I feel as though ive stumbled upon my self like an young adolescent teenager who discovered his leaking junk for the first time. I have by no means been bad with women in my life but by no means been good, i think ive simply skated by with my looks or intellect and being in rock bands since I was 15. I'm terrible at cold approach but the worse I get like tonight for example the more hopeful I become. I know I will break through and begin rembering routines properly and link them together or eventually not need them at all what's ever the case I feel something in the winds. All I can say is I have a lot more to learn and I learn much better from example and inperson conversation than all of the books and menifestos. So i extend my help to any one who can benefit from it and hope to encounter the same, I'm in this for the long haul expecting the world from myself at somepoint and ive always wanted to see the world. Rock on everyone.

I remember this feeling exactly! good ol nastalgia. When i first discovered the game i thought to myself "How the fuck did i get my dick inside something without this shit." Being in the community for about a year and really using the info for a solid 7 months has done worlds for me. I feel like the fucking man when i go to parties it shows in my demeanor and my walk even the way i talk. People will say wow man you've really changed. Even though most men are intimidated by me because of this, I couldn't give a damn. Regardless of were you are in this community I wish you a personal greeting from the buttcrack that is Illinois.

We should always be learning as PUA regardless of our position in life whether we have that perfect 10, great job, or valuable things. "The Game" is never over and mastery to me seems impossible even for gurus, but this is what makes the game so exciting.

"I Joined the game for the women i stayed for everything else."

Preps thanks for the reply I'm hoping for exactly the change you were describing in your self. I do have a question for you if you don't mind. Would you help me with routines to open up coed sets and and then transition to demonstrate value. I'm crashing and burning in these to areas also Cold approaches but I know the only cure for that is just forcing through it and with time it will get better. I did terrible last night partly because I ran into an old friend of mine who wouldn't stop talking and basically sucked all the game out of me and his friend just running around drunk and belligerent ruining opportunities left right, couple that with my new found approach anxiety and I basically bombed. I talked to 1 older woman which went pretty well but then she disappeared and I talked to 1 stone faced hb7 but she was a dead end. I'm still pretty hopeful though LOL.

As for cold approaches the problem has nothing to do with your outside game forget all the transition opening and bs you know. Game doesn't need to be so calculated have fun out there if you are getting blown out in cold approaches i suggest reimagining your image. If you are to calculated in your approach you become a robot, but keet up the approaches right now it's probablly not coming so naturally, but once you start letting go of the material and have fun you can do stupid shit.

Let me give you an example I got a girls number by using that amazing carly rae jepson song as an opener. i told her "give me your number and i'll call you maybe." she immediately got the reference and gave it to me simply because i am a good time. You need to start with yourself it's hard to explain but once you start reaching goals you will feel your body language and tonality change you will stop giving a fuck if you mess up. If you aren't afraid to lose the game you will start winning.

I had the same problem when i started i was just so afraid of failure and if i was maintaining a good frame. just let go of all the bs and have a fucking blast with girls who are enjoying your company. learn to give yourself credit for trying and laugh at the ones your game didn't let you acquire. Most importantly though is to fix it realize what you did wrong and don't write her off as a bitch.

As for drunk ass obnoxious friends you can easily turn that into a joke. If you do want some openers since i do alot of campus game myself. I'd say be situational and be funny. I once told a girl that she was following me and i knew where all the rape buttons on campus were so to not get any ideas. Then pointed at one.