Right last week hooked up with this girl twice (we've had sex before) the first time was great and the next day she initiated first contact after leaving my house in the morning basically starting she loved the sex the night before and was mega horny so she wanted more that night.

Got her around mine, got her naked, caveman fucked her to the point she was screaming and shouting. She slept over again and left in the morning wearing one of my t-shirts. Later that day she text me saying "Your cock felt so fucking good, its massive!"

The last time I had contact with this girl was on Saturday, I messaged her the stop thinking about me line. She said "Its so hard not to though " I then said "Its because I make you cum so hard" she said "I KNOW!"

Anyway didn't contact her over the weekend as I didn't see the point as she went home from uni to see her parents. She got back on monday.

I text her yesterday saying

"Hows my 2nd favourite student doing, you best be looking after my shirt!"

Pretty much been a day and no response...any thoughts? plus I want my fucking shirt back!

There is a chance that she has buyers remorse or thinks you only want to fuck and nothing more. But......

My first instinct is she wanted to fuck and you were the lucky guy to get that ass! Prolly could turn this into a FB situation if you play your cards right.

If you don't want to lose the shirt, don't let her borrow the shirt! Just saying.


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She text me back, think its because she's still at home. She can be quite strange.

Anyway heres the continuation for review:

Me: Hows my 2nd favourite student doing, you best be looking after my shirt!

Her: Only 2nd!? Ofcourse, I'm wearing it right now in fact.

Me: Fraid so, you've got to provide with some proper legal support to be higher and we'll see, u out 2nite?

Her: Haha you would be fucked then! Nah I'm still at home

Me: Dntt lijes, u would ne shirt aint half travelling (I was drunk by this point, so I didn't reply afterwards as it would look weird)

Her: ahahah you make sense, my mum likes the shirt.

- Stop texting as I was drunk and with a shitload of girls so did some gaming. No numbers tho, got waaaaay too drunk to be attractive -

Me: She has GREAT taste. Wear it when I see you next.

Seriously, all you have to do here is NOT fuck up by overthinking things.

totally agree.


i never understand posts like this. you were the fucking man. shes telling you she loves your cock, telling you youve got a massive dick and she obv loves the sex. your job is pretty much done now. let her chase you, dont get needy, game other girls and work her in when you get the chance. and ffs wait for her to text you first. nice job, now dont fuck it up.

Ahaha very true. My OP was posted during a traumatic, emotional MDMA comedown so I was just being a bit of a dick.

Anyway for reference/review purposes again:

Me: She has GREAT taste. Wear it when I see you next, only that!

Her: Theres a problem my mother decided to wash it so its at home lol

Me: Woah you definitely owe me on this one. tsk tsk you're slacking!

Her: I was in a hurry, going home again on sat il get it then.

Me: You best do, I'll ttyl sexy.

Her: I'll make it up to you.

One thing here man. Let's take this out of the "game" for a second. Look at your texts. You're overreacting to miniature things here. Sure you're trying to be playful, but it's not playful if you repeat your point several times.
Here you're making the shirt thing a bigger deal than it is. I'm guessing it's not really THAT big of a deal to you is it? Or is this shirt something your dead great grandmother gave to you as a last gift? If not then, fuck it who cares!
I see what you're trying to do, act as if you are in the power position and not take her shit. Even with your first text of "How's my 2nd favourite student doing, you best be looking after my shirt!" But she wasn't giving you shit in the first place. You're making "shit" up by overreacting to little things.

Imagine you would've said:

Her: Theres a problem my mother decided to wash it so its at home lol

Me: Well it was either that...or topless. I guess that only leaves one option

Or if you want to tease --

Me: You can't be trusted! I'm gonna have to call the shirt police and hunt you down missy!

Here you are playful, but not in an overreactive way, as it's OBVIOUS you're joking. In the first example you're being playful and sexual. These are just examples, there are many other things to say.

It's best to get out of this mindframe of "I have the power and you do things I like or I punish you" and rather get into the "We're a team, let's play and tease each other a bit." Keep the interaction positive, especially through text. Had you not fucked this girl, I'm pretty sure she would have lost interest as you come off a little overreactive over your little shirt and a bit of a bossy guy too with your last text.

