Once i was flirting with a girl and it was going well but when i said that i like her directly and want to be more than a friend the attraction just fizzled out and she stopped conversations ...

now with another girl should i just keep flirting and giving out signs or say iam attracted to her and i like her ?

Always better to be direct...

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HOW you say it matters just as much if not more than WHAT you say.

Personally I much rather speak with my body than words. You don't have to verbally spell it out for her if you can escalate physically. Plus if she shies away from it you can try again later whereas if you she rejects you verbally its game over.

Verbal - social fluff, humor, rapport
Physical - sexual tension, escalation, seduction

There is a few ways how the "I like you" can be conveyed.

If you said it like, "I like you, we should hang out." That is more of friendly way of putting it

From what you're describing, sounds like you said it in a romantic way like she's your girlfriend already, which is too soon and will instantly destroy the attraction as you said without here actually knowing you.

I say "I like you all" the time in the beginning but casually and non-pushy go immediate get the girl in bed, than later if that I say it less but show it...and that's where the romantic feelings come in.

sing her a song

Ditto

Just go with flow. Saying I like you/wanna be your bf is for kids. Just escalate things by taking her out and showing YOURSELF a good time and, of course, think of her having a good time as well.

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