does flirting count or do i need to verbally be direct about it

That's really up to you. Picasso can't tell Dali how to paint, and vice versa.

Play around with SOIs to see if they can stand alone without the need for humor in case you feel humorless. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised with the ease.

Soi is signs of interests?
10/1
Decent day in pickup
Lessons to be learned right. Tried to work the kino out but it felt kinda unatural but practice, makes perefect. Two approaches in the day, both in the hallway and both I launed into with paimai. In hindsight I shoulda given hugs goodbye. Approaching is half the battle. I will become a pua no matter what,i was born for this! that being said with all these approaches and # closes I
have run into an old adversary, THE FLAKE !!! I really thought about why my games not taking off
I think I need to stop needing women. I care so much about failure or losing a parricular girl
That I come off as needy. I need to stop giving a fuck.
Wins: approach
Improvements: inner game

I gotta stop seeking validation and start giving it

10/2
Today was a good day I learned alot. I approached two women but both were very shallow and there isnt much to be learned other than if another man gets in the set introduce your self to him. But I asked a experienced pua what causes flakes and he put it like this. Put yourself in a womans position! If you got hit on everyday with the same old same old wouldn't you not care. That being said as a pua u cant be the same as everyone else. You have to have a competitive advantage. If you focus on making womeb feel good and not collecting useless phone numbers. I need to give people the validation they seek focus on giving value. If you make women feel good they will always want to be around you.

Wins:,approach
Improvements: giving val kino text game

10/4
Great Great Great day. I am learning alot about PU and hopefully I can become as good at this as i want to be! I got a day 2 finally all I had to do was ask this girl in my class if she was going to lunch she said yes and we went together! We talked about lots, i really feel like we made a lil connection and I kino'd her a little bit so feel like I'm improving. In order to improve my KINO i have become a more tactile person. I touch everybody so when i go to touch a woman its natural. I feel like a need to advance from freindly shoulder and arm touching to legs. If you touch her legs then she knows your intentions. Also I did a random act of kindness for my RM i think he really appreciated it and it made me happy. Better state= better game! I have officially retired from the #pulling game. I have been talking to vets about #closing and they pretty much said this. A phone number is not an objective its a tool to further a connection. I was getting flakes because I didnt have a connection i just collected phone numbers. So for all other aspiring PUAs dont worry about collecting numbers unless you have a connection and a plan for a day 2. Also dont tease a woman who is giving you positive feedback. Then your kinda messing up the vibe that you have.

Wins: Day 2, Kino, making others days, learning
improvements: more seductive kino!

10/4 ...(officer do you copy ha ha random)

Today was a good day. In the morning i FINNALLY made it to talking to a girl that I am just extremely attracted to. Shes about a 9, big breasts, foreign exchange, extremely intelligent based on her answers in class, and I can tell shes well bred because shes always talking about her international trips. She sits a row behind me to the left. I strolled into class with a light and easy gait. Say hi to someone and low and behold, i see her looking at me (IOI) So i say "hi" to her and give her a charming smile but I had to go pee so i walked out right after. BONEHEAD MOVE looking back on it i probably could have started a convo. I worked up the gumption and resolve to talk to her after class. But seriously boys i was about to shit a brick. At one point i caught momentary oneitis. Then the AA came along but I ignored it. You cant let the woman of your dreams walk away without ever even knowing your name. Its just not worth it. During class she gets up and leaves but comes back. After class I introduce myself to her, but turns out her best freind just got engaged and she was gonna go do the whole "OMG EEEEEEK" thing on the phone which is why she left in the middle of class. HA HA i thought i was gonna walk up to her all smooth and woo her off her feet. This is life ha ha things never go as planned oh well!!! but seriously this girl is gonna be my GF or I'm gonna blow out. I honestly dont care there will be other "girl of my dreams"

Anyways later that day i approached a girl in the lunch line, She was sick and her energy was low. Mine was high. We didnt vibe. AT ALL! IT WAS SUCH A BORING CONVO!

