Twenty two percent of women in relationships receive oral sex, while 57 percent of men do. Men receive oral sex about 80 percent of the time in first-time hookups, whereas women receive it less than half the time. The concept of a man at his desk getting serviced by his secretary is all too familiar.

How do you guys feel about that? It’s safe to assume that enjoying oral sex is not a gendered activity, yet when do you see a woman expressing her enjoyment of the same kind of carnal attention? Would that be weird?

I do not know the accuracy of these figures but if only 57 percent of men do get BJ that IMHO is an outrage.

I would not even consider being with a girl who:

A - did not give head
B - did not give it properly and loved doing so.

Why have a car that never gets warmed up when you can have one that does.

Guys that accept this are AFC.

As for girls getting oral from me they have to be very clean and shaved and have to deserve it:)

Why do girls have to deserve it when you expect/demand it?

A lot of women don't enjoy oral sex, some of it is because most guys just have no clue they can't tell the clit from the anus, some of it is insecurity about the copulins (pheremone smell) arising from their vagina. I've had several women refuse oral sex from me and I love it. I love eating a girl out, it's awesome to make a woman cum moment after moment. I enjoy it immensely part of a power trip I suppose.

At the same time I've met tons of women who love it, they love getting ate out and they are very confident in their sexuality. It really is just dependent on the woman, some women love it some women hate it. Most women will only admit it to someone they are comfortable with though. That is just the basis of the society we live in, it's not ok in public, but it is ok in private to love it.

Personally I just feel most people are pretty horrible at oral sex, male and female. I don't feel many women give good blow jobs, yet they sit there and all claim they give the worlds best blow job. I've actually got to the point where I just for the most part refuse them because their vagina feels that much better. If a woman really enjoys giving blow jobs I let her because she enjoys pleasing but for the most part I don't ask women to do it they go on their own.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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It's all over the place based on my experience. Some girls like giving head, some hate it. Some girls love receiving oral, some don't really care. I like giving head to girls, but I won't do it on a heavy girl. I also don't really care if a girl doesn't like giving head, as long as she is DTF.

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man I must be a chick I rarely get blow jobs, But I always go down on girls. I am like that cheerleader that is really popular in HS. Good thing is I enjoy going down on girls & yeah I am really good at it. I make it my mission to get her off and I've got that down when I go down.

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"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

This. In my experience, a lot of women think they've got it down to a science, but they are lackluster. They focus on varying up speed and that's it. A lot of them don't even know to incorporate the balls. I imagine a lot of men are timid to make suggestions for fear of offending the girl, so they just take what they can get. Bad communication has wasted millions upon millions of blowjob enjoyment out there...

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Agree that most girls have no idea what pleases us but they all think they do and they even brag about it to their friends. What a crock of shit!


A great idea would be if an 'ultimate BJ guide' could be produced as a PDF and Kindle and made compulsory reading for all females once they reach puberty.

I find it a nuisance and a turn off always having to give them instructions once they get started.

Slower, fingers, both hands, softer, tongue, harder, balls etc.

99 percent of percentages on the internet are bullshit

I figure if a girl does it for me, it's only polite to return the favour.

Really? Ive never had a woman turn me down giving them oral... maybe I get them all worked up. I dont really ask... Its just part of my escalation.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Unless the chick looks unhygienic or overgrown in the crotch area I will always give, I find it awesome to do and find the touch, style which they like. Plus it's easy to drive them wild with it, if the gal is quivering before you even stick it in then the sex is always (in my experience) phenomenal.

As for receiving I've found it very rare that a girl will know what she is doing although most seem more than willing to give it a go. If anything head usually takes me further away from orgasm due to the gal being poor in technique though in the grand scheme of things this is generally no bad thing because I'm so pent up and eager at this stage that I will just throw her on the floor and fuck her brains out gorilla style.

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