Hopefully this was of some insight to you. You're both on the same team. Have fun. Move the conversation forward in a positive way. Every now and then, maybe throw in a harsher tease, and if she reacts negatively, ignore her reaction and move the conversation forward in a positive direction. (I sometimes full on do the team mindset, if she has a bad reaction, I go "Let's fly to Rome and eat straciatella ice-cream. Wait, can you fly?") Something like that. But that's damage control.

Have fun, be playful. Don't be an asshole.

Cheers for the post man, loved it. Definitely use this for reference in the future. I go for the "power plays" with this girl because she does have a submissive side and she can be a bit weird sometimes.

Okay right so tomorrow would something like this be more playful/better (I go by a "If I don't have her coming around mine within 6 texts then drop for the day" rule)

Me: Haha I know there's plenty of things you can do to make up for it. I won't hunt you down just yet then

or just a complete reopen or just leave till she chases.

Also its her birthday on friday (mines on monday so I definitely want some hot birthday sex) what would be a good PUA thing to do.

why are you not getting sexual with her?

You're totally fucking killing the mood that shes attempting to display

Go 50 shades of grey on her

Complete reopen. Stop reacting to her. Sometimes you can literally IGNORE her texts and go on with what you said. Every text you ever send must contain VALUE. And every word in every text must contain VALUE. Must BE of VALUE. Remember that. That even goes for "haha's" and "lol's". Why send them? They contribute nothing. At least in my opinion. She should be reacting to YOUR texts if anything, you're reacting to hers. "I'll make it up to you" "I know there's plenty..." see, you're responding here. Don't worry, you've already shown her that she'll make it up to you. She's realized that by herself. Now move on. Don't nail it into her brain. She's got it. Your text would not move it FORWARD. Remember, move FORWARD. Always.

Just reopen with something playful if you wish to text. But your text should have a goal. What is that goal? Get her to your place? Meet up sometime in the future? Raise attraction? (No need here I guess, since she obviously loves your dick already).

It really is QUALITY and not QUANTITY when it come to texting. You could have two words in a text which results in her sending you a novel. Why? Because those two words were of value, stirred her emotions, and then raised her investment and attraction to you. Think hard about what you send, and ask yourself, do I really need this? Also, What would James Bond say? That's a good one. (James Bond wouldn't send texts though!) But the idea is James Bond doesn't fuck around with meaningless words. He says stuff that matters.

As for her birthday, see if she invites you. If not just send her a "happy birthday sexy" or something on the day, and don't be upset, you've got other stuff to do remember? When it comes to yours, invite her over - "It's my Birthday, it would be cool if you came over and celebrate!" No fancy texts. Just plain and straight forward.

It's that time of the month for her.

Maybe it's that simple.

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call instead of text, make it happen again, give her a few shots then let her come to you and move on if it isn't working out

Reopened and now I'm gonna go for a shocker. I can't call her because she's at university so don't moan about that.

Me: Smile if you masturbate in the shower.

Her: Thats all I do with my life mate.

Me: I want to fuck you senseless.

Her: Feelings mutual.

At this point I thought fuck it, tried to call her but no answer. If she wants to fuck she can call me back.

Stop being needy. That was needy. Seriously imagina you had two other girls. Would you text this one something like this? Or would you just keep it real and text her when you felt like having her over again?

There is no need forgames any more man. You've already fucked her. You've won. Stay down to earth now. When you want her to one over just tell her so. "Hey, I've got a bottle of red wine. Come share it with me."I've got a bad comedy DVD sitting here. Come watch it with me." "Hey you should come over tonight." Whatever man.

Non need to "raise attraction" or "raise comfort". That's done. Things are sexual between you. Cool. Don't be needy now. You will drive this girl away of you keep texting her stuff like that and don't actually tell her to come over. Just tell her to hang out. That's it.

Okay cool, I get it. Il text her "Happy Birthday" today and then leave it till she contacts me.

Cheers bro.

Interesting, she just text me saying "Its my birthday!" obviously she wants a reaction but the original message stands, she gets a "Happy Birthday sexy"