Then the latina girl came in the one whose number i got last week. She was all on my nuts but shes the type of girl who flirts with any eligible guy! I did get some leg kino in though ha ha

I'm noticing sometimes i dont even want to go anywhere because approaching women is starting to become a chore, i cant NOT do it its becoming natural and 2nd nature. I kinda feel obligated to do it nowadays. I'm a PUA, i know one day...ILL BE GOOD AT THIS

Wins: kino, approach

improvements: i'm tired of getting phone numbers and hugs and stuff thats middle school game. I'm trying to go to high school. That being said, I need more kiss closes, fuck closes and day 2s. This weeks kino has been good. I need to hold some hands but other than that its all been great. I need to get women to start qualifying themselves to me!

Question of the day?
What brick should i add next, point me in the right direction! what is the next piece of game.

This morning i was unhappy with my game so i tried my first attempt at day game.

me="hi do you know where"such and such" building is
her- yeah blah blah blah
m- wtf do i say now....

Later i went on an day 2 with a girl i know and her friend. It was great and her friend and I were vibing in the beginning. I noticed when i started to go direct she wasn't feeling the sexual energy . I think i need to BE more sexual and not focus on saying the right things.

I also number closed a girl with plans for day 2. SUCCESSSSS i think thats much more effective than just collecting phone numbers/

I came to a stunning realization today after being amoged by a lesbian.
Being the Alpha is not about tooling people or anything like that. ITS ABOUT CONTROL control of the people around you, the people , her emotions. the conversation.

wins: approach: #close

improvements : sexual direct kino and game

10/10
First off NO i have not been slackin' about my mackin'. These past 5 days with no FR was just a slight hiatus from writing FRs but not from PUA. Take No Days Off. These past few days have been big big big realization days for me. I litterally read and tried to absorb Stormys post on "being high value". That lead me on a long journy through the globe of Pick-up! I have come to several realizations due to reading/communicating with some of the Vets and more experienced PUAs.

REALIZATIONS:

I aleady knew this but i didnt understand to what depth.
Game and Pick-up are EMOTIONAL. Men dont understand why women wont talk to them. Its "illogical" well guess what your targets dont have logical or rational thoughts because they are WOMEN. Women think with their emotions so unless you can evoke feelings within a woman you have no chance being with her. Why can a man have everything women say they are attracted to but not have any women? Because you cant quantify "feeling". Objects dont equal game. Women like certain qualities in men because they make women feel a certain way. Some people might argue that "well women like guys with money". Well money makes certain women FEEL secure, these women dont ever want to feel helpless due to financial isecurities and lean on men with money because those men give them a sense of security. So if you learn how to FEEL and not think then you can improve your results.

The most underemphasized and least talked about aspects of Pick-up are
1)State and 2)Improving your lifestyle and these two are very intertwined and are inextricable.

STATE
How you feel when you approach has a very very big effect on your results and how you will be percieved. If you feel unnattractive and you feel like shit then why would she FEEL like your any better than that. It effects your body language, your tonality, and the interactions you will start. Humans are connected more than you know and people will adopt your state of mind.

example
yesterday i was playing basketball when a 3set came out and sat on a bench close by. I didnt really want to approach them BUT my inner PUA was calling me a pussy for not going over there and talking to them so I airballed a shot toward the bench and walked over there. The interaction was completely boring and ended with them finding an excuse to leave. The lack of "wanting to be there" litterally was dripping off me and they didnt want to talk. earlier that day i had tried daygame and got a number. A bad state will not only effect your game but it'll also effect your life.

building an attractive lifestyle
If you hate your life, your extra overweight, people around you think you suck and you agree with them, your a wet blanket AND your nervous and boring then why would any woman want to be around you. Bad life = bad state, If your state of mind is shit always and it effects your game.


The best things on a pua side is his nuts.

