being stubborn and wanted to go see some crap film. I intended to go see the new Bond film...I tried suggesting alternatives and but there was a breakdown in communication so I just gave up with her.

Which brings me to -

Opportunity 2:

Messaged the Bulgarian chick from my rez to go movies. She gets ready like immediately. I'm reluctant to bring this chick out because of the trouble communicating/she has a bf/she doesn't give any IoIs. Anyways I still try with her. Teasing her wherever I can, making fun of her and myself, just making her laugh on our way there. Play air hockey with her..she's never played before. Or watched a Bond film. A night of firsts for you haha.

While we're walking back from the cinema I can't believe how cold it is..I grab her hands to show her what I mean. We hold hands for a few second but then she lets go. Teasing teasing, at one point she says something and I reply "oh really! we have soo much in common :D" She replies "ya I know its like we're soulmates"

That's the strongest comment/joke I've heard out of this girl, so I decide to push it. I start suggesting she make some tea for me when we get back because I was the reason she had such an awesome night. But she doesn't bite.."i'll give you the teabags." ouch burn

So basically today was another learning experience..I would like to get an f-close soon but seeing as I'm such a nice guy and so young in the game SNL's seem slightly out of reach. Still pushing myself for it. And maybe for a girlfriend.haha

For now having the ability of tastefully teasing a girl while remaining funny is golden.


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 Post subject: FINALLY GOT LAID
PostPosted: Sun Oct 28, 2012 2:44 pm 
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I've been trying to meet up with this French HB6 for awhile now - she looked interested. Everytime we arrange a meeting though, she flakes. So I freeze her out until she texts me yesterday. I learn that she had sex with one of my mates, so I know she's down for a ONS.

We start talking about it:

her:you heard about him?
me:yeah i was just curious..we have to hang out soon babe
her:why would we have to hang out?

freeze out for a week then she texts me:

her:do you mean hang out as in casual sex?
me:maybe
me:id like to fuck you doggy style and make you cum
her:fine why not
me: *organising logistics* and more sexting in between

She comes over and I bring her to my room. My heart is racing man..we make some small talk and then I start making out with her.

Wow, she was aggressive. She pushes me on the bed, gets on top and tries to suck the life out of me. Then she takes me tee off and I get on top and take hers off. She says we don't have long, put a condom on. So I comply, although I'm not even fully hard yet. We went from making out to condom in less than 5 minutes. I take her pants and panties off and I try to figure out how to enter her.

I push into a hole and she says "that's my ass." Woops. She asks "have you done this before?" and i calmly reply "not casually." I finally get it in and I start pumping away. Jesus I was terrible. She wasn't making it any better, she kept holding on to my waist and it was fucking up my rythym. I thought I was a fit guy until this point but after I started gasping for air in bed I realised I'm far from it.

She keeps saying deeper harder..but I find missionary to be such an awkward position. My knees keep slipping from under me and consequently my dick kept popping out. We go at it for 15 minutes but I can't come.

She eventually stops me because as I get more tired I get worse and worse. I suggest she go on top, or assume doggy style but she's so fucking lazy she doesn't want to do anything. So I imply getting a blowjob but she doesn't want to..cheeky bitch.

So she gets her things and leave. More small talk on the way out and I give her advice on why it didn't go so well - I basically blamed her for being to aggressive etc. haha Don't intend on meeting her again, but I'm just happy to get rid of the virgin status.

So yeah that's how I lost the V-card...just as I wanted, to a stranger who will never remind me of how terrible I was that first time.


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Good for you dude. Its all uphill from here.


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Congrats broooo!


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2012 2:16 am 
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Thanks fellas. Any criticism or pointers in the right direction would be greatly appreciated.

Opportunity: On the bus ride home I sit opposite this beautiful girl. She looks about my age. So I say "hey do you mind if I sit next to you, I hate going backwards on these things." She smiles and says of course, so I start chatting with her right away using a situational opener (our uni has reading week but not for engineers/med students). She laughs and admits she's actually a Phd student. WTF. This bus ride is 10minutes long so usually I try to quickly #close, which I would have done if I did not instinctively lie and tell her I'm a third year student.

Opportunity: Its halloween but not feeling 100% so I didn't go out. Decided to game Bulgarian girl some more. Went over and asked her if she wants to watch a movie. She has never let me in her room, and adamantly resists my attempts to even peep inside. (something about it being dirty?)

