| Hey! Guess what! I have really GREAT NEWS for you! No seriously, absolutely fucking GREAT news! I just figured this out.
You DO NOT need a good story to tell or anything like that! Because guess what? DHV Stories are just the surface of the DHV itself. The ACTUAL DHV is your inner state, your inner playful state.
There are several things to note here. Many people think that a DHV story or a certain technique will attract the girl. Sometimes this is true. But What is it it that REALLY attracts them? Why do these techniques work? And why do they only work best when you're in a good mood? Because the techniques themselves are not what the girls are attracted to. The techniques are just a messenger, a way to CONVEY your true DHV - Your INNER STATE and CONFIDENCE.
This is what girls are really attracted to. Try this; remember all the girls you got. How many of them got with you because of just one or two stories? What mood were you in when you got with them? Pretty good right? And now you tell the same story to another girl, but this time you're in a bad mood. Story's boring, right?
You could have two guys tell the exact same story, but the one who's got the playful vibe will be attractive (DHV), whereas the one who is monotonous will not. Because the DHV isn't the story. The girl isn't attracted to the story. She's attracted to you! she likes that beneath the story. The story is just something that conveys the inner, real you.
Then you have techniques like push pull and disqualifiers and cocky funny. All great, but why do they work, and when do they work best? They work because these are all things a true alpha male would naturally do anyway, if he had an abundance of women in his life. He would push pull because he is playful and likes to flirt and doesn't apologize for it. He would qualify a girl for the traits he truly likes, and disqualify her for the traits he doesn't like, because he is just honest and if he loses the girl it doesn't matter, there are other options out there for him. And many! And he would be cocky funny because he's confident and playful. Arrogant? Maybe. But more on the playful arrogant side, where he knows he's a dick, he's socially intelligent - hell that's why he's the alpha male!
And his inner state is strong, he doesn't care what the girl thinks. He's all out there, fun, playful, unapologetic, strong in his intent, doesn't mind touching and escalating. The DHV story is just a way to convey this stuff.
So how does this apply to you? Do some digging and find some cool stories to tell, but when you go out forget about the story. If you are in a good state, a good mood, a playful mood and mindset, the story will weave itself out of your subconscious and you will tell it when you want to tell it! In the meantime you will probably be telling her completely other stories that just randomly come to you!
Good luck!
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