In this game you gotta have nuts, cajones, balls. You gotta think bold and act bold in order to get women because what separates you from an AFC is your confidence. you gotta be a man and SACK UP

On the game
Another thing I also realized is that reading the game DOES NOT MAKE YOU A PUA. If Pick up is an ocean, then reading The Game is the equivilent of feeling the tide on your feet. The game introduces you to alot of methods and concepts of pick-up BUT it doesnt explain any of them in depth! It doesnt explain the specifics and finer points and guess what? when it comes to pick up The. devil. is. in. the. details. The little things count!


In regards to SMT or straw man technique
Dont continue to defend a womans boyfreind if she starts berating him.
example
her- I have a boyfreind
Newbie - Oh yeah, tell me me about him i'm sure hes a GREATTTT GUYYY
her- naaa hes not that cool, hes kinda controlling and hes boring *yack yack yack...*
Newbie- Oh i'm sure he means well (fuckin it up)
her- yeah i think he does

REWIND

her- naaa hes not that cool...blahbitty blah
You- yeah from what YOU say i'm sure hes not! i agree
(make her continue to diss him)

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I LEARNED THESE PAST FEW DAYS

pick up is love
The reason why i wasnt finding success in pick up was because my goal in pick up was an egotistical one. I knew you needed to rid yourself of that nasty fucker! if you want to be able to talk to women so you can control, use and hurt them then your not going to go anywhere. A lot of guys including myself formerly wanted to talk to women because I wanted to impress all my boys! yeah, thats cool but women are more perseptive than men and can tell if your goal is just to "WOW" your freinds. Your goal is an egotistical, stupid and lame one. Your most likely trying too hard and failing.
I realize that I LOVE WOMEN. (suprise *sarcasm*) I want to make them laugh and feel good about themselves so it doesnt matter what anybody man or woman thinks of me. It just DOESNT MATTER i dont need their approval.

This week I have come out strong!

I have gotten 3 numbers so far and I am trying to get plans going with them before i get the number to end my flaking curse. Gotta push for the hangout and the kisses GOTTA HAVE NUTS.

10/10
First off NO i have not been slackin' about my mackin'. These past 5 days with no FR was just a slight hiatus from writing FRs but not from PUA. Take No Days Off. These past few days have been big big big realization days for me. I litterally read and tried to absorb Stormys post on "being high value". That lead me on a long journy through the globe of Pick-up! I have come to several realizations due to reading/communicating with some of the Vets and more experienced PUAs.

REALIZATIONS:

I aleady knew this but i didnt understand to what depth.
Game and Pick-up are EMOTIONAL. Men dont understand why women wont talk to them. Its "illogical" well guess what your targets dont have logical or rational thoughts because they are WOMEN. Women think with their emotions so unless you can evoke feelings within a woman you have no chance being with her. Why can a man have everything women say they are attracted to but not have any women? Because you cant quantify "feeling". Objects dont equal game. Women like certain qualities in men because they make women feel a certain way. Some people might argue that "well women like guys with money". Well money makes certain women FEEL secure, these women dont ever want to feel helpless due to financial isecurities and lean on men with money because those men give them a sense of security. So if you learn how to FEEL and not think then you can improve your results.

The most underemphasized and least talked about aspects of Pick-up are
1)State and 2)Improving your lifestyle and these two are very intertwined and are inextricable.

STATE
How you feel when you approach has a very very big effect on your results and how you will be percieved. If you feel unnattractive and you feel like shit then why would she FEEL like your any better than that. It effects your body language, your tonality, and the interactions you will start. Humans are connected more than you know and people will adopt your state of mind.

example
yesterday i was playing basketball when a 3set came out and sat on a bench close by. I didnt really want to approach them BUT my inner PUA was calling me a pussy for not going over there and talking to them so I airballed a shot toward the bench and walked over there. The interaction was completely boring and ended with them finding an excuse to leave. The lack of "wanting to be there" litterally was dripping off me and they didnt want to talk. earlier that day i had tried daygame and got a number. A bad state will not only effect your game but it'll also effect your life.

building an attractive lifestyle
If you hate your life, your extra overweight, people around you think you suck and you agree with them, your a wet blanket AND your nervous and boring then why would any woman want to be around you. Bad life = bad state, If your state of mind is shit always and it effects your game.