So I suggested we watch a movie, she has come over to mine before. This time I invite myself over. She agrees.

I go over and I attempt some light kino..just messing around and touching her sides. She doesn't look like she likes being tickled AT ALL, and reflexively pushes my hands away.

Then when I lie down on her bed she drops this one: "hey pull a chair we can sit and watch the movie." I persuade her to lie down because it's more comfortable.

We watch the movie, I am actually trying to enjoy the movie but at the same time I try to get some kino, any kino in. But to no avail..she just is to cold.

I think its safe to say she likes my company but Ive been friendzoned. Always good to have a HB10 on your list of good friends I suppose. When the movie ends she just hands me my flash drive like she's kicking me out. It might all be in my head but that's how I analyzed the situation. [/b]


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Opportunity: Went over to this hb8 23-yr old (3 years older than me). She invited me over and we are very flirty over text prior, but I'm not sure where I went wrong.

When I went there, we were definitely enjoying each others company but I saw no way of making it sexual or getting kino. I think this has become a sticking point for me.

I tried once, when I was showing her something through her window. I pointed with one hand and pressed my body against her. She didn't lean back into me.

Second time I was sitting next to her on the bed. I started tickling her and she was laughing and telling me to stop.

I tried to make it sexual: "haha so you do kickboxing? so if i tried to take advantage of you right now you would kick my ass then?" her response was neutral "haha noo"

I'm trying to control the ego but tonight could have gone better if I knew how to properly control the kino and create some sexual tension. I feel like I played it safe (we talked for an hour and a half) and I'm getting the minimum rewards, which is hanging out again sometime. I do want to fuck her but I can't risk being perceived as that guy trying to get with everyone, so more iois are in order. She doesn't drink so I have to be 100% all the time. Curious as to how you guys would game an older, taller, more physically fit (she did triatholons..and won) girl that studies ENGINEERING. haha
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EDIT: let me improve on the details of how texting went. just some of the interesting ones.

me: nah tonight im not going out
her: haha only until someone asks you!
me:only if its you hb
her: you're such a charmer!

her:Ohhh are you stuck on some or something?
me: probably..maybe u can get me unstuck
her:Nooo think positive :) you can do it
Haha I could try

her:You should come, but not now cos I gtg for a shower lol
me:well i think thats the best time
:ifyouknowhatimean:
hahaha

me:Ha! Now now
That didn't mean come now btw!
me:really? i was almost out the door
her:Loooool
me:bt seriously show me ur crib one day
her:Right, Ill be back soon, just gonna grab a shower. Ye definitely, I will :) how late are you staying up tonight?
me:tonight isnt good

her:hey did you get through with bla bla
me:yeah i did. whats up?
her:nothing much, i was just wondering..
me:ohh so tell me, do you wonder about me often?
her: haha oi!

We don't chat very long over text if that's what you're wondering, this was all in two conversations. She went home for reading week. But I have made plans with her before but she flaked to go home that weekend. So basically I just try to be cocky funny and have her qualify herself to me all the time. I do say these things in real life but when I went over to her room I felt the pressure to escalate to something more or risk falling into the friendzone. I think i just need to fuck some more girls to get better at this one, seeing as I only just lost the vcard.


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Last night I went to this house party, but everyone was either drunk or on drugs so I couldn't hold a conversation with anyone. I opened 2 girls but they were so out of it they would leave to introduce me to their friends and then forget. I spent the majority of the night shadowing a mate who's like the local celebrity. He is massive and ripped and his confidence was through the roof. The social proof he had was so legendary, people kept opening him all night. I noticed how quick he was to escalate, no small talk but after the first 3 minutes he just pulled them in towards him and started speaking softly to them. He AMOGed guys that opened him so hard I couldn't help but laugh.

Today: Decided to go the city and practice some day game after being inspired by Nic Krauser and some of his London daygame vids. Got fed, took a bath and got dressed then went outside. It's a DARK at 5pm. Damn, I need to get used to this winter thing.

Went out to the city anyways, might get some shopping done at the very least.

Opportunity: As soon as I leave my residence I see this girl smoking. She isn't pretty to be fair but I opened her anyways with "hey how are you doing on this lovely evening?" she laughed and we introduced ourselves and had a very nice conversation about our origins etc. It was getting late and I wasn't interested so I left her.

