i met this girl in a club and got # close without much kino. we chatted quite a bit today and its the second day since i first and last see her. what will be your next step guys? i thought of asking her out by this week. any advice will be appreciated. hopefully beyond f-zone.

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I think it depends on your evaluation of how much interest/attraction you built with her. I am not usually very keen on asking her out through text but sometimes circumstances punish you severely.

You pointed out an important fact, that is you didnt use any keno at all. This makes it very crucial if you didnt project a very High Value of yourself to her. If she was really, genuinely attracted to you go ahead for the text. If not, I would still text her just to tell her that youre gonna be around the same club or ask what she will be up to. Dont ask her out blatantly if she just "likes" you. She might like another 20guys, and if shes close to HB8 or higher be sure many other guys will try and ask her out this week. So be unique, interesting.

Regarding actual texts that you can send, would be hard to give you an example as whatever you say, should and have to reflect what you do in person.

Example - I have no problem with texting her this in your case if she is into me :

"Hei there. Guess what!? Ive got 2 tickets to next Saturdays VIP party with my friends. Im not really sure about who to take with me, what you reckon ? "

Ok, the "what you reckon" part might sound a bit of like giving her higher value,
but as I said earlier, whenever I meet a girl in a club she knows im surrounded by girls (no matter what HB they are as long as not 3 or lower) and also leading guys every now and then while having fun. So my image is already framed in her mind.
This makes it obvious for her that I would have no problems in finding someone to take with me.
By now she knows I want it to be her. Then I just wait for a reply and continue building on her reaction. Im always cocky but nice and sweet at the same time, but then I live up to expectations.

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great thanks for the advice! gonna try to ask her out this week.
is there anyway to build up attraction or seductiveness for this outing?

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As I said in another post of mine, I have been gaming for quite a while, but am not a PUA expert. Its only this year that I started to get into the techniques and tactics to add to my natural game.

The only few tips I can give you are these :

1 - Look her in the eye, always.
2 - Never take down the conversation to a friendship level. She HAS to know what
you want from here (ie romance/sex)
3 - Neg Neg Neg (not up to a nauseatic level tho ). Meaning dont
over-complement her. Or if you feel the urge to give her a compliment, start it
with a disqualifier. Ex "At first I wasnt really sure about you, you seemed that
"bitchy" type (with a smile on your face), but now that Im getting to know you,
you seem a very interesting person. EXAMPLE dont need to use that, i just made
it up.
4 - Chest out, chin up. Youre the boss.

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You don't build up attraction before the date, you build it DURING the date.

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Oh FOR this outing ? or DURING this outing ?

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I say before the outing. So that it might not be so awkward instead of just SPAM-ing her. I might just call her. Anything else I can do?

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Oh then ill have to quote Puaninja. No ...

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thanks all! she agreed on a date next sat. looks like i have to get my logistics working on this one!

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Good stuff mate,
Better than my game this week. I f-ed up 2 9's coz one of them was still texting and arguing with her ex. I wasnt prepared properly and didnt handle it as I should have.
My bad, but it was great till it lasted.

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the thing is I never really kino-ed her that much that night. kinda worried sigh. but oh well, it's another night, at least I got her number. going to bring her out and blow her out with routines and the tongue that I got . we're still talking though.

till the next night game! really can't wait! And I really need to go on more dates to get better!

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