The best things on a pua side is his nuts.

In this game you gotta have nuts, cajones, balls. You gotta think bold and act bold in order to get women because what separates you from an AFC is your confidence. you gotta be a man and SACK UP

On the game
Another thing I also realized is that reading the game DOES NOT MAKE YOU A PUA. If Pick up is an ocean, then reading The Game is the equivilent of feeling the tide on your feet. The game introduces you to alot of methods and concepts of pick-up BUT it doesnt explain any of them in depth! It doesnt explain the specifics and finer points and guess what? when it comes to pick up The. devil. is. in. the. details. The little things count!


In regards to SMT or straw man technique
Dont continue to defend a womans boyfreind if she starts berating him.
example
her- I have a boyfreind
Newbie - Oh yeah, tell me me about him i'm sure hes a GREATTTT GUYYY
her- naaa hes not that cool, hes kinda controlling and hes boring *yack yack yack...*
Newbie- Oh i'm sure he means well (fuckin it up)
her- yeah i think he does

REWIND

her- naaa hes not that cool...blahbitty blah
You- yeah from what YOU say i'm sure hes not! i agree
(make her continue to diss him)

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I LEARNED THESE PAST FEW DAYS

pick up is love
The reason why i wasnt finding success in pick up was because my goal in pick up was an egotistical one. I knew you needed to rid yourself of that nasty fucker! if you want to be able to talk to women so you can control, use and hurt them then your not going to go anywhere. A lot of guys including myself formerly wanted to talk to women because I wanted to impress all my boys! yeah, thats cool but women are more perseptive than men and can tell if your goal is just to "WOW" your freinds. Your goal is an egotistical, stupid and lame one. Your most likely trying too hard and failing.
I realize that I LOVE WOMEN. (suprise *sarcasm*) I want to make them laugh and feel good about themselves so it doesnt matter what anybody man or woman thinks of me. It just DOESNT MATTER i dont need their approval.

This week I have come out strong!

I have gotten 3 numbers so far and I am trying to get plans going with them before i get the number to end my flaking curse. Gotta push for the hangout and the kisses GOTTA HAVE NUTS.

10/10
First off NO i have not been slackin' about my mackin'. These past 5 days with no FR was just a slight hiatus from writing FRs but not from PUA. Take No Days Off. These past few days have been big big big realization days for me. I litterally read and tried to absorb Stormys post on "being high value". That lead me on a long journy through the globe of Pick-up! I have come to several realizations due to reading/communicating with some of the Vets and more experienced PUAs.

REALIZATIONS:

I aleady knew this but i didnt understand to what depth.
Game and Pick-up are EMOTIONAL. Men dont understand why women wont talk to them. Its "illogical" well guess what your targets dont have logical or rational thoughts because they are WOMEN. Women think with their emotions so unless you can evoke feelings within a woman you have no chance being with her. Why can a man have everything women say they are attracted to but not have any women? Because you cant quantify "feeling". Objects dont equal game. Women like certain qualities in men because they make women feel a certain way. Some people might argue that "well women like guys with money". Well money makes certain women FEEL secure, these women dont ever want to feel helpless due to financial isecurities and lean on men with money because those men give them a sense of security. So if you learn how to FEEL and not think then you can improve your results.

The most underemphasized and least talked about aspects of Pick-up are
1)State and 2)Improving your lifestyle and these two are very intertwined and are inextricable.