Opportunity: I enter the mall and standing there is a hb9 arab girl. I can tell she's waiting on someone and her friends (male+female) are closeby. I keep walking and then I decide to stop being a pussy and I go over.

me: excuse me, can i tell you something?
her: yes, what is it?
me: i saw you from over there and I think you're really cute, what's your name.
her: blabla
me: ohreally? thats cool. where are you from?
her: iran
me: it's funny my last name is xx and people always ask me if i'm from the middle east. when in fact i am from the other side of the world.
her: are you muslim then?
me: no im not..so are u a student here in manchester?
her: no im a flight attendant
me: ohh wow but you look so young?

for the entire interaction only i'm laughing/being fun she just has a wall up in front of her. so we talk for just a bit more and she hits me with this

her: why don't you talk to white girls? black people love white people

i was obviously taken aback by this statement: i'm not black and i'v never heard this stereotype..

So i decide she's a bitch and I tell her have a nice day and walk away. Her male friend tries to amog me with some kind of nasty stare but I ignore him.

For the remainder of my time at the mall I don't see much potential, only groups of girls that just a bit too much for me to handle.

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Last night I went out with some friends to this chill bar/club close to where we stay. We meet up with some girls from our place there and we're all hanging out.

Being terrible with night game I decide to approach all the sets I could approach. But after I came home that night I read Style's club game thread and I recognised I made serious rookie mistakes. For example I would often go up from behind, dance back to back and even lean into conversations. This lead me getting blown out set after set.

Eventually the girls we were with had all been pulled by guys. I was at the bar with one of them and we were just talking about it. She said "you have to be interesting but at the same time don't be too forward." When I pressed what she meant by that she said "don't start talking to a girl and then grab her ass that happened to me tonight and its fucking creepy."

I remember going over to open this girl at a table when she opens me as I approach. But she asks me for a lighter. So I say "You know I was just coming to talk to you right now. Whats your name?" She looks annoyed and says "Nooo you weren't, don't lie to me." When I persist she tells me to go away.

Approach another set this time with my celebrity bodybuilder friend. He's having such a great interaction with his target, my target just seems jealous that he didn't talk to her. She doesn't seem interested at me at all, and asks me how old I am. I answer he untruthfully and then she says she's really old. I laugh and say "haha no way, you can't be more than 25 ( she did look at least 30)." She reveals she's actually 23. I realise my mistake and I tell her goodnight and leave.


Its closing time and I spot this 3 set at the entrance. One is being pulled and the other two are looking around etc. I try something different, and go up to her and say
me:"listen, i think you're really beautiful."
her:"awww thank you." *huge smile and kino*(at this point i realise its the best reaction i've ever had while doing night game, sad but true)
so we chat for a bit about the basics and then I say
me: "listen, lets cut the small talk. do you want to come back to my place?"
she doesnt even get to respond, her friend was apparently listening very intently.
friend:"WHAT DID HE SAY?"
She tells her friend and they laugh, and they her friend blows me out.

And like a great wing, one of my buddies go into the set and say "Aw you hurt his feelings." I learn that they thought the line was "pathetic", but I knew that line was a gamble from the beginning.

Opportunity: The bus and bus stop seems to be the only places where I can consistently #close. I sat next to a hb7 on the bus and I open her with a situational opener. We start talking and dhv myself but fail to tease her. We both got of at the same stop and she says bye and walks in the opposite direction. I stand there for a bit and decide I need to get her number. So I run after her and then say

"stop..I think you're really cool and I'd like to hang out with you sometime. Would you be down for that?"

She immediately gives me her number. SPAM I'm trying to organise a plan to go to the movies but she hasn't replied.


So I think I'm past the stage where I get AA. That's definitely a good start.


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me:"listen, i think you're really beautiful."
her:"awww thank you." *huge smile and kino*(at this point i realise its the best reaction i've ever had while doing night game, sad but true)
so we chat for a bit about the basics and then I say
me: "listen, lets cut the small talk. do you want to come back to my place?"
she doesnt even get to respond, her friend was apparently listening very intently.
friend:"WHAT DID HE SAY?"
She tells her friend and they laugh, and they her friend blows me out.
You've got the right idea but the wrong method. I know that sort of shock and awe type thing can work but it almost always has to come when the girl is out of earshot of anyone else and VERY horny.

