Was in the club talking to an HB8 who was giving me IOI's and compliments on my outfit/style, I ran the ESP test and felt like I had her hooked til she asked how old I was and I said 19, and she got an awkward look on her face (:S) and said she was 23. I pretty much choked and said it didn't matter and failed in my atgtempts to be cocky funny and her ASD sky rocketed and she stopped giving the IOI's. How should I have responded because a majority of women are older than me when I'm out?

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Its not lying, its flirting.

I'm 18 and this is EXACTLY what I need to figure out in my brief experiences of clubbing!
Everyone that has the slightest thoughts on answering this just say it, much appreciated.
James

Yeah help some brothers out!

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Its not lying, its flirting.

when she said she was 23 just make a weird face and say
"too old"

not bad.. and how do I follow that if she agrees? hah

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Its not lying, its flirting.

Im also curious if there is an alternative to 'old enough' as %90 of the time it tends to disarm her but not take it out of her mind.

dont take it serious

your the guy, u set the pace whatever u feel she feels

yeah Im 19 bitch..

frame

No easy answer, as for once I havn't been in this situation, so I won't pretend to know the perfect answer.

However.

I would recommend trying the following.

1. Avoiding the question and moving on.

"so how old are you?"

"Wow what the fuck are you doing drinking beer??? Girls don't drink beer, they drink vodka or appletini. Not beer!"

The real key to make this work is to be really loud and high energy about whatever you are changing the topic of the conversation to, which will help to make her forget the question she just asked. In geek terms, it helps your frame to engulf her weaker frame.

2. Tell her, and if she doesn't take it well, turn it around.

"So how old are you"

"18"

*she looks shocked*

"Look, who gives a fuck about age. Age is just some random fucking number, what's more important is the attraction and connection between two people... not some bullshit rule that you can't be with a guy younger than you. Besides... you're too sexy to let get away..."

Expletives will actually help this sort of thing work better, as you seem more passionate and sure about what you are saying. You seem more lost in the moment.

3. Give a couple of bullshit answers, then change the topic

"how old are you"

"Just turned 80 this week"

*giggle* "No really, how old are you"

"old enough to drink more than you. So what do you do for fun on weekends?"

Note that with this technique the more times you give bullshit answers, the more you will erode trust with her. Don't try and give fake answers forever, it doesn't work. It seems like you have something to hide.

That's all I got for ya. Try them and let me know how they go.

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Yeah i had this issue at a party a while back...

i made out with a hb7 kinda girl, then she asked me how old i was

i smirked and said that i was 15...(im actually 19)

Her face dropped! literally shock of horror (shes 22)

then i told her that i was 19...she felt more relieved. but she still rejected (mainly because she didn't want the wrong kind of image in front of her friends)

when she rejected i said "its your disappointment then" and walked off (cat string theory)...she pulled me back and kissed me again.

i hit her up on face book playing the cocky/funny guy and using more cat string... few days later we're talking dirty to each other and she was begging me to take her...but i teasingly rejected.

What i would basically do in this situation is that you play the cat string theory with her. if she says your to young; go to walk away and say its her dissapointment, or say that shes too old...but make sure you have a link to contact her again.

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Feel the fear, but do it anyway.

I also agree with the above post by paul...good work!! i particullarly like the aged 80

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Feel the fear, but do it anyway.

Here is where you should joke about your age...

If you're young, say you're way too old, and you're old say you're way too young.

I'm James.P but lost my login info so I've got this new account

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thanks, James.

guy: cool! are you really 23?
girl: yes.
guy: perfect you can be like the cute old sister that I never had, you can take me shopping to buy video games, you'll buy me ice cream, we will have so much fun!
girl:
guy: no seriously I think age is almost not important, I mean there are things like enjoying each other company, have mutual respect, feel comfortable and connected to this person are much more important in order to share amazing moments together than just the age.... or what do you think? what is really important for you in a partner?

This works 100 percent of the time for me, I usually do day game and this works for that too!

Her:How old are you
You:19
Her: Oh im 23...
You: ohhh your old enough to be my grandmother! (said cheekly and obviously teasing her)

Usually I get a "I am nott!" while laughing and usually giving me a lovingly punch in the arm, After that It goes all uphill! ... Legit, its beast

I only date girls bellow 16

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