Ok so here is the situation. My gf and I had a bit of a rough patch a few months ago, while we were going through this she met a guy who has a few of the same classes with her in college (he sat beside her and started talking), since she didn't know a lot of people she continued to talk to him. Now this guy asked her to hang out to which she said she couldn't, when we broke up (for a week) he asked her to hang out again but she said although she thought about it she couldn't bring her self to do it because she was not over me. Now we are back together and things are going amazing! but this guy still texts her...about what i don't know (could be innocent stuff) because I don't snoop through her phone. She still sits next to him in class....when I asked if she has been talking with him she told me he texted her and told her to come out with him and his friends the other weekend but she did not reply. I also spotted him texting her to say that class had been canceled yesterday.

I have said nothing to her about it! but its starting to irritate me! Im not sure if she has interest in this dude or if he is just a hang along, but either way I think the fact that she knows he likes her and she continues to sit next to him in class and talk, text him back, and perhaps even hang out between classes (this I dont know if she does this), bothers me!! how should I handle this? I have no proof that he has crossed a line other then asking her to hang out?

Obviously, he has interest. Luckily for you, despite showing what appear to be signs of jealousy (even if they're slight), she's not reacting to it. Stop asking about him and stop worry about it. She's obviously into you and not him or she would be fucking him instead. By worrying, you'll subconsciously communicate that there's a problem and it will push her away; right into his arms.

Whenever you feel really jealous, like when you find out he's recently texted her or asked her out, do something REALLY AMAZING for your girlfriend. Buy her flowers or take her on a suprise date, or eat her out a bunch or something, lol. The reason I say this is because you and this other guy are basically in a competition for her affection. But think about how much of a disadvantage he has compared to you. He has to sit there and text her some lame ass text and pretend like he's not trying to game her, yet you can take it to a whole new level and actually get to be with her and have a good time and establish a romantic connection. If she was dating both of you then it would be a level playing field. But as is, you have a tremendous advantage over him. Just continue winning over the girl with your own game, and whatever you do, don't come across as jealous or insecure.

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Great advice so far guys! thanks! I figured he is just an orbiter who my gf perhaps had a slight crush on, but her interest in him is clearly no where near what it is for me!

It does bother me that they see so much of each other! but that's life when your dating an attractive girl...shes going to have orbiters and I can't control what she does....if shes going to cheat she will cheat.

It still bothers the shit out of me! I know if I was in her shoes she would go crazy with jealousy!

Caveman fuck her!!! She will not be thinking about anything else after you do this!

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haha i do, she loves our sex. She has not really given me any signs of low interest, we have sex, she sleeps at my place most nights, she tells me she loves me ect ect so I dout I have anything to worry about...although I could be wrong.

i'm seeing ego, low confidence and butthurt here. I'm pretty straight forward when it comes down to this kind of stuff.

Your girlfriend had a choice, it's obvious what decision she's sticking by. The minute you start showing weakness, by questioning her about this guy, she will start losing interest because let's face it, a whiny guy that cant handle such situations is just a pain in the ass anyway. The guy texting her is turning into a needy nerd, you cant keep your girl from being ''picked up'' by other guys forever. Accept it, be better then your opponent, and beat him at your own game. Your girlfriend doesn't do charity, she doesn't stick with you because she feels she needs to.