This girl was into you from the beginning. As soon as she said thank you and showed instant interest in you, you needed to let her know that you are a sexual option AND that you are the type of guy who can make it happen. Grab her, pull her in, and rotate so that you have more or less blocked out her friends. Speak into her ear. Get more and more sexual. Move from fluff talk to more compliments to straight up dirty talk. When you first start fluff talking, do it with slow, confident voice tones while you are pressed up against her and breathing in her ear. Be calm and collected and act like its not a big deal that you've known this girl for 5 minutes yet your hand is on her ass and you are licking her neck in between sentences.

In my mind, in nightgame, when you have a girl into you, its all about showing her that you are a sexual option who has the skills to seduce her (including eliminating obstacles). Things like pulling her into you, grabbing her, and getting real physical while you mix fluff talk and dirty talk and basically isolate her from social pressure do a much better job of that than simply asking her if she wants to leave.

All that said, doing what you did takes a lot of balls and a big set of balls will cover up a lot of errors, particularly in club and bar game. I approve.


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 Post subject: another lay report
PostPosted: Mon Nov 12, 2012 12:27 am 
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Oportunity: Went to this small club/bar with my mates and these girls from our residence were there as well. I had originally intended on going for some girls from elsewhere because the inter-hall sex thing was getting out of hand, but my luck was already decided.

I approach the group of girls just to say hi and they are stoked to see me. Then they slowly start moving away, and isolate me with their friend. I realised what had happened and I started dancing with her face to face. The body language was so strong I decided to kiss her right there and we started making out. We dance for a bit, get a drink and then she tells me "let's go." I had planned to hang a bit longer but she had other plans.

We get back to mine, start making out and taking clothes off. I ask her "should I wear a condom (a line I read from the Game I think) and she replies "no i'm on the pill." So I fuck her without a condom. In retrospect its so fucking reckless, I dont know what I was thinking.

The sex was incredible in comparison to the first time. She looked like she was genuinely enjoying it, biting me and scraping my back. Got her in all sorts of positions. I felt like a porn star.

But I was having a major problem. I couldn't come. I fucked her for what seemed like an eternity, and she kept telling me to come inside her. She gave me a bj in the end, and when that failed she resorted to placing her hands on my member and asking me to show her. How sweet. But I could not figure out what was wrong. Maybe it's too much masturbating (a goal I have been cheating on).

I think this was quite an easy lay, but I'm happy that I had the opportunity and was able to NOT fuck it up. I'm learning.


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Today I went out to the city to try direct day game. Usually I rely on situational openers, so telling them up-front that I found them attractive/interesting etc. was a source of anxiety for me. I had dedicated the afternoon to sarging around in Manchester city. However, I spent the majority of time looking for a single girl to be walking, because the majority were with family or a boyfriend.

I spent my first hour opening adults, both men and women, just to get in the flow of things. It is unfortunate that I opened more adults and maintained longer conversations with them than I did with women I intended to game.

I went into Starbucks to get a coffee and approached a girl sitting by herself. I did not expect for her to agree to letting me sit next to her, because my approach was so sudden - "Excuse me miss is anyone sitting here." I felt nervous. She said yes her friend is coming back so I ejected and went over to an empty table. I could notice on the other side of the glass there was a smoking 10 sitting by herself on her phone. I observed for any belongings that might suggest she had company. There were none. I went into the shop and crouched down beside her (I saw tony doing this in one of his infield videos - he was creating comfort before he sat down next to her). I opened her "Excuse me, can I tell you something? I thought you looked really nice and I wanted to come say hi." She smiles and says hi, but before I could even say anything else her boyfriend comes to the table with coffee. I realise my mistake and momentarily stunned, trying to find the right words to ease the tension of this situation. Not knowing what to say I prompty left them feeling awkward. I am sure the girl felt really flattered though because she had the look of "this is so sweet but.."

After that incident I started living in my own head, and I could not bring myself to run after girls that I saw. I started walking back to the bus stop and a group of 3 girls end up walking alongside me. They are speaking another language, which I recognise to be spanish. Knowing a little spanish I ask them in their language, "Hello, do you speak spanish?" We all start conversing in spanish as we walk, and they are really interested in my exotic background. However we come to a point where we go separate ways, and they say it was nice meeting me as they leave. I feel like there was potential to continue that interaction but I let them go.

