Before my sarging days when I was total AFC I had a big party at my house and a lot of girls came who I met for the first time.

Being AFC, I texted these two girls, who are friends, a couple times to hang out and not getting the signal that they weren't down at all. I think they just gave me a chance at one point and we did hang out and I smoked weed with them (which I gave them.)

Anyways, I then still msged/texted them to hangout and I think they started to feel that I was a bit creepy, then kinda ignored them.

Anyway now they're back in my social circle and ruining my rep, so I decided to msg them and say hi.

When I tried to start a conversation with her via FB chat she just said she doesn't wanna talk. I replied saying wow are you always this talkative? Then she said that I use and talk to so many girls it's gross, she doesn't like what I'm about and doesn't wanna talk. So I replied saying lol ok... Then she msged back "Asshole:)"

I now have women galore and don't really care about her. I just want to convey to her that, that's not really me and I'm not like that. Mainly because they'll ruin my rep around the school she goes to and her and her friends tend to have or go to all the parties.

- Should I just ignore? (that didn't work, or maybe if I waited longer it would have but still have always been awkward)
- Brush it off saying LOL ok whatever... and yah ok you think that..
- Be all down to heart and apologize and say that I'm not really like that, I've changed.
- Bring my bro, who hooked up with her, into the play? Get him to say to her that I'm chill, sometimes he comes off weird but you gotta get to know him, etc?

Need to repair this... thanks guys.

Ignore. Often the more resistance you put up to something the more incriminating it may be.

Girls don't think like guys do, if this girl is spreading rumors such as "He is nothing but a player" then she is actually giving you a DHV.

Here is a good quote to remember: "Guys call their friends asshole, dickhead, wuss all the time, but they dont mean it. Girls tell eachother how nice they look, they like their hair, and they are pretty, but they don't mean it either!"

If a girl says "He is an asshole" what the other girl hears is "I still like him so leave him alone" which will oftentimes make the other girl curious.

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