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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 3:05 am 
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My friend recently told me that he is more successful if he mentions to a women during their first interaction that "this is could work" "i like this" "you are awesome" and other statements to indicate a potential mating/dating situation.

He is a bio-psych major in university, taking a course about neurology and romance. He hypothesized that indicating potential relationship compatibility increases your chances for longterm mating/dating/fuckbuddy success.

however, it only works without explicitly or obviously saying "i could date you" "you could be my girlfriend" or something stupid like that. just something ambiguous that she can interpret in such a way that she thinks about you in her sexual and romantic thoughts.

He said that this technique would decreases your Same Night Lay (One night stand) chances but increase long term chances

I tried this for the first time last week and i fucked that girl twice this week. she says she likes me and wants to see me again soon. It seemed like the technique worked.

What is your opinion on this tactic?

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 4:25 am 
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I say if a girls is awesome that she's awesome.

Last time I was making out with a girl asked me if I like her? I asked if she likes me. She said yes and then I just said I like her too. Let's say just that it ended well. But I wouldn't say it's the saying of words "you're awesome" or whatever version that matters.

The thing about compliments to pay attention though, is that they gotta besincere, cause if you don't whatever you say will be used against you.

As far as saying she's cool or whatever compliment, imo it just has to sound sincere (and better be sincere cause if it's not I'd just suggest describing her positive qualities, and if she has none, YOU need to get some standards).

Also, I'm a strong believer in inner game when you don't know what to do. Trust in your gut.

Which brings us to another point. What's your gut. How do you know when it's your inner, genetic manliness that has evolved over millions of years and succeeded in getting laid thousands of times is talking and when it's the little whiny bitch that was implanted in you by societym insecurities, fear and other crap talking.


The difference is whether that inner voice comes from point of strength. You're a man. YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG. As men, we want to be loved. Women want to be protected/feel safe/be weak and not worry, and know that her man will take care of the problems/dangers.

When your inner wuss is talking, she'll feel it, through your voice, words, body language, in one way or another she'll know it. Thus, train your gut to be strong. Manly.

more like GAR!!!

If you're GAR whatever you say, no matter how stupid, she'll find it appealing. You can improvise really shitty poetry but if you're saying in a GAR tone she'll love it. tested.

it's not just about long-term, even in short-term, at first time silly, overly dramatic GAR can be extremely effective.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 2:42 pm 
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J slay my man, love to see you back, someone with value around here for a change, hey dude! it is called "emotional connection" sexaddit/poeticsluack do this a lot, guys like "Bill Clinton" and Sean Stephenson etc... Connect with people, it is a very strong weapon, here is from my "ny time best selling book" lol:

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Emotional connection
A good way during the bluff (minimal talking after investment in the girl) is to establish an emotional connection. This is how I have done it in the past:
The one I use when dancing is, “Wowow, you know what I like about you is that you dance like no one is watching. You are happy, you do not give a fuck what people think, you do not mind sweating. I love your energy. Damn, you are too good to be true. Stop, playing! Is this an act or are you really like this?”
Hb: ”No, this is me.”
Then I go, “Awesome!” and high five her.

Now, sexaddict911 combines emotional connection with extraction. Look how he does it—just change the talking with dancing or having a good time and your own shit:
a) Listen, I really enjoy talking with you, I can get a really good sense of your personality, and it’s great. I don’t want this evening to end. Let’s go to my place and have another drink and just relax.
b) Who are you? [target] I am completely intrigued by you. I never thought you’d have such a fascinating personality. I feel completely comfortable with you. Do you feel the same? [If she replies yes] awesome. Let’s get out of here. [Grab her hand and guide her away. If she starts to ask questions or shows a bit of defense, simply reassure her she is safe. Then keep going.

c) I have an overwhelming desire to kiss and cuddle you. [Gauge her reaction. If it’s positive, say:] I am not big on public displays of affection. Let’s go to my place and watch a movie.

d) I’ve never met a woman like you. You seem to have a very good soul. You are actually becoming more attractive the more I talk to you. That’s amazing. I feel completely comfortable with you. [If she replies the same, you say:] Let’s get out of here.

e) Wow! When I first met you, I just saw a pretty face. Now I can see you are truly a beautiful person. I am so glad I took the chance to come talk to you. I hear stories from friends about women who are hot on the outside but have no substance. It’s refreshing to meet a woman like you. Let’s blow this pop stand. We can go somewhere else fun. [As you are taking her out of the current venue, then you could use the “Gotta stop at home” comment, or just flat out invite her home.]

