I went back to university after the on year of army, all the people whom I tend classes are new for me, few who I know from earlier. And ofcourse there´s one girl. I´ve noticed she looks at me quite a lot. (I always sit furher back from her so it´s easy to see.)

Two weeks ago we had a lesson where we had to do some experiments, we were in one team.
So I was putting weights on the object and she´s writing down the numbers. We messed up, and had to do it all over again becasue she had to tell me when to stop putting the weights on . (This was hour long experiment.)
Overall it was fun, it was first time I got to speak with her. I teased her about it, she was laughing and enjoing it.

Few days go by and I wanted to talk to her more. I wanted to open her with something playful like "Ready to make a mess next week?" in person. But she is never alone, always with some certiain male friends, who I dont know. So this didnt happen. On saturday, I didnt add her, just sent a message in fb. I knew facebook would be shit, but still better than nothing.

I went with basically same message I wanted to tell her in person.
She responded: "haa yes we could...so we get to sit there more than others, again...Must take max from lesson!"
next day I respond with: "It was quite fun. And you were the only one who, didnt take the max - lazybones ."

No response for that.
Yesterday we had that same lesson again just different experiment + it was like 7 people in group. So I was standing on the one side of machine... doing work, she on the other + the other people around. I could tell she was nervous, she was also blushing. We didnt talk to eachother at all, just looks.

Now I think ill just be cool like always, if I see her alone I go talk to her in school, open with "Arent you such a popular one" (because shes always with some friends). - That doesnt sound needy to me SPAM. Or write her on fb something like "Woah, choclatecookies with milk are the best! "

What would you do?

You're too much in your head with trying to say the right thing and come across as cool and funny. Instead of trying to build rapport with her on facebook or waiting for the opportune moment when she is alone in class, just come right out and tell her you'd like to take her out sometime. She may get scared and say no, or it may be a little awkward. But at least from that point onward both you and her know what's up between you two. You will no longer have to plan your avenue of approach and worry about what to say. All the cards will be on the table and she can either call or fold. If she calls, great. You have a date. If she folds, oh well, boo hoo, move on.

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Thanks for feedback. Yeah, I guess you´re right, Im thinking too much about it...

I dont know how this happened but she is in my head. Something is bugging me. Shes not some super hot girl, but when we´re around each other I feel the tension, my heart heart is beating totally different and inside is like burning - haha, Im serious.
I easily can talk/tease/whatever with hotter girls than her and nothing above happens, but not with her.. This makes it alot harder, somehow I have to overcome it.

Now I have started talking more with other girls, just because not to think about her.

I dont get this girl - in class while Im sitting on the other side of room she´s writing down some notes and taking quick short looks at me.
Similar thing when shes talking to her male friend who´s she sitting with. She leans towards him telling something and at same time she takes those looks at me.

So from thursaday school is over for current week, I send her msg at fb "woah, chocklatecookies with in evening are unbelivebly sweet!".
Its been 1,5 days since I sent it,no respone.

I get to see her on monday at class. She always sits with her male friend and at the break she usually goes to bathroom or idk where/doesnt matter.
Now this is what im going to do:
If she leaves class I wait for her just outside of room till she comes back. If not then I walk up to her desk and say to her friend "Morning, Im going to do you afavor and kidnap *name* now, dont worry you´ll get her back soon." - hopefully she doesnt resist and comes if she does then ill take it further.

When we are on our own I´ll say to her this. "Litsten *name*, I think you´re a awsome girl and I want to get to know you. Great if its okay with you, but if you dont want that then tell me and Ill respect that. Ill promise never talk to you again and you cant look at me anymore."

Depending how she reacts Ill maybe add "think about it and let me know". After Im done, Ill just walk back to class.

During this hole time Im going to use a much kino as I can. Putting hand on her lower back while leading her out of class, both hands on her shoulders while pushing her against the wall. When Ill get to the "pull part" Ill take my hands away.

This is how I played it through my mind, toughts?