chick I've been talking to for a month or two now and I had good sex for the first time after a couple times having trouble with condoms (lose erection)

I banged her raw for 40 minutes, she was sore as hell afterwards and enjoyed it, but she didn't come.

I have fingered this girl, can't get her to go and she has stopped me because she gets impatient with herself she says (wtf? I have made other girls come no prob in the same manner)

I have done oral and she squeezes my head so tight with her legs I can't even get to her anymore.

My basic question is, is she going to stick around if I'm fucking her until she is sore, even if she didn't come (I have not made her come yet and we have banged like 3-4 times). She basicly made a joke or two saying things like "will it ever happen?", but has also said she totally underestimated me in bed.

keep in mind she has done NOTHING to suggest she is losing interest at any point and initiates plans regularly, even getting impatient on how long between when she sees me

go to the sex shop or online an get a silver bullet or small vibrator an mix it up a bit.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

More foreplay.

Female sexuality operates on a whole other level. You can bring some girls to the brink of orgasming just by talking to them in a certain manner (e.g., mouth up to her ear saying provocative stuff softly in her ear while gently rubbing her inner thigh). Engage in petting, don't be rough around genitals unless she specifically asks for it (some girls love being choked, hair pulled, bitten etc..). Lick her like you'd like a mango slowly use tip of your tongue out and around labia, go in a bit too using tip, makeup with her snatch like its her mouth at times (girls can tell when you're stifled/not into eating them out and thats a turn off), put your tongue around her taint too (part between anus and pussy that almost always drives me CRAZY, not rough, not fast, let her squirm a bit back off at times when she gets really heated up - girls LOVE being teased and teasing. You can also broach subject of sex with her ask her what she likes, if when you do this thing or that thing how it makes her feel. I think you're trying to do too much physically, you're missing a huge component of female sexuality the emotional part - practice teasing, being suggestive, etc.

I do engage in alot of foreplay (one time she said I just want you to fuck me! after so much) and I tried the whispering naughty shit in her ear while fingering her.

I will try the teasing with oral, but I've taken my time with oral too. Damn this is frustrating

To answer your question, from what you've said it seems like she is gonna stick around for sex even without orgasms for at least a while yet.

With that said however there's TONS of stuff out there on how to help her along. Fucking her for 40 min straight isn't necessarily a great thing, most girls would prefer a 5-10 min session where they orgasm over a 40 min one without.

http://www.puatraining.com/blog/squirti ... men-squirt
http://www.puatraining.com/blog/things- ... sex-better

Just two free blogs to help you along.

True dat. Also hear's the deal I learned. Girls will say man you got stamina and can go on forever. They count 4-play, teasing and massaging as sex. So even though you're only in for 10 min or less, but make out with them, work them up for 50 minutes you're now a hour long marathon man.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

OK so update. Messed around with her today and tried my damn best to make her come through oral and RAPID fingering, taking my time and she kept saying it felt sooo good, ect.

Then she drops a bomb on me by saying she needs intercourse.......to come. She said it felt sooo good but that is the case. We couldnt fuck because there were people in my house but, is that odd to you guys?

I thought it was usually easier to make a girl come through oral and fingering? It has been for me in the past, especially with my hands