Hello, this girl that I;ve had sex with has been acting a bit strange recently, I thought we were FWB/FB but she's been acting really odd.

So we were texting most of the week and it felt like it had gone back to me chasing her. Anyway we were both out drinking last night and bumped into each other. She was quite rude and sharpish with me, said she would see me later and went on her way.

I proceeded to get smashed with the boys and didn't bump into her again. Because she was quite rude I just assumed she was in a bad mood or pissed off with me but there was no real reason behind it as I hadn't done anything wrong.

Anyway this morning I got a text that simply said "babe x" personally it feels like a "OI im bored, give me some attention" that she will just absorb and go on her merry way whilst my dick stays dry.

Normally I would comply but one of my bitchy girl/friends said that I should just ignore it and the girl will start chasing more thinking "Why hasn't he responded to my simple small text! Who is he with thats more important then my little text!" whats the pua community take on it?

You think too much.

brah is correct.

its a no fault situation. no harm can come with either reaction.

I was seeing this girl who texted like a retard. Just one or two words at a time. She was used to guys chasing her. I'll admit, I would respond to her texts in a timely manner most of the time, because I was trying to get laid to be quite frank. One day I was moving and I was so busy I didn't check my phone for a couple hours. She had sent a text that I didn't respond to then she called me and was like "Why didn't you reply to my text?!" I realized that she was so used to people hitting her back right away and giving her what she wants, and when that didn't happen, she was left to sit there and ponder why that didn't happen this time. It obviously ate at her and she had to start chasing ME and become needy and call me asking what was wrong.

Had I not accidentally allowed that situation to occur, I might not have connected the dots. That's why you need to leave some of these girls hanging in the breeze and freeze them out until they start chasing you like a lost puppy dog. That's a real life example which shows how turning the table and ignoring a girl actually makes her want you more.

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