Gotta say, I tried this last night and I learned so damn much. Part of me feels like I never want to be tied to a group ever again.

It was extremely insightful in that I realized truly how much nightlife intimidates me. I had complete control over the night and simply from being solo, I was forced to own that role. By the end of the night, I felt my confidence out increase dramatically. I was no longer really intimidate by the environment, and equally as important, I no longer felt like I had any sort of reputation to live up to or impress my friends. Without that weight on my shoulders I noticed much more clarity as far as what my problems are and what my goals need to be.

With this being said im going out tonight again and meeting up with some people for awhile, then going off solo. You are right Skills, the freedom of going out this way is amazing.

If anyone would like to see my personal experience from this, I will be logging all of my progress in this matter in my journal here - here-vp706433.html#706433

Thanks for the post again Skills. It gave me that extra push to go about gaming this way.

Then you are not going alone, you just drive to the club separate from your friends and also do not stuck with your friends in the venue for the 100% of time.
Its "semi alone", but still more like "with friends" than actually alone.

What would be actual going out alone - go to the club in strange city where you know 0 people.

I do go alone, i have moved to 3 different cities, and still go to unfamiliar venues, i went to one night club opening last weekend, were i did not know anybody, i just befriended people or strategically place myself next to them like if i was part of the group when i was not, just to do my reads and open... Anyways after you go at least 3-5 times to the same place ALONE, people will become familiar with your face and say hi verbally or body language, this is not that hard, people just artifically feel uncomfortable and un confident being alone, is just cause they are too much in the heads and put to much importance on peoples opinion(beta).

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I experienced sarging alone a lot, so I can give my point of view on this subject.

_Firstly on sarging with wings. Most of wings that I had sucked and weren't of any utility. There were only one spanish guy (who was unfortunately married), with whom I felt like we completed eachother. We created synergy. and we could get attention of any women.

_On sarging alone. I think sarging alone brings a lot more to the confidence/ inner game. It learns you to take responsibility for every failure and success you encounter. And it learns you not to give a shit about anyone's thought.

Conclusion --> finding a good wing is difficult, but once you get one it is priceless.
If you don't have one, it doesn't matter, go out anyway.

Nice post! Any ideas about sarging alone in a small town
without coming across as a weirdo?

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Same applies, befriend people, it may not happen over nite but people will start to get familiar with your face as i said specially if you frequent the same places, in a small town even easier....I just came back from a trip in a shitty small town in Ohio called athens, were i did not know anybody, i owned the club in a matter of 15 minutes. You do need to bring some type of value to interactions.

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It would be great if you could give me a few concrete examples on the way you give value to interactions...
I am still strugling with the sarge-alone thing...

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Talking shit, making jokes, dancing, being hi energy. Also go befriend the dudes, not many at a time, maybe one at a time or 2, looking at a women together is a great way to bond ... Read the " How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnagie.... Anyways, as i said sometimes by going many times to the same venue people will get familiar with you, and start saying hi or giving you eye contact.

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I'm a bit of a coward when it comes to actually going out on my own. I pretty much always ditch my friends once we're in a club and go round talking to random people and I love it. But I think I just like the idea that I've got a group of friends around somewhere (quick text and I can go and find them) if I crash and burn or I'm having a bad time.

It is completely stupid on my part, I very rarely get asked "where are your friends?" and on the odd occasion I have, I've usually had to say "oh they've gone home already and left me" (as they normally do when I wander off on my own!). Nobody minds when you say that, nobody thinks you're a weirdo - they just think you stayed out to have a good time when all your boring friends went home early! But still, I just haven't been able to get over the mental hurdle of actually going out on my own (and not just ditching people once out).

But when I have split off from my friends, I've found it to be so good for confidence. Even if you don't actually pull girls, just going round and chatting/making friends with random people is so useful for your development. Chuck a few pulls in to the equation and your confidence sky rockets.

^ Well you do similar style, you have a group of friends, but you do your thing, solo does not mean solo per se, but you do your thing independently. That is the same thing... Independance is key, and being able to go sarging when you please also. Anyways is all in your head man, sarging alone is awesome, specially to get in free in venues....

I get ask a lot who i am there with this what i say:

Hb: who are you here with
me: my best friend
Hb: really where is he at?
me: here (and i proceed to grab my balls)
Hb: will hit you and laugh

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oh ma gherd. I feel your pain brother. thank you for sharing.