Met HB 8.5 at Starbucks about a week ago. We hit it off, visited for a couple of hours and I was able to kiss close. Texted her for first time last night.

"Hey...I've been busy with the music festival, finals, and picking up random cuties at Starbucks. I want to go out to this sushi place. How does Thursday sound?"

Her reply:

"i would love to go out Thursday! But i have to admit, I'm not a big fan of sushi."

Was thinking of responding with...my your picky or some slight neg. I have no intention of changing the venue. Thoughs?

T.K.'s right, negs are for assholes, just be nice, not like a nice guy, but like a good guy, keep yourself and your pride and pick what's the best for both of you.

Confidence isn't arrogance, you're not better than her and you're not trying to be better than her, you just like her and want her to like you aswell.

Recently I've been really light-hearted, nice, loving, etc at school and people just keep sticking around me, even the guys I think of as alphas help me out no questions asked. Girls flirt me up all the time. I'm not a hottie, it's just the good guy personality.

What I think negs are good for: Bitches and only bitches and your girl there ain't one.

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She wants you obviously but not the sushi. If she wasnt into you she wouldnt have agreed to go with you somewhere she doesnt even like. Dont neg just be funny about it and choose a different restaurant

Change the venue. It's not a shit test you know, more that she really does not like Sushi.


Juts say 'ok I will choose another place, but I am not telling you in advance, it's a secret'.

They love all this intrigue BS.

You need to change the venue, but you are right in that you don't want it to seem like you are accomodating her. I would just text/call her back and tell her that there's this new restaurant down the street that you've been wanting to try and then confirm the date and time you are picking her up. Don't even mention the sushi place again or the fact that you are changing your plans. Just be confident and plan the date and tell her where you are going. If anything you text or say ends in a question mark, then you have done something wrong. Don't ask her, tell her.

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