Ok, so I have a very serious questions here...

Im now at game, and I still never been with a girl... but Im still learning and reading a lot of stories and learn from other mistakes... I read so many books on human Psihology and Behavior just to find that when it comes to dating, sex and flirting there is no NO LOGIC!

I met a couple girls and talked with them and i get it its all abut what you let them to treat you...

Girl will always try to put you in place as a good boy, like good dog and then they wont give you sex and will try to control you... Where is logic there???

And I can try with one girl for a 3 months and years before she gave me sex BUT she will other men give sex after 3,4 times they go out... Where is LOGIC THERE?

Girls will have sex with other men that are worst then me/you and if you express your feeling toward her and you show that you like her, and care for her, she will think of you as a beta male...

SHE WANTS GOD BOY FOR FAMILY AND CHILDREN, MEN THAT SHE CAN CONTROL BUT FOR SEX SHE WILL CHAT WITH OTHER MEN... Are males stupid or what? I know I WAS STUPID UNTIL I GET THIS>...

She wants to pretend with me that she is a good girl and in bed she suck cock....


My question for you all is,

what is going on, are girls like brain defect and brain dead? I dont hate girls but please can someone explain me what is going on?

How to have stable relationship and how to find good girl that you can have family and children with her, and is that kind of girl exist... that wont cheat?

Are girls just for fucking, teling fantasies, and using them for sucking ours cock?

And why are girls pretend that thay are nice and want to put us as good boy and then they suck dick other men...?
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Should I act as extreme alpha men and even a cocky asshole and take the risk?

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Treat her like shit and worship the people around her. Reverse psychology

OK BUT,


Why do they like more men that are not nice to her and treat her like shit and cheat on her, and if you are nice she want that to use and she doesnt care for you...



SHE WANT TO BE WITH LOSER WHILE SHE DREAMING OF NICE BOY...???!!!!!!!!!???

ARe they emotional fricks???



WATA FUCK IS GOING ON????? CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN??????????WATA FUCK IS GOING ON?

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You're confusing things. The bad boy is unpredictable and spontaneous, that's what the women are attracted too. Women don't like aholes, they just dont want the nice guy who bores them to death because he either can't make up his own decisions (can't take the lead), be mysterious and unpredictable, and generally keep her on her toes - or any combination of these.

Please take your meds btw, particularly before talking to women.

Listen,,

ok so you was kiding with your first post or you just took your meds...

in any event,

i see diferent cases, she is giving sex with men that are assholes and nice men are not gting it...

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not just assholes, spontaneous assholes

Ok,


can you give your example, how do you behave?

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Because the other guys are assholes they treat her like an inferior and don't care about her. She assumes this is because they are of higher value than her which triggers hardwired attraction circuits in her mind which are there to "upgrade" her childrens DNA (you can understand the darwinian process here) the asshole takes full advantage of the situation and she ends up sucking his cock.

Meanwhile your beta tendencies mark you as lower value unless you have other traits which would help her (and the assholes) kids survive in a world which existed 50,000 years ago.

Solution. Fake the alpha's best traits to create the attraction but be true to your own.

Melodical,

thanks.

How do you fake it best?

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By reaching the point were you don't have to fake it as you've achieved solid inner game. David DeAngelo recommends treating a girl as if she's you bratty little sister who-you love-but basically is an annoyance. Be unimppressed when you approach as if you're coming over to screen them to see if they're up to spec for your high standards. The girls pick this up very, very quickly and start to try to qualify themselves, when they do start to escalate and get the situation sexual as quick as possible. Remember: The girl who you were to slow or shy to escalate with? Well some asshole will be popping his wad over her face later.

First of all, calm down. Keep your text to a normal size.

Now to your problem.

Your are making the mistake to listen to what a girl says and not to what a girl means.

She says that she wants a good guy but that is not the whole truth.

She wants a good guy who is good to her but also knows how to be a real man when he needs to. She doesnt mean good guys who are not attractive, she means that among the guys that she is attracted to, she wants to choose the one who is a good to her.

Attraction is not always easy to explain logically. Basically it is finding the best fitting partner you can get and stick to that. There are many factors involved.

When a girl finds a guy who is good enough but knows that she could get something better, she settles for the guy temporarily. Then based on the rules of the relationship, she may choose to break up if she finds someone better or if the guy is a controlling psycho, she cheats on him and hopes that he wont find out.

To avoid that, you need to be the best she can get. Simple as that, Meaning, you gotta max out on attractiveness or maybe make sure she falls in love with you. Not that she says it but that she really does.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Thanks Melodical and thanks Ezo!

I get it, i should get to that point where I dont have to fake it. Can you recomend some rolemodels or whats helped you?

Please take time and answer me on this.

How to know what a girl means, how to read between lines?

Hot to make girl fall in love with me, do you have some rutines, are you super fine for her in some situation or something else... ?

How can I be best that she can get? How to max out on attractiveness ? What factors are involved?

Should I get girls that are lower inteligence then me, or very low status?



I must tell you my real problem, which I noticed recently...

I had very high standards and on streets I was looking only the best girls and the hotest girls... and shy ones and not so hot I didnt noticed... and beeing my self shy that automaticaly left me alone...

NOW PLEASE TELL ME YOUR OPINION ON THIS:::::

Second, Im a classical musician!!!! I play in front of 300 people!!! I almost mastered my emotion when it comes to public performace!!! I HVE NO FEAR WHEN PLAYING!!!!!! PROBLEM IS THIS: I am among people with very high status, and my playing performance is on very top, Im very good or great at playing, and I have very very high status in playing... but my social status is very very very LOW and now... EVEN IF I GOT THAT SHY girl vith very low status that suits me, EVERN JUST TO BEGIN WITH HER, I will be uncomfortable and nervious is she would come to one of my playing or.. i dont know...

What to do, im so fucked up.,, I DONT HAVE ANY ONE TO GIVE ME SOME ADVICE,, IM COMPLEATLY ALONE!!!!!!!

ANd i give so much time to my instrument that im compleatly alone....

Im sooo frustrated my days go by and im still single...and I know its because me...

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When it comes to girls its all about status right?

she can look extra hot but to be stupid and low status?

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