After being in the PUA scene for basically just summer and getting relatively good with it I'm now sort of just not liking it. I completely understand that for some stupid reason we have to act in a certain way to increase the odds of getting laid but I'm getting insanely frustrated by the fact that I put this amount of effort in but other males that I know seem to do perfectly fine without being like this.

Example 1: My housemate Holli is a fucking stunner. She's got a great personality to boot and isn't stuck up her own arse about how good she looks. She's also ditzy and has low common sense so shes great to hang around. (I see her as a sister so no PUAing here) Her boyfriend however is the most clingy thing I have ever seen, he's awesome and funny but he is insanely clingy.

Example 2: My housemate Alex is so quiet, I've been to parties with him and he's just so shy till he gets drunk. I don't think he knows much about pulling. HOWEVER this guy gets laid a fair bit. Its bizarre, I've never seen anything like it. He has a weird spottyish face and a blonde curly haired afro yet he has returned home from university with notes passed to him from girls that say stuff like "Be mine angel hair xxxxx" and he brushes it off as "Childish innit, should come talk to me."

Hell the other day he fucked some girl on his course, who then spent a day crying and obsessing about him because the girl he's interested in became available again. THE GUY BARELY TALKS. At the moment I put it down to the fact that he's on a sculpture course and builds shit all day. THese girls are at least HB7

Sorry for ranting on a forum like this but it's something that has been really annoying me. I want to be myself around girls but obviously that isn't how it is for me.

Yea, I'm distraught that Reggie Bush gets to bang the hottest broads in Hollywood so I'm going to give up on pua since I'm not him. WTF???

Newsflash. Some guys will always have it better than you. I suppose you can throw a pitty party for yourself but I doubt anyone besides you will show up. How about this...instead of giving up and focusing on what other dudes lives are like. Invest in your own and do what you need to in order to improve yourself and give yourself value in the eyes of those you wish to attract.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

It seems as though neither of these two gents are outcome dependent, are you?

Are you approaching?

Who gives a shit about THEM, where do you feel your stumbling block is?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

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words of a very wise man!

You get out of it, what you put into it. You have to be self motivated. You have to talk a lot with your friends about everything you did when you went out sarging to get feed back/ different view points. You have to say what am I good at....mystery? magic? music? cocky funny? being james bondish? then say what parts do I need to make me this bad ass transformer and get what you need. After spending the energy in figuring out all of this you'll find what you need to be you + have the tools to make you look like your reality is better and live it, till it becomes natural to you and girls become of your every day fiasco.

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The strong live off the weak and the clever live off the strong.