I approached an this hb6 today and I used a homework opener. After a while she said I'm really creepy. I maybe have been too serious and a little threatening, how do I soften up without being an afc? After I got the hw I left, to think about where I fucked up.

What exactly were you saying? Where you trying to do contact but made it look weird?
Just keep the convo light.

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I was just asking about the homework, but I may have been a little threatening I don't know. I approached her from behind, bad move. How should I keep it light?

Yeah always go right up to a girl and make eye contact when approaching her. Some girls don't mind to be approached from behind. But some girls get really freaked out by it.

Next time just use the opener of your choice, make good eye contact, slightly smile when you talk (I say slightly because a big smile could come off as creepy) and have a normal conversation. Should be fine.

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We can't really help you because we don't know exactly what happened.

What did you say to her?

Were you tense?

Did it "Feel" natural?

How long did you talk?

Did you just gawk and stand around too long before you saw her (thus her knowing you were already awkwardly there?)

Was your conversation light hearted or heavy toned?

What facial expressions did you express?

There are a lot of factors as to why she though you were creepy, but don't be discouraged! We are all in this together! Inform us so we can help you!

Also, I always approach girls from the side with an "over the shoulder" conversation starter. This is probably one of the least threatening ways to approach.

Is it that bad that you don't want to type it out? Don't worry most here don't judge. Here to help.

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Speak for yourself, I'll totally judge.

aight here it is

I'm talking with my friends and I see her, boom 3 second rule, approaches.
me: hey did we have any hw?
her: yeah we had abc.
me: What do mean? I don't understand. (genuine)
her: you have to blah blah blah
me: lol can you be more vague
her: no you just have to blah blah blah
her: that was so creepy, you are so creepy.
me: huh?
her: nevermind
me: whatever thanks
ejects

I didn't smile and I think I had a frown on.

You got reactive by ejecting. Could have said "Creepy?? Awesome! Needed the persona to match my costume for Halloween....The Creepy Guy trying to lure small children to his house with m&ms and skittles."

lmaoo smart! This kind of thing happened to me before and I was wondering if I should change my approach style.

You did two things wrong and both were already mentioned. You approached from behind and you weren't smiling. If you approached from behind but you were upbeat and smiling, she probably wouldn't have thought anything about it. But you did neither of those things, which made her uneasy. If you were frowning, I imagine your body language and tone were equally drab. Perk up a bit man, act like you're having a great day. It's hard to be creeped out by happy people.

If she says your creepy that just means that you made her really uncomfortable. Even if you are really ugly and sweaty, she won't say your creepy unless you are doing something that makes her very uneasy.

Looking into it further, I traced it back to a comment you said "can you be more vague?" which is when she responded that you are creepy. Asking if she can be more vague is an attempt at cocky funny, but it comes across as sarcastic, which girls with low HB ratings will interpret as a neg, and therefore get offended. I don't think you were actually creepy, I think she was just negging you back in retaliation.

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