Ok, so I met this girl at a party last Friday. Didn't plan on gaming her at first, but after we sat down and talked quite a lot, I found her really charming and decided to go for it. Ofcourse, she was allready quite in to me, game comes quite naturally these days.. I didn't do anything on Friday though, because I was at my friends house, and didn't want to risk fucking up my friend circle by making out with her without knowing her standing in the circle. Since I was sober that night, I drove her home to her (female) friends place where she was to sleep, and I had work early in the morning on Saturday.

I knew she was going to a party on Saturday, and I was going to a different one, so I said "Get my number from someone at the party tomorrow, and shoot me a text when you're going out to town!".

Saturday night I got a text saying "Heey! When are you heading to town?" I told her I'd call when I arrived. The first thing that happens when I get there is that a friend of her (that were at the same party) comes running up to me, telling me that she really liked me etc. And I knew I was landing it that night.

I meet up with her, get shitloads of DHV (everyone knows me here, it's a small town) hang out at a few different places and head for an afterparty at her friends place. We kino a LOT throughout the night, she is literally lying on me in the sofa. After a while it's only the two of us left in the room. I look at her, gently trying to steer her cheek towards me to kiss her, and she says. "I don't kiss guys I barely know."

... THE FUCK? Ok, I've dealt with my fair share of shit tests, but this actually threw me far off balance. I failed so hard my dead grandmother must've turned in her grave and said "Well, I guess that's sensible." luckily, in a non-chalant voice, so apart from what I said, I didn't seem to react emotionally on it.

After 1 or 2 minutes some of the others came back, we drank some more and 4 of us fell asleep in a double bed. Me and her, fell asleep holding around eachother (was too tired to escalate at this point, it was 6AM.)

The question: WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED HERE? I saw it as a way for her to say "I'm not a slut" and "Hey, I don't wanna do this as a one night stand drunk thing." And that she's more interested in a LTR or the likes.



TL;DR: Game girl, gets confirmation from her friend that she's really into me, go for K-Close, "I don't kiss guys I barely know".

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maybe shes just REALLY prude? haha idk man, seems pretty odd to me.

something similar happened to me the other night, but it makes much more sense as it was LMR to sex and not just kissing. i was dancing with this girl for virtually an entire party, very very sexual dancing like her grinding the shit out of my dick i was picking her up, pinning her against the wall etc. we made out a ridiculous amount and she was literally all over all of me. went for the f close (thought it as a given considering how the night had went) but nope, she wasnt down and instead left with her friends after giving me her number. oh well, at least you know she likes you and you can follow up on her if you want

goodluck!

Aww, that sucks. Then again, I suppose she didn't want to tag along with a random guy infront of her friends. You should txt her for a follow-up! Shouldn't be to hard to close this one

Yeah, meeting her for a coffee in a week or so.. Gonna see how things stand from there, but this shit is actually driving me crazy.. Basically because I can't see the logic here! Women think with their emotions - I sincerely believe my game was good enough to land pretty much anyone who gave so much back to me - she uses logic. The fuck.

Unless I was Friendzoned in a matter of minutes (which there was no indication of), the only thing I can conclude with, was that she didn't want to seem slutty. And from what I've heard from her after the weekend (talked a bit on Face etc.) she does seem interested.. I hate it when things don't make sense..

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No matter how good you are some girls will just not cross certain lines man. She's still clearly into you, set up a day two and then go for that.

Situations like that can also be the perfect place to set up a day two. She's into you, she WANTS to kiss you but she's withholding it. "Alright, lets meet up tomorrow to x and you can kiss me then". Boom, done deal.

haha fucking LOVE it!

@OP if you dont mind me asking, how old are you? i assume over 21 if youre bar hopping. i only ask because obviously (unless they are in college slut mode haha) younger girls are less likely to put out, and just seems strange that a women over age 20 would be so hesitant just to kiss someone else. idk, im still a noob

Thanks guys, hopefully everything will go well on Wednesday! Oh, and if anyone cares to actually explain this, it would be awesome! Not sure if I can live with "some girls don't put out", I have this annoying OCD that I have to understand WHY things are as they are.. Pretty much what got me in to PUA!


I'm 20, and so is she.

The legal drinking age in Norway is 18 for beer and wine, and 20 for booze.

Yeah, thought of that aswell... But as far as logic goes for me here, I'm pretty much blank.

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Like it or not, despite the claims of some people in the community who say "100% success rate on this K-close tactic" or similar, NOTHING is 100% when it comes to human emotions. Like someone said earlier, the truth is some girls have lines they wont cross no matter what how well you play. Maybe this girl has been hurt before, and because of that is extremely cautious. If your looking for any reason beyond that, assuming you did it all the right way, you probably wont find any.

This was most likely just a shit test, given the info you provided. When a girl likes you but doesn't let her kiss you she is doing so not to come off as anslut her asd kicks in. The way to bypass this? You do not react and make her feel comfortable and go for it again. There is nothing wrong with persistence. I is in fact attractive. You could have gone for the kiss again without being needy. All you had to do was change topic and in a few minutes look deep into her eyes and go for I again. If she still denies or says "What are you doing?" you can easily blame it on her being so cute. If you are willing to walk away this will come off as persistent and not needy.

Don't apologize for making a move. If she gives you shit it's her own fault for not getting you in the end. At one poit, if she resists heavily for no reason, the only thing left to do is be 100% honest with her; "Look you are too cute and sexy for me to be around. I have a primal urge to kiss you and fuck you, I can't control it. I'm a sexual person and if you have a problem with that then this is where we part." Something like that.

Don't worry about this too much, invite her out on an unofficial date were you two are alone and can build a deeper connection, but mentally and physically. Good luck.

It's a shit test/ASD. Agree with her, absurdify, and change the subject. It will sound something like this:

"Oh you don't kiss random strangers. Neither do I. I only sleep with them. Do you watch Breaking Bad?"

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Yeah, I've decided to not put anymore effort into it. Have a date with her on Wednesday, so just gonna wait until then and see what happens!

Thanks guys (y)

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