im in the angel versus devil stuggle right now...

i have my "regular", beautiful, submisive, will do anything for me, loyal, talk everyday, gf material...other than her not being nearly as intelligent as id like.

shes been in my life almost a year now and trying to get me in a relationship for 9 months.

ive just been making up excuses and telling her im not ready for commitment...i tell her to date other guys...worry about other things..she wants me and she wont let down.

ive had 5 other sex partners during this time dating her...and she knows nothing about it...but i havent felt much guilt at all up until this point

but shes hitting her breaking point...were taking a break and she basically professing her love for me....what im doing is breaking her heart and it starting to kill me.

suddenly im starting to feel guilt and sadness to the point that im not performing up to par with other chicks.

but im so afraid to commit....i just dont think i can be sexually satisfied with one woman...i almost need the variety of women to keep me satisfied sexually...

do i break her heart and tell her to leave...?
do i make her happy...and then cheat on her?
do i settle down and be unsatisfied sexually with one partner?

how do you guys cope with a relationship after youve been so jaded by multiple partners? its engrained in masculine behavior, but morals have shut it down...

There's nothing wrong with being polyamorous. You have needs (i.e. sexual variety) that can't be met in a monogamous relationship. It would be a bad thing to put her desires before your needs. If she loves you then she should be able to accept you for who you are, and not who she thinks you SHOULD be.

Just explain to her that, by nature, you are not monogamous and don't have any plans to be monogamous. Then let her decide if she can handle that or not. Lying is for chumps. If she's game, then progress to an "open and honest" relationship, where she is your primary.

-Wolf

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thats a good question...

in the end it comes down to what you want, do you want to stay single and do your thing for the rest of your life? if so, let her go

if you ever see yourself getting married somewhere down the road, your going to have to settle down..

you have to decide do you want that freedom, or do you want to have a partner in life that will stick with you through anything (if shes wifey material of course). whats more important to you?

I am in a 5 year long relationship, the girl I have is perfect goodie two shoes I met in church, Definitely Wife material.

However am getting tired and unsatisfied. Probably understand how u will feel if you are tied down