'm going to run a bf destroyer routine on this hb 8.. recently got into a relationship because i fucked up on my commitment part..

its been about 5 days with no contact from each other.. since the relationship started.

would it be better to wait until the honeymoon phase is over or do it today as planned

Thanks for your time and your comments would be greatly appreciated


the background with me and this hb 8 is

7 months of talking, sometimes it would 8 hour conversation
long distance.. about 40 minute drive from each other ( i know, but i can honestly say i appreciate her and want to be mine exclusively)

Wait so... you waited 8 months and did nothing and when she finally got into a relationship with someone else you wanna destroy it?

Cuz that's basically what you just said. If I got it wrong then please elaborate with a few more details.

we had a day one last month and SPAM frequently

for the six months before day one, i just built up a deep emotional connection, rapport and attraction

on the day one, i K-closed got her in sexual positions for one hour after 6 hours of intense kino.. wrestling together.

i k-closed by kissing her cheeks and got her to kiss me first.. i pulled away and teased her a little.. then after that i continued to kiss her on the lips with me initiating it

also was planning on the f-close to be on a day 2

I know how you feel mate, but from other perspective it looks retarded, trust me.

Running routines to destroy someones relationship in order to get a pussy?

One-itis is some kind of mental desiese that everyone can get, so there isn't anything wrong with you.

You can fix that very easily by going out and fucking other women.

Wouldn't we all want all chicks to be "just mine"? Seriously, you are far more invested in her than she is in you.

Moving on is part of the PUA process of becoming someone who knows what he wants and goes for it, and also independent of the outcome.

Unfortunately you have idealized this one girl to heights beyond anyone else, beyond yourself even.

She has moved on from you and you should move on from her. There are a lot of other girls out there, this has been said over and over again, there are a lot of girls out there, and you must find it within you to know that there are other girls that will like you just for who you are. I advise you to go out of your house and talk to girls, and once you make that special connection with one or more girls, you will realize how funny and pathetic it actually was to idealize this one girl.

Good luck.

man, thank you thats exactly what i needed to hear! i just have one question, what would be the best way to leave a good mark in your opinion for a later time?

thanks you just took a load of my shoulders

Just be honest and genuine. If you don't wanna see her for a while so you can get over her then then do so, and don't lie about it with some lame excuses. If she asks just tell her what and why you're doing.

But its irrelevant anyway. Who CARES what she thinks of you? For a "later time"? The whole point is to move on from her, if your first thought is "how do I keep her happy while moving on" then you're not really moving on are you? She's a big girl, she can take care of herself. And she has a boyfriend already anyway so she's happy.

Focus on YOURSELF.

Thanks that first line is exactly what i needed.. i just havnt been caught up in that whole love attachment feeling in a while.. mostly kept them out but she found herself in..

anyways thanks man you made a difference in my life