I'm pretty used to getting numbers and escalating to dates now. I've developed a simple, successful way of setting up the D2 - just talking and having fun like you usually would, then propose meeting up whilst you're at the high point of the conversation. I surprised myself last week when I managed to set up 3 dates in a week!

But it's keeping in contact with these girls over a long period of time that gets me.

Recently I've lost contact with a girl I extracted in night game and dated. Sometimes I just forget to text or contact them via any means. I don't want to have my phone buzzing all the time, but I don't want to feel distant from the girls I number close during night game.

Need your opinions with this world!

Cheers,
Ninja

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Honestly, most guys text way too much (in my humble opinion). I make a point to only text to either set up the next meet-up (i.e. where, when) or to answer direct questions. It's perfectly reasonable to not respond to text messages that don't ask questions. Furthermore, talking on the phone is way better than texting.

So, in short: text her when you want to invite her out to something. Ask her what she's doing on a particular night or ask her if she'd be interested in doing XYZ with you. Refrain from texting anything else unless it's in response to a question she has for you. It is also okay to respond to the "day after" text (i.e. the one she writes you to let you know she had fun on your date). In that case, say something like, "Nice, we should do it again sometime soon"

Does that help?

-Wolf

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It does actually. I was quite worried that I would have to text like 3 girls at once simultaneously all the time

I've actually thought about phoning a girl to arrange a date lol, she isn't texting back lately but we're still talking over FB. Just solidify the connection and whatnot.

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My text advice is never text more frequently than the girl, and never text longer texts than her.

Just match what she does but you will have to initiate most of the time as girls usually never text first. If they do its an nice IOI, as well as two in a row from the girl.

This.

Also I agree with what Wolf said. If you don't really want to be texting all the time, then don't. But do realize that you may loose more girls that way. Relationships, and dating is all about momentum. That is why if you push for a date within a few days of getting her number, you will have a much higher sucess rate than if you try to set it up 2 weeks later. After 2 weeks, you have lost momentum and she can't really remember how awesome you were and why she gave you her number.

Texting helps keep momentum up because you are in her mind as a romantic and sexual possibility. So the choice and the tradeoff is yours. Feel free to text less, but it will depend on how much the girl likes you as to how that decision helps or hinders you.

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From what it looks like, I'm probably going to have to initiate a lot of the time. Not to say she isn't interested but I haven't properly spoken to her in a short while.

Cheers dudes!

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