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I kind of asked her if she got home allright and some small talk
(No need for small talk, save the small or big talk for an actual conversation. Texting is a NO NO For small talk unless its really small and you are really funny) . I ended with here going to a movie.
The day after that I texted her goodmorning bla bla bla and asked her go see a movie with me on wednesday, this was sunday
(too soon for movies! Movies are usually reserved for when there's already enough attraction and some comfort... perhaps you didn't build enough attraction. YES, even if you kissed doens't mean attraction has been properly created). She was hesitant and said something like: ''Yeah maybe, I'll see if I can.''
( Bet she has 2 legs, 2 arms, pair of eyes, boobs and vagina.. OF COURSE SHE CAN GO TO THE MOVIES.. what She really means is "Ill see If i want"; she doesn't)
The next day (monday) she replied she couldn't go because she already went to some schoolevent.
(giving excuses, this behaviour has to be "punished")
After this I figured If I pushed further I would seem needy. So I replied: ''That's too bad, cause the rest of the week I'm busy.''
(is this your idea of punishment? Your idea of not being pushy? She already said no once, do you really think she cares if you're gonna be busy for the rest of your week/life?. There's no need to state that you'll be busy, she does't care... By saying "I'm busy the rest of the week" you're saying: "you will loose me, last chance, make up your mind"... You're actually BEING pushy.)
She: ''Yeah, me too.'' (She's making herself unavailable for the rest of the week. She's trying to tell you: Do not call me)
Then, I asked her where she usually goes out.
(She's acting distant, giving you excuses and showing herself un interested and unavailable and you're still asking her more about her life?. Why would a fun, interesting, cool man of options like you be interested in her life???)
She replied by naming some clubs and bars ( including the one I picked her up)
I asked if she was going there again this friday.
Again, she blew my off by saying she had to go to some family-party.
(Of course she blew you off. You're making her feel like aslut.. "I want to meet you, same setting, same bar, same you and me", besides this, Why asking her where is she going to be, what places does she like... This sounds needy and too interested..)
At this point I was kinda like F* this, so I texted:
''Aah, well okay. I guess you are going to have to wait a while before you can see me again. I know it's difficult.'' xD
(she must have laughed at this one... You showed interested, you seemd needy, you were pushy, you asked too many questions...she's surely gonna have a hard time coping with your absence.. ¬¬)
aaaand.. no respone after that.
Girls are unpredictable beings.. There's a chance that she might call you if she's really bored, or maybe if she thinks she was too harsh on you... But any ways, you should move on...
-Next time, do not text until atleast 24 hrs have passed
-Usually if the girls are not super hot, they dont do good with negs, try something else.. (this is just my opinion)
-Do not try to look like a gentleman by asking "are you ok, are you home? Hope you slept well, etc etc... That's BS.. She just kissed you and she might have had sex with you, she needs a man, not just a gentle man. Give her thrills
-Texting is no good for small talk. Leave small talks for actual in-person conversations, or well, maybe phone calls, but for texting, keep it short, funny and with space between your and her texts (she texts you, reply 30 minutes later, and so on..)
-Learn to identify her excuses, that's bad behavior, punish it. Do not ask her more and more about herself, do not make her feel desired and important if shes being bitchy...
Thats my opinion... Many may differ, but well.. that's what you asked
Gook luck and keep learning !!
CHAT
