| Inspired by another post.
There are so many questions about, can I fuck my buddys girl, can I sarge within my social circle, can I fuck my ex's friends, can I go for whatever girl who isnt really fair game?
People, you are running from something. You are carefully avoiding the one thing that can make you better PUAs. Pushing your limits.
Each time a question like that is posted here, an experienced PUA steps in to say, hey, find a girl if equal beauty and fuck her instead. A week later, someone asks the same question again. Why?
Because it is scary to interact with total strangers, and it is more difficult? No its not, it just takes another skillset to make it work, it takes a PUAs skillset. Being with your friends is another skillset, being in a social surrounding where you feel at home, you have a lifetime of practice with that one. Only, you sacrifice your venue for the comfort of not having to be inconvenienced when sarging strangers.
Hey, but shes already into me, she has given me IOIs for a year now, hey she is so nice and whatever. Yeah, maybe she is, doesnt matter. You are still running. You go for what is easily accessible, right there in under your nose. No matter who you hurt or what friend you may lose.
But hey, she isnt a GF of my friend, she is just some girl who I meet at the gym. Yeah, fine, but since you have already talked to her, you think that she will be easier to score than that unknown girl you met on the bus who is twice as hot.
Lets say you wanna take a taxi to somewhere but you dont have any cash, the SPAM is a block away but your brother is right there. Would you take his money to pay for a cabride or would you walk a block and get some money of your own? You brothers money is easily accessible (since he is too drunk to stand up) and doesnt require you to go out of your comfortzone. No, because that is lame.
Same with women.
People so often wanna go for what is already there, the thing that would be easier (or not require a trip out of your comfortzone) to the better thing that would cause less problems but require you to make an effort.
Seriously, you think betraying trust and fucking your friends GF makes you a PUA? No, a PUA knows that he doesnt need to go for the "easy" lay but that he can with equal ease go out and find another girl out there.
So why do people think that it is easier to score someone you already know? Because you lack the skillset that makes a PUA a PUA.
If you get laid 7 days a week, does that make you a PUA? Maybe.
If you get laid 7 days a week with random girls from random bars, you might be a PUA.
If you get laid 7 days a week with girls who you already had sex with, and know well, maybe.
If you get laid with girls who are already into you despite you not doing anything, no then you are not.
If you get laid 7 days a week with your friends GFs, no you are just evil.
If you get laid 7days a week with your GF, no you are just being a BF.
You see, these scenarios require different skillsets. If you act on warm approaches all the time, you dont need very much skill since she already wants you to fuck her. meaning you avoid cold approaches because you are no good with them, and you go around calling yourself a PUA because youre getting laid.
A PUA has to be able to do cold approaches and go for girls they have no previous connection to and start some sort of connection leading to sex. A true PUA doesnt choose a girl he knows over a girl he doesnt know because his skillset in cold approaching is good enough to not make it a problem.
So people, please stop fearing what you suck at, if you do you will just keep on sucking. If you ever wanna stop sucking, you gotta face it and practice.
If this didnt convince you then heed the ancient wisdom of whatever guy:
You dont shit where you eat.
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