STATE
How you feel when you approach has a very very big effect on your results and how you will be percieved. If you feel unnattractive and you feel like shit then why would she FEEL like your any better than that. It effects your body language, your tonality, and the interactions you will start. Humans are connected more than you know and people will adopt your state of mind.

example
yesterday i was playing basketball when a 3set came out and sat on a bench close by. I didnt really want to approach them BUT my inner PUA was calling me a pussy for not going over there and talking to them so I airballed a shot toward the bench and walked over there. The interaction was completely boring and ended with them finding an excuse to leave. The lack of "wanting to be there" litterally was dripping off me and they didnt want to talk. earlier that day i had tried daygame and got a number. A bad state will not only effect your game but it'll also effect your life.

building an attractive lifestyle
If you hate your life, your extra overweight, people around you think you suck and you agree with them, your a wet blanket AND your nervous and boring then why would any woman want to be around you. Bad life = bad state, If your state of mind is shit always and it effects your game.


The best things on a pua side is his nuts.

In this game you gotta have nuts, cajones, balls. You gotta think bold and act bold in order to get women because what separates you from an AFC is your confidence. you gotta be a man and SACK UP

On the game
Another thing I also realized is that reading the game DOES NOT MAKE YOU A PUA. If Pick up is an ocean, then reading The Game is the equivilent of feeling the tide on your feet. The game introduces you to alot of methods and concepts of pick-up BUT it doesnt explain any of them in depth! It doesnt explain the specifics and finer points and guess what? when it comes to pick up The. devil. is. in. the. details. The little things count!


In regards to SMT or straw man technique
Dont continue to defend a womans boyfreind if she starts berating him.
example
her- I have a boyfreind
Newbie - Oh yeah, tell me me about him i'm sure hes a GREATTTT GUYYY
her- naaa hes not that cool, hes kinda controlling and hes boring *yack yack yack...*
Newbie- Oh i'm sure he means well (fuckin it up)
her- yeah i think he does

REWIND

her- naaa hes not that cool...blahbitty blah
You- yeah from what YOU say i'm sure hes not! i agree
(make her continue to diss him)

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I LEARNED THESE PAST FEW DAYS

pick up is love
The reason why i wasnt finding success in pick up was because my goal in pick up was an egotistical one. I knew you needed to rid yourself of that nasty fucker! if you want to be able to talk to women so you can control, use and hurt them then your not going to go anywhere. A lot of guys including myself formerly wanted to talk to women because I wanted to impress all my boys! yeah, thats cool but women are more perseptive than men and can tell if your goal is just to "WOW" your freinds. Your goal is an egotistical, stupid and lame one. Your most likely trying too hard and failing.
I realize that I LOVE WOMEN. (suprise *sarcasm*) I want to make them laugh and feel good about themselves so it doesnt matter what anybody man or woman thinks of me. It just DOESNT MATTER i dont need their approval.

This week I have come out strong!

I have gotten 3 numbers so far and I am trying to get plans going with them before i get the number to end my flaking curse. Gotta push for the hangout and the kisses GOTTA HAVE NUTS.

10/10
First off NO i have not been slackin' about my mackin'. These past 5 days with no FR was just a slight hiatus from writing FRs but not from PUA. Take No Days Off. These past few days have been big big big realization days for me. I litterally read and tried to absorb Stormys post on "being high value". That lead me on a long journy through the globe of Pick-up! I have come to several realizations due to reading/communicating with some of the Vets and more experienced PUAs.

REALIZATIONS:

I aleady knew this but i didnt understand to what depth.
Game and Pick-up are EMOTIONAL. Men dont understand why women wont talk to them. Its "illogical" well guess what your targets dont have logical or rational thoughts because they are WOMEN. Women think with their emotions so unless you can evoke feelings within a woman you have no chance being with her. Why can a man have everything women say they are attracted to but not have any women? Because you cant quantify "feeling". Objects dont equal game. Women like certain qualities in men because they make women feel a certain way. Some people might argue that "well women like guys with money". Well money makes certain women FEEL secure, these women dont ever want to feel helpless due to financial isecurities and lean on men with money because those men give them a sense of security. So if you learn how to FEEL and not think then you can improve your results.

