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Women like to be chased a little, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that (contrary to the PUA crap you'd read).
True. But there is an important distinction that needs to be mentioned. Opening a girl is chasing her. Texting her is chasing her. Calling her, chasing her. Anytime she doesn't respond back to you, and would disappear into oblivion unless you take the initiative to contact her again...that's chasing her.
There is one major difference in the way a pua chases and the way an AFC chases women. Both have to run down the women and get their attention.
But the pua then takes the lead and tells her to keep up. And the AFC just continues to lag behind her, asking if he can tag along.
PUAs won't want you believing in this, but there is much to be said about creating the illusion for the woman that at times she's in control - this is part of seduction the give-and-take, if you're always insisting on taking the lead and being overt about it many women will tire of your exploits and move on.