Met this girl (22) hb 8.5 on a bus. Have chatted with her, went into a coffee shop and turned out she worked there. Good flirting, light kino.

Had a date set up last saturday, but i had to bail. she invitied me over sunday night, went to a concert instead. Monday invited her out, she sent me a message like 6 hours later. Didnt respond for a day or two. Tonight invited her over to drink some wine and carve pumpkins. This response:

HB:Ah id love too but I'm exhausted and still kind of sad and in shock (dont know what thats about). And i dont feel like going back outside in this weather I just took the best shower ever..hah

Seeming to be difficult to get together with this girl. Working on other girls, but would like to still pursue this one. Recommendations?

also, worth asking about the sad and shocked?

give her 3 chances, keep trying, get together with her and sleep with her

sounds good. i think ill just cut off contact till the weekend

yeah dont ask about the sad and shocked. My policy is if you aren't just going to come out and tell me what it is... if you need me to pry to be able to tell me whatever it is, then i dont care to know. She'll end up telling you why she was sad and shocked when she realizes you aren't going to ask.

Strange. She just texts me:

HB:But hey if it's not too late you should stop by I've got a couple friends over and were smoking a bit..

she flaked her flake. some rich irony.

thanks for the advice guys, by the way.

go get her.

took her to bed twice this week at her place already.

just had to set up a date and it was pretty easy. pumpkin carving allowed for another time to set up secxual tension instead of going right into.

her after, "i did not expect that happening, im usually a classy girl" hah