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This is great feedback. It seems that its not necessary to say it then, but to convey an emotional connection that is beyond just lets fuck. I like the ridiculousness in the conversations, Im great at that but would this be leading a girl on as well? if so, just never say that you want to date otherwise you are stuck between a rock and a hard place haha

I plan on trying sexaddicts tactics. Ive used similar ones for fuckbuddies and past gfs but it would be interesting to use them for a snl/ons.

PS Skills! you completed the book finally haha the excerpt looks good man.

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This is great feedback. It seems that its not necessary to say it then, but to convey an emotional connection that is beyond just lets fuck. I like the ridiculousness in the conversations, Im great at that but would this be leading a girl on as well? if so, just never say that you want to date otherwise you are stuck between a rock and a hard place haha

I plan on trying sexaddicts tactics. Ive used similar ones for fuckbuddies and past gfs but it would be interesting to use them for a snl/ons.

PS Skills! you completed the book finally haha the excerpt looks good man.

^ exactly to be honest i barely use it... I rather the "arousal"/"sexualization game", In other words i sell a future l amazing sexual experience, for me it works better since my goal is not to date but to fuck.... As warped mindless say focus on arousal, but with some girls this work well and for some guys that are not too arousal oriented, or it can be thrown in the mix, depends on the situation... Hey dude! i want a talk to you via pm...

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In my opinion i think its okie to be used at the right time , and you have to be good with game to use it because its like a knife with two edges , you have to at first need to know if she likes you first , then you tell her that you like her , however this would work with your typical HB3-6 , but if you're facing a 9 or above , then i dont think it would work , unless you have created massive attraction and built a great connection , otherwise you're just another beta-orbiter that tries to get her , because lets face it , Hotties are being chased by alot of betas whom are telling them they like them and licking up their ass , if you wanna get her , then differentiate yourself ;)

Iam against the use of this technique , because an alpha male never tells a woman he like her , he shows her that he does ;)

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In my opinion i think its okie to be used at the right time , and you have to be good with game to use it because its like a knife with two edges , you have to at first need to know if she likes you first , then you tell her that you like her , however this would work with your typical HB3-6 , but if you're facing a 9 or above , then i dont think it would work , unless you have created massive attraction and built a great connection , otherwise you're just another beta-orbiter that tries to get her , because lets face it , Hotties are being chased by alot of betas whom are telling them they like them and licking up their ass , if you wanna get her , then differentiate yourself ;)

Iam against the use of this technique , because an alpha male never tells a woman he like her , he shows her that he does ;)
the point of the tactic is not to show her that you are a beta male but that you would be interested in continuing the interaction.

In context, when i used this tactic with the original girl, I was cuddling and hooking up on a couch and she tells me that im cool/awesome/bullshit.. then I said simply, this could work. In this way, she puts herself out there first and then i reciprocate by hinting at something more than the immediate situation and boom. I have fucked her almost everyother day since that weekend.

I think that this tactic can only be used after you get her to the point where is already attracted to you and is thinking about if you are just a one night stand or something more. therefore, by using an ambiguos response she assumes you want more without telling her that you only want to be fuckbuddies (which i am now :) ) or dating or marriage or etc.


@Hobbit - I really like your cognitive dissonance reference. It is very accurate. I think that you need to be sincere when you say this and then you can lead the relationship into whatever category you want. I dont explicitly say what type of relationship i want so in the upcoming interactions I will define the relationship with my actions.

What do you think of this?

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