Today at work, again very touchy feely....very. Lots of flirting. After work we go for lunch with a mutual friend....its a day diner and we're there about 2 hours and leave only when it closes.

just friends hanging out, good time, nothing really notable.

Going in, she asked me for my jacket, which wasn't even in sight, it was in the trunk.

leaving....big close hug and she says "I might call you later".

Im guessing this is all contingent on if her bf is around.

The other day she said she liked me, but the timing was horrible, and she would be upset if i stopped hanging out with her, but her bf will be around somtimes when we hang.

wtf do I do about this?

Don't know if I mentioned it, but last week after kiss closing, she pulled away and said "we have to ease into this.....we just started hanging out"

The more I think about oneitus, the more I think it's all just the challenge itself that we love. Like, if there is no challenge/resisitance, for some reason my entire head just switches off and I don't care about any girl. But if there's a challenge there, and it lasts a while, then I cannot stop thinking about it, and how to beat it.

Challenge here is the BF, and her natural social resistance. I think you should just pick up some girl and meet this chick with her in tow as a pre selection tool to make her think about her feelings for you (that Russian chick would be ideal), and you'll win her over easy as pie.

After that you'll probably get bored though, and have a BF to deal with too. But lifes more fun when it's not simple, right

you nailed it....

I *do* like her, but I shouldn't be all retarded over her.

she is far from the hottest girl Ive been with.

There was a time when we HATED each other.

One day, I half jokingly told my friend "wouldn't it be hilarious if I hooked up with "Susan" ? Then it was game on!

She texted me yesterday and we texted all day. I later found out she started texting as soon as her bf left.

Last night about 4 people told her that we looked cute together and should be a couple.

I hate the long drawn out process women use to cheat on their boyfriends. She's probably creating some sort of 'trail' of fuckups he's supposedly done right now, and is just waiting for a 'big' one (like, him being seen with some ex of his or whatever) in order for her to be able to throw a hissy fit so she can cheat on him and blame him.

You might not even need pre selection to work for you if people are telling her you guys make a cute couple - that's all just fuel for her social-proofing.

Almost like clock work, once again....she texted me this morning...."whatcha doing..."

we're still texting.

"Wish I was doing you "

hurry up the process, get sexual over text

she'll ditch her chode boyfriend

you'll bang her

Keep hanging out sounds like she's getting more invested and a matter of time before she spreads her legs. Don't bring up relationship talk or anthing serious, keep things light, airy, and fun w a hint of sexual.

This shiit is getting really high school....

Last night I went to a party in a club. She was there with her bf.

As soon as I walked in, she was ALL OVER ME. told me in my ear that I was her best friend and how happy she was to see me.....then we locked eyes....total DDB eyes, but like i've never seen......they lasted all night.....

She cuddled up to me and started taking pics of us, it was like she was doing the photo routine....and then she slid her arm down and groped my ass.

we were talking at the bar and her bf walks up and says "get the fuck off my kool aid"...At this point I already had alpha body language going on, I just eased back a little against my elbows resting on the bar and gave him a smile.....then he said "im just joking, man".

I think I successfully AMOGED him.

Minutes later she told me that earlier in the night, a mutual friend of ours who is jealous of whats going on between us, told her bf that somthing was up between us.

We kinda kept our distance from each other, but would smile and the DDB eyes continued.

She also sent me a weird emoticon thing w/ all kinds of kisses and lips....thru text.

She said goodbye to me 3 times.....each time a long hug. then I noticed, she left her bf.

So I went outside to try to catch her, but she was gone, so I called her...

me: Hey are you ok to drive, where are ya', I think you forgot somthing
HB: Im fine, blah blah blah, he's an asshole I told him to get a cab and go to his own house
me: Maybe I should come over
HB: no, im in enough trouble.....he's calling me now, I gotta go, call you back.

an hour later I got a text that said "sorry I didn't call back, can't talk right now, gotta try to go to sleep".

btw, I had a lot of social proof tonight, for guys and girls alike. I joked with her at one point about us getting outta there when nobody was looking, or else I was leaving w/ sombody else. She replied"you're gonne give up on me just like that?"

Tired of fucking around with this.....its taking too much of my energy...

I didn't text her yesterday, and she didn't text me...9/10, its her that initiates....she texted me today, somthing kind of silly, kind of an in-joke between us.....I responded about 4 hours later. I had planned to respond when I knew she was at work, unfortunately I was off by an hour, and she hadn't started yet.

I ended my first text w/ "I miss your goofy ass". and she sent back a smile.

about 30 minutes later, I texted, "could you believe the energy between us at the club sunday night ? We could have electrocuted sombody if they got too close to us..."

(I had told a friend yesterday that I had honestly never felt so much tension with a girl before....it was so strong i literally felt like we were clumsy, trying and not trying to touch each other).

I figured now is the time to set a frame and capitalize off what came about over the weekend, even tho she has already tried to friend zone me.....tho it seems its just as hard for her.

Only discouraging thing is it looks like her bf is moving in...WTF?!

dude never leaves her pad anymore.

Oh well, I gotta press or eject, cuz this is taking too much effort.