I'm beginning to get some kiss close. I know it doesn't sound like much but 3 girls in the last month compared to 20 years before my first kiss.

After my first kiss, it became so much easier for me. I just go in and do it and the girl will just kiss back. I play around, maybe run my hand up and down her thigh before I start fingering her.

She would moan and groan, telling me how good it feels but in two cases, their "moral" sense stops me from getting it in. One time, she just kept apologizing to me while I was fingering her. She then told me she is seeing someone who she wouldn't want doing this (sex), so she couldn't have sex with me.

The second time, she kept telling me she is in her most fertile time of her cycle even though I have a condom.

Am I a unlucky bugger or what? I thought fingering them makes them want my cock inside them but in these two cases, I was sorely dissappointed

LMR is not unusual at all. You just need to keep escalating, two steps forward one step back.

Then again, theres a huge difference between playful resistance where you need to keep on escalating, and a sincere "No". You don't want to be a rapist.

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When she starts resisting, pause for a min. Turn the light on, move away from her and do something different. After a min, escalate again and if she still resist, stop for another min too. If she is horny after a couple of times she will no longer resist. However, keep in mind sometimes girls are just not DTF and you cant do anything about it. ( for example: she is not comfortable enough, she is a virgin, she is afraid of her rep, or she might have a serious relationship with someone). Good job on ur first kiss man lol. Soon you'll get ur first lay keep it up

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I haven't tried this yet, but apparently the cloth condom works great.

Basically, avoid fingering her, but instead dry hump her with her panties on.

Then leave her panties on as you try and put your dick into her through her underwear, pushing in as far and hard as possible.

After a while she will become so sexually frustrated that you haven't fingered her, but you're already basically inside her, and she'll give in.

last minute resistance is common. Have you tried fingering her until you take off her panties or get verbal confirmation that sex is going to happen? Perhaps you need more foreplay before u start fingering her.

Escalation, escalation, escalation.

And to be honest, after you get your first F-Close, I'm pretty sure it will have the same effect as your first K-Close. It will get MUCH easier from there on out!

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