All in all I'm happy I went out today. I'm slowly becoming aware of the differences among the european girls. It's all so foreign for now.


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Been out sarging two nights in a row with the intention of learning from my mistakes.

Friday night:

Went to this student club that is reputed to be the easiest place to pull. After watching some of skills' video I learned not to approach from behind, dance back to back etc so I approached from the side and front where they could see me. Yet I had a 100% rejection rate. No girl would dance with me.

Decided to game off the dancefloor, and I used "hello, I think your really beautiful and I just wanted to say hi." She responds positively and we start exchanging basic info about each other. She's from out of town, staying 1minute away from me etc etc so I figure she's dtf. I mention something about how I've started salsa and she says show her my moves. I explain its a partner type dance and we salsa for abit. Her friends come back and she introduces me. Her friends suddenly grab her hand and pull her away. I met them again on the dancefloor about a minute later and start dancing with the target. I turn the target to try to get a kiss, she turns the other way instead and grinds on me. A few minutes again, and I turn her around and whisper into her ears, "listen your friends aren't looking and that's the reason you're so reluctant, quick give me a kiss." She replies "I have to tell you I can't get with you tonight because I have a boyfriend." So far she seemed to be very genuine so I took her word for it but continued dancing with her. Left after a few minutes.
What concerns me is that sometimes when approaching girls on the dancefloor they might look at me and then giggle with each other. I am sure I dress smartly, so it must be my exotic background lol.

Saturday night:
Went to this non-student club in the city. I immediately noticed how well-dressed the women were. The quality of women seemed to be alot higher. I leave my two other friends (who are into pu) and go to the bar just to get one drink. This smoking 10 is next to me waiting to be served. A guy hits on her before I have a chance to and he is promptly blown off. I go "Was that guy being weird with you?" She doesn't respond the first time I say it so I repeat closer and she just shrugs. I give up and wait for my drink. Opened this girl on my right (she did not see the previous interaction she came afterward):
me: wow these bartenders take forever...i think i'm gonna give up drinking!
her:haha i know.
me:you have a very english look, where are you from?
her:bla bla
me:oh really? i cant believe i was right. i've only been here two months.
her:bla bla where u from
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me:i study at the uni.
her:ohh (she looks disappointed)
me:so are u student here as well
her:no
me:so what do you do?
her:bla bla
me:oh woww. look at you ur so cool.

She gets her drink and she leaves mid-interaction.

The rest of the night I spent getting blown out. I went outside to the smoking area and I opened this pair of girls. I say to one "listen i saw u and i thought u looked lovely, i just wanted to find out if you were cool as well." she says "ok" so i ask her her name. She looks at her friend and then replies. I quickly run out of things to say when my friend comes over. I leave because I feel the interaction is nowhere, my friend talks to them. He gets angry when they tell him that they think I should "go home" and swears at them. I see this interaction through the one way glass. When he swears at them they try to get him to come back but he just walks off.

Tonight I tried different approaches on the dancefloor. First, I danced alongside them for a while and then tried to slowly move into the set. Then I tried lightly brushing their arm to let them know of my presence and then dancing with them from the front. Lastly I thought I'd caveman and I tried taking girls' hands and pulling them towards me. Nothing worked.

We all leave the club empty handed, although I was the only one who did not make out with any girls. We are walking back when I spot an 8 at the bus stop. We walk past and then I backtrack to open her.
me:"excuse me i just saw u and i thought bla bla bla"
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me:"so why the long face..didnt u have a good night (she was wearing clubbing clothes)
her:"yeah but i have to get back and the cab is taking a half hour"
We share information and then i decide to use apocalypse.

me:"listen, i know you've had a crap night and i want to make it better for you. my place is just down the road, come back with me."
her:"no im sorry i cant."

So I tell her goodnight and walk off.

So yeah these two past night I have noticed that I constantly get rejected on the dancefloor and I have some success off it. On a high note I do not need alcohol to interact with women, I have only drank coffee before going it. In the coming weeks I will be sarging like mad now that uni work has eased up and will soon close for holiday, wish I could find some wings though.


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