Hi all,

My problem is tha when i speak i tend to raise my voice from low to high. This makes me seeem like yelling or aggressive. What can i do to stop this and speak normally and smoothly so i dont come across as an agressive asshole.

Thx

I found this to be extremely helpful. Took going over it about 4x before getting it just right.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpiIWMWWVco

God speed.

But how do I do that though. I want to sound less aggressive and my bassy voice makes me look like a mad man when I speak . And I am a fairly honest person who dont lie to lie, so I always tell the truth. Are these bad traits? How can I change?

Do you speak fast and talk with your hands? If so, try to slow the pace of your conversations and be a little less animated!

Think of what it looks like when someone is yelling at you, they are talking fast and using their hands to express their point. Practice talking to yourself in the mirror, pay attention to your facial expressions and what your hands/arms are doing. Can you percieve yourself as aggressive? You really cant change your voice/tone, but you can soften the delivery a bit.

Practice, practice, practice...Join a public speaking group such as "Toastmasters" and practice!

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