I've been getting a little better with PUA lately. Decided to number close this HB7 at a house party last monday. I got her number and told her I'd meet up with her this weekend. We texted a bit throughout the week; not much but enough for me to know something about her. Anyway fast forward to Saturday night, here is our text conversation at around 10:00 PM

Me: Whatchu doin tonight girl?

HB7: Just hangin' out at XXX. Wanna be my booty call tonight?

Me: Hell yeah just call me when you leave

HB7: Well my friend wants us to leave now but we want to party..Do you know of anything?

Me: No, I haven't heard of any parties. If your about to leave, why don't I just come and pick you up?

It was like 12:00 at the last text. An hour passed and she didn't text back, so I decided called her and she didn't answer so I said fuck it I don't wanna sound needy and I just went to sleep. She texted the next morning

HB7: I'm so sorry!! I got wayy too drunk last night..

Me: Haha I figured. I'm gonna have to punish you now

HB7: lol blah blah blah

Me: okay cool. Well when you decide you wanna redeem yourself for last night, just give me a call later on.

HB7: okay for sure!

So to be totally honest I'm not great with texting, but how did that go? Did her excuse seem legit? Haven't heard from her since. Not too worried but could have been nice to stick!

I think she could have been being playful in the first instance where she mentioned booty call and maybe you responded a little too eagerly or enthusiastically. Make them chase a little, it's more fun. Once she mentioned ass it seemed like you got excited to make it happen which was maybe a little offputting for her.

An alternative way to handle such strong sexual interest in the future would be a cocky and funny approach where you were more of a challenge, more playful, more flirtacious.

I agree, too much of a eager beaver.

I would have responded with something like: IDK, I was hopping for at least some dinner first

yeeaaahh, that's kinda what I figured. See, I showed the text to my brother in law and he was like WTF ARE YOU WAITING FOR?! Lol but anyway, I'll keep that in mind.

Thanks

[quote="BeardlessSanta"]

Me: Whatchu doin tonight girl?

HB7: Just hangin' out at XXX. Wanna be my booty call tonight?

Have you had sex with this girl. If not then in all likelihood she was probably slightly joking but also wanting to instantly grab your attention. She was being slightly sexual tho which is always good.

Me: Hell yeah just call me when you leave

What you did here is basically make her seem like the prize, she asked to basically come fuck you and you act way too eager for it like your the one being awarded not her. Bad. something like:

"You naughty girl, if your lucky and play your cards right "

Personally I would freeze her out till she text me then make myself busy on purpose so she knows she can't call and get instant attention.

Sorry bro.

Na i would not do a freeze out. She is showing interest so keep the momentum going. Play hard to get but still play. Also try to convey that she is not the only one an that you have other options. You need to make it so she thinks you're the prize.

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Well I'm gaming a HB9 as well that actually goes to the same University as her! haha maybe she'll pickup on that! A freeze out is just what I was thinking.