The most underemphasized and least talked about aspects of Pick-up are
1)State and 2)Improving your lifestyle and these two are very intertwined and are inextricable.

STATE
How you feel when you approach has a very very big effect on your results and how you will be percieved. If you feel unnattractive and you feel like shit then why would she FEEL like your any better than that. It effects your body language, your tonality, and the interactions you will start. Humans are connected more than you know and people will adopt your state of mind.

example
yesterday i was playing basketball when a 3set came out and sat on a bench close by. I didnt really want to approach them BUT my inner PUA was calling me a pussy for not going over there and talking to them so I airballed a shot toward the bench and walked over there. The interaction was completely boring and ended with them finding an excuse to leave. The lack of "wanting to be there" litterally was dripping off me and they didnt want to talk. earlier that day i had tried daygame and got a number. A bad state will not only effect your game but it'll also effect your life.

building an attractive lifestyle
If you hate your life, your extra overweight, people around you think you suck and you agree with them, your a wet blanket AND your nervous and boring then why would any woman want to be around you. Bad life = bad state, If your state of mind is shit always and it effects your game.


The best things on a pua side is his nuts.

In this game you gotta have nuts, cajones, balls. You gotta think bold and act bold in order to get women because what separates you from an AFC is your confidence. you gotta be a man and SACK UP

On the game
Another thing I also realized is that reading the game DOES NOT MAKE YOU A PUA. If Pick up is an ocean, then reading The Game is the equivilent of feeling the tide on your feet. The game introduces you to alot of methods and concepts of pick-up BUT it doesnt explain any of them in depth! It doesnt explain the specifics and finer points and guess what? when it comes to pick up The. devil. is. in. the. details. The little things count!


In regards to SMT or straw man technique
Dont continue to defend a womans boyfreind if she starts berating him.
example
her- I have a boyfreind
Newbie - Oh yeah, tell me me about him i'm sure hes a GREATTTT GUYYY
her- naaa hes not that cool, hes kinda controlling and hes boring *yack yack yack...*
Newbie- Oh i'm sure he means well (fuckin it up)
her- yeah i think he does

REWIND

her- naaa hes not that cool...blahbitty blah
You- yeah from what YOU say i'm sure hes not! i agree
(make her continue to diss him)

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I LEARNED THESE PAST FEW DAYS

pick up is love
The reason why i wasnt finding success in pick up was because my goal in pick up was an egotistical one. I knew you needed to rid yourself of that nasty fucker! if you want to be able to talk to women so you can control, use and hurt them then your not going to go anywhere. A lot of guys including myself formerly wanted to talk to women because I wanted to impress all my boys! yeah, thats cool but women are more perseptive than men and can tell if your goal is just to "WOW" your freinds. Your goal is an egotistical, stupid and lame one. Your most likely trying too hard and failing.
I realize that I LOVE WOMEN. (suprise *sarcasm*) I want to make them laugh and feel good about themselves so it doesnt matter what anybody man or woman thinks of me. It just DOESNT MATTER i dont need their approval.

This week I have come out strong!

I have gotten 3 numbers so far and I am trying to get plans going with them before i get the number to end my flaking curse. Gotta push for the hangout and the kisses GOTTA HAVE NUTS.

Keep up the good work mate! It's awesome to see you adopting a more mature mentality too

_________________
"A king does not look to peasants to tell him he's a king, he looks at the crown on his head."

Hey bro,

I like the approach you are taking to things these days, especially about the love of women. I approach every girl with the simple thought that I love fucking hot chicks. I make an effort to not talk about my exploits with anyone but a very select few friends who are wifed up and in serious relationships and basically beg me to tell them stories so they can live a bit vicariously. I've never understood these guys that clearly hate women or don't care for sex or whatever. Sure, girls are crazy and as you've noticed, illogical but they are also soft, sweet, and supple, and a good dose of femininity and affection is a high that can't really be replicated in any other way. I've tried.

