Why am i so stupid... i should forget about status and find some low life girl vith low status, in high school wit 18 yrs abd fuck i living shit out of her, RIGHT??? No mater how she looks?

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how do these girls know your low status? You project that your of high status. Read the forum you'll find a lot of stuff!

For a role model. Do this exercise.

Imagine yourself being 10 years in the future. You have all the money and all the women you could ever want, you have an important high status job and you are the hero of your town. You are a celebrity for a good reason (like saving 10 people from a burning house despite the fact that you also had the lead role in Terminator 18 ).

Now, that is your role model.

How would that person be, what would that person do? That is who you could be today if you allowed yourself. People always wait around for permission to behave in a certain way, they dont think they deserve to "act above their station". Well, newsflash, your station is largely decided by how you act, so for the love of whatever, act above your station and make sure you grow into it.

When I started out I had a dream, my future self came to show me how much better life could be and told me that I was patethic. I realized that I was right so I started acting higher than I thought I deserved. Well, it worked, now I believe that I deserve it and nobody objects because I deserve it. Now I am that guy.

Also moving to another city helped because nobody knew who I was so when I walk into a bar like I am a rockstar, people assume that I am a rockstar. When before I had to wait in line to get into a pub, now I just enter and the owner makes me the guest of honor. Not because I pay money for it but because I act like it. People like confident people, they seldom cause trouble.

You have my official permission to act like the king of the world.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

THANK YOU SO MUCH! For this.

I will use this from today!

Can you help me with this - I need advice for how to dress attractive? Im 183 cm and 72kg, Im slim. How to dress to look attractive?

I was thinking of shirts and wests, and jeans...? How to choose colors?

Can you give me some advice on this?

I GUESS,

WHAT I WEAR SHOULD SHOW STATUS RIGHT????

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Not necessarily.

Your clothing should reflect who you are. If you are comfortable in Jeans and Tshirt, wear that. Wearing what you want to wear shows confidence.

I had a secret wish to dress like a rockstar but society held me back. It wasnt normal to dress like a rockstar unless you are a rockstar. But hey, who says that rockstars deserve to dress like rockstars? Who decides who is a rockstar and not. So I decided that I am a rockstar and started dressing like one. Nobody questions my dressing style anymore, people like it.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Getting back to the original topic, we teach others how to treat us, women included. That's why the only people in my life right now are either wings who are on my same level, or girls who are willing to put out. The friends who were negative....gone. The women who are manipulative and prudish....gone. It's like I'm an employer and my interactions with men and women are interviews. If they pass, they join the team. If they fail and try to do things their way or in a way that doesn't align with my wants and needs, then they're gone. Yes, I've had to push a lot of people away, but there's no point in being around people who only serve to work against you.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Exactly. In all social interactions there are tacit assumptions of the individuals status within the group. People send out "reality pings" like sonar to give them a framework of the groups dynamic. If nobody knows you, you can be of any status you want, the HB's there aren't mind readers, they can come up with tentative assumptions on your status by how you behave if that is all they go on. But.....but suppose you act like a high status individual in demeanor and body language and behaviour.? Well what happens then is you're "assigned" a high status position unless you fuck it up later. basically the human mind needs heuristics to work to and just accepting you as the high status is guy is the easier option and they drop into the frame.

Next time you're in a bar with your wingman just stand and watch people while you imagine and roleplay that you're the owners of the bar and as comfortable as you would be sat in your living room watching TV. The reactions you can get are the closest thing to spooky you can imagine.

Ok thanx but..

waht if she sees where I live, im not a milioner, what friends I have and so on.. she would se that im not high status, and she will say this is actor.. i dont like him now?

How to build life style like high status and so on?

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It is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles; if you do not know your enemies but do know yourself, you will win one and lose one; if you do not know your enemies nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle. -sun tzu

The problem is you dont know your enemy man, you probably dont even know yourself. Your opponent is not a man and never EVERRRR EVERRR will think like a man but you are a man!
your a man so you THINK LOGICALLY
BUT...
WOMEN.DONT.THINK.LOGICALLY.
WOMEN FEEEEEELLLLL EMOTIONALLYYYY
Your target is a women so you dont want to think "oh shes hot and i'm the nice guy that she supossedly wants so... we should...fuck..right???" *wrong buzzer* EHHHH WRONGGG. Regardless of what a woman says, she isnt thinking logically when she is attracted. Shes attracted to men who make her FEEL EMOTIONALY. Your not evoking feelings of attraction, so you arent getting the punani . In my experience pick-up is about feeling and vibing not about anythingg logicical ever because...

Attraction is not a choice - David Deangelo

My spoken like a true AFC> Average fucken chump. Don't take it as an insult. I was one too. Don't over think it you're being to analytical. Girls run on emotions. Good or bad they thrive on it. They love the roller coaster ride that an Asshole can offer. Also its all about attitude an being positive. Also about being Alpha an higher value. Also in life there are no rules. Just because your right for a girl does not mean she needs to go for you. Same if your total wrong for a girl an she needs to keep away from you. The only thing I can say is DHV is a good thing an that you show off your best parts an hide the LHV.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

You dont have to be successful to be high status. Sometimes your personality is enough, you should start building that up.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Ok, I get it.


From what I should start to build my personality?

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Your mind will always find answers to questions you ask it, no matter how self-defeating such questions may be. A more beneficial question would be "How is it I can learn from this situation?"

Start from finding your strongest point. If you are a good person, start there.

Then keep pushing your boundries, experience something you always wanted but never dared. Give yourself permission to try new things. Get as much experience as possible!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Ok. Will do that.

Can you tell me this...

How can I see what kind of girl is, is he acter, or in other words maybe she is
"slut" and maybe she is not, so if I go on her strong if she is really nice I will chase her away?

How to see that?

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