Years ago when i was 15 i met a girl, we immediately hit it off. We'd meet up in a group of friends every other weekend and text each other inbetween, but for some reason it never seemed to work out and things died down and i fell into the friend zone. The next i hear from her a few months later she's got a boyfriend.

Even when she was with her bf we'd still stop and chat if we saw each other out but a year or so passed and i started seeing someone. I saw her out one night and she told me she'd finished her boyfriend and took my number. I told her about me seeing someone but we carried on texting.

Me hoping something might happen with this girl, finished it with the one i was seeing. However though, we'd go on days out together and really get on but still nothing happened. It carried on like that for 2 years. I tried to game her and get myself out of the friend zone by freezing her out. The next thing i know she's in a relationship with someone else.

During her relationship we still keep in contact and meet up on the odd night out, a few months ago though i started seeing someone, but at the same time she was going through a hard time with things with her boyfriend, things at home and problems at work and i was there for her which she really appreciated.

Things didn't work out with the girl i was seeing the other girl started texting me quite a bit and started meeting up again in a group of friends, the chemistry between us is great and i can make her laugh at any given time, we know each other inside out. I recently made my mind up that i'm immigrating and booked my tickets. I broke the news to her and she said she'd miss me etc..

Last week we was both at a party together and her mother n sister turned up who i started chatting to, they both asked me what i was playing at and why we weren't together. They told me she's been in bits since finding out i'm leaving. I just laughed it off and said she'd kill them if she found out what they'd said.

However it stuck in my mind and i thought f**k It and text her that night

Me: You free saturday night?
Her: Yeah
Me: You fancy letting me take you out?
Her: Are you being serious or are you joking
Me: I'm serious, i like you and wonna be more than friends

She went on to say she'd love to but its awkward with her boyfriend and everything. I appologised for putting her in an bad position and told her as long as she's happy thats whats important and left it at that.
She text me the morning after seeing how my night had been, and i just told her that i stand by what i said and the offer remains open. She's sent a few texts since trying to arrange a night out for my birthday.

Anyone any ideas how to play this one? i want something more than a friendship with this girl but i'm leaving in 9 months. Am i being unfair putting her in this situation while she's in a relationship?

Cheers