And a lot of the other stuff you are saying here about mindsets and lifestyle and such is really similar to what I've said in a few places on this board so you know I agree with all that.

Keep it up. Good luck with the phone numbers coming through.

@Danial Balboa and @Reflex B

I'm Just trying to be like you guys man thanks for the positive encouragement

10/11

Boring ass day But a day filled with realizations and also some put my nuts out there a lil ha ha. Nothing really happened at the beggining of the day no real interaction. While in the college caf i tried some of the social circle game that had attracted so many women in the beggining! unfortunatley more and more people are starting to eat in their apartments/dorms and the targets are thining out. I'm talking male pattern baldness hair thinning out! I mean litterally the only people we have retained in our lunch circle are men. With no women and 8 thirsty men nothing happens. 6 are complete afcs and one is a pretty good wingman/natural. I try to invite some women to sit with us BUTTTT with no pivot or wingwoman the women can smell our horniness and they all decline. Oh well i'm a pua so be outcome independent, I feel like i've won if i've approached because no AFC would ever have to guts or nuts to do so including the old me.

Later on I call one of my number closes from the the past few days. I didnt really have time to discuss the actual close so i'm gonna go into because i feel like it was kinda genius. I'm a young guy and i was shaky on the big question -> (WHAT THE HELL AM I GONNA DO WITH THE REST OF MY LIFE?) I decide to get out of the apartment and go to a nearby coffee shop and sit in a chair and pan out my options untill i decide. I sit down at a table and like 10 minutes into my reverent reflections I look up and see a blonde HB7 walking by ...she smiles yeah... she was PAI'ing ha ha (pre-approach invite). I sit for about 2 or 3 mintutes contemplating how to approach ...3 second rule slaughtered and bloody. Shes in line for her coffee. I walk up next to her. She tell me i can go if i know what i want...

...I smile , cock my head sideways and gaze into her eyes and say "you". She pulls down my pants and proceeds to felate me right there in the coffee shop! NAAAAAAA FUCK NO THAT DIDNT HAPPEN BUT IT WOULD BE ONE HELL OF A STORY RIGHT ...stop rubbing your bulge bro thats creepy!

...okay back to the real story! I tell her "the problem is idk what i want". I then ask the cashier whats the best thing on the menu. She gives me some red shitty drink its not even coffee. I sit down and so does the blonde at her own individual table behind me. "lame!" i thought to myself. I mean realy man thats all you got? Try #2 ha ha I look back at her. Pick up my note book walk over with a mix of confidence and nervousness and say "excuse me can I inteview you? I have this assignment and I would really appreaciate a moment of your time."
She agrees. I ask her some typical bullshit questions any female would drool over like: "whats more important loving your job or making alot of money?","Would you date a man with no job who has tons of ambition but is chasing his dream?" ...

(note: most women say no! "if he has no money and nothing currently going for him why would i date him, he needs to man up and get a real job and THEN chase his dreams!" but ass we all know women date some bum ass dudes. They just answer no because society has told them thats what they need to say. just like some girls that say they dont suck dick because its nasty ...BITCH PLEASE, you dirty liar, your gonna suck some tonight!!! ha ha but i digress)

... We fluff a little bit. I tell her my interviewing her had to do with myself not knowing my specifics in life. Then a tell her i'm gonna start stripping (that always gets a laugh) I set up some soft plans to meet again and we exchange numbers but she was kinda hesitant.

Anyways today I called her up. She didnt answer. I left a voicemail thanking her for helping me find out what I want to do in life but then i tell her "you didnt really help but you were a part of it" trying to recover from the percieved neediness.
She texted my later saying she got the voicemail. I tell her yup, i have resorted to stripping, and then i hit her with the ole ttyl text.

I have been sending girls one funny text then telling them i'm too busy to talk to them. I am trying to make it a point to call women because i feel like it leads to less flakes. I won today because i made that phone call and got out of my comfort zone.

