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The guys are right - you haven't got enough of a response to know if you are in the friend zone or not yet. But I would try and find out as soon as possible - tell her you want to show her cool parts of the city. Then during this, stop her and tell her you think she is really attractive (You know what... You're really attractive when you play with your hair like that"). Pay attention to her response - smiling/blushing/looking shy/bashful etc. mean she likes you. Looking uncomfortable/awkward/slightly pained/sorry means she doesn't.
Sorry man but I disagree with this. Best seduction is not verbal, its physical. When it comes to potential-friendzone or even deep-friendzone girls and trying to convert them into something more by far the best way that I know of is to keep away from any sort of verbal seduction. Keep the conversation purely social and friendlike while letting your body do the escalation and setting a sexual vibe by moving in close, keeping eye contact, etc.
Likewise don't listen to any verbal resistance, only physical like her pulling away or you know... slapping you. If she verbally resits then stop, relax, keep talking fluff and try physically escalating again later.
I disagree
All seduction is non verbal. It has to be - about 93% of communication is non-verbal. But when it comes to potential friendzone there are a couple of things which are always a given:
- Most guys (like our guy here) get into the friend zone by a lack of making a move. A lack of leading and pushing the interaction.
- trying to get out of the friend zone always holds the small possibility of ruining the friendship, whether you try verbally or non verbally. (It'snot actually that big a risk - lots of girls will respect you more for being honest, but I digress...)
- verbally escalating is attractive as it shows balls. Therefore if you are being a bit clunky with your physical escalation, but you are verbally escalating, then you stand a better chance of still looking really attractive and therefore getting the girl.
Therefore I still recommend you both verbally and physically escalate to have the best chance to get this girl