Wins: calling, outcome independent, being myself

improvements: i want more results and I need to vibe better. The vibe i would like to project is classy flirting. If you are too direct and out of line and there are people around the woman feels awkward because you are making her look like a slut. BUT if your playfull and flirty while never being raunchy thats okay! I really have to save the dirty talk for isolation situations

casual observations: my key sarging points are beggining to dry up! I gotta start sarging in other places because if not...I'll run out of targets OHHH NOOOOO

Morning Revelations
This morning I woke up and started looking at some PUA stuff. While thumbing through some older posts by some of the moderators I came to some conclusions that I feel like will really help my game and can help yours too.

1) Don’t over complicate and obsess over game and the transformation from AFC to PUA.

I want to be a PUA bad I mean really bad! Like water is to fish, Women are to me. I have always wanted to be great with women. It’s probably the only skill I truly want to possess BUT at the end of the day I and you have to realize that this is a skill. It can’t take over my life! I spend so much time during the day thinking about game, practicing in the field, and obsessing over game that It has lost its fun. I have lost my spontaneous state that attracts women because I am OVERthinking it. “can I touch her leg?” “should I claw?” “should I approach”…okay claw now…approach indirect… touch here BLAH BLAH BLAH. My targets fall into my worrisome state. I can honestly say that approaching women has become a chore because I AM SO OVERLY CONCERNED WITH WHAT I’M DOING. Guys this is supposed to be fun. When I approach a woman it’s supposed to be enjoyable, we are supposed to laugh, flirt, and discover things about each other. My obsession over game is fucking up my game. Just like any good athlete would tell you, your best games come when you are in the ZONE. That’s when you don’t have to think about it because you know how to react, your confident, you know your next move, you can read what your opponent is doing and all the extra static thought is gone because your IN THE MOMENT. I have all that static… I’m not having fun… I’m not having fun so me and the target aren’t vibing…we are not vibing so I blow out,….when I blow out I have to examine myself and worry about what I did wrong… which causes static and then the whole thing is repeated in circular motion. Pick-up is a hobby, a game, you gotta enjoy playing it or you won’t play well.

2) Amoging and taking/giving shit

A guy in my class was amoging me today in front of a girl. Trying to diss my style, telling her not to talk to me, calling me lame and I came to a conclusion. The reason why he’s giving me shit is because he’s insecure! He realizes the girl is actually enjoying talking to me so it makes him feel inferior. He wants me to feel the same way so he tries to play me out and raise his value. It’s all about man hood. EVERY SINGLE MAN IN THE WORLD WANTS TO BE ALPHA, we want to be loved, adored and fawned over by women because our extremely sensitive egos tell us “it’s not him that should be the center, its ME”. When people hate on others it’s because you’re a threat to them. I realized that if I get defensive or annoyed by it I would be play exactly into his hands. My states strong, i’m a secure person I chose to not even let it bother me. He ended up pulling her away from me but as I turn to walk around I see her smile and say “have a nice weekend  ”. She generally wants to talk to me, not that insecure ass hole. And even if she didn’t, I approach tons of women so it’s not like I need her. Moral of the story is don’t give any fucks if a guy is trying to pull you down into his insecurity be your own man.

3) How to flirt
Ever been around kids and seen the flirting the little boys and girls do? Its quite interesting because they are natural. They don’t know what they are doing they are just reacting to the attraction that they don’t know exists. Those playful touches, the little laughter that they share and the little teasing they do which isn’t mean spirited its just fun. They playfully challenge each other. If you adopt that same little vibe around women they can tell your flirting with them its pleasing. Your not negging or being overly cocky your just being playful. Its tastefull, they laugh and you laugh. A lot of effort is spent by guys figuring out how to create attraction but attraction isn’t created! Women are attracted to you the moment they see you but you KILL it if your too sexually direct, too cocky, too mean, too rehersed. Playfull = flirty



My main thing is just HAVE FUN, because if your having fun, she is too