Should i get bigger, lose weight? Change my style? I like to hear your guys opinion.

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Your okay dude. No need to change anything. Body language is all that matters.

Staying healthy and moderate grooming is always good but its not everything.

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Stay fit. No woman will ever criticize you for being fit. If you would like to get bigger, lift weights. But at least stay active and keep a healthy body fat index. I used to rock the skater look, but I outgrew it. The only problem with it is that you can't really go to clubs and nice places wearing skater attire, so you might want to try to cultivate an alternate look that is a little preppier or more en vogue. Turn that beard into a 5 oclock and whatever you do NO PLAID!

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Thanks guys. Really Appreciate the advice.

I think you should get a shorter haircut and keep your hair straight, or like this one.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yXjQGLorVmE/T ... 1%255D.jpg

Also, keep your beard shorter, nicely done, ladies love clean guys.

If he were to get a similiar hairstyle to the one you posted he would have to grow his hair and not cut it, lol.

appearance is all very subjective to the person. Many women find singer Justin Beiber attractive and many women find NFL player Cam Newton attractive but neither of them look anything alike! My advice to you would be to picture how YOU want to look in your head and become that! As long as your well groomed and in decent shape, well groomed and your clothes allow you be an individual your going to attract women.

Ok. Lose some weight. Look i'm not being rude, try get slimmer and more muscular. Dress with a little more clothing but loosely. And Finally Be confident. Also don't make a face like that when meeting girl's.

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Definitely shave that beard into a bad boy 5 o'clock shadow.

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I just shaved the beard haha. Better look?
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No, grow the beard back. You look better with it, not trying to be rude. You probably need some hair product too. I agree that losing some weight will be an improvement as well. It's kind of hard since you haven't given us a full view of you when you are looking your best, like when you go out sarging. So a lot of this is probably sounding kind of harsh.

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You want stubble bud, for sure. an electric trimmer cost me £15 and just 1 min before I go out i get perfect 5'oclock shadow style facial hair.

Totally clean shaven makes you (and every one else.) look about 15. Facial hair is fashionable at the moment as well which helps just as long as its clean cut and well kept. Look at IAM Alpha M on youtube, his vid on stubble nails it.

Ladies love stroking a spiky (not too spiky cos we all moisturise right?) beard.

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i dont feel like a douche saying this as you asked specifically, i would suggest hitting the gym (treadmill and weight training) and dieting so that you operate at a caloric deficit daily (burn more calories than you ingest)

as someone who lost 23 pounds over the summer and came back to school looking 1000x better, i cant even explain how much of a confidence booster it is, and also girls really seem to get turned off by chubbier guys. the treadmill will help you burn more calories to lose fat quicker, while the weight training will replace your burned fat with muscle. the more muscle mass you gain, the more calories you burn daily simply doing nothing, as at rest muscle burns a lot more calories than fat.

set up a routine, if youre in bad shape start by running 10 mins a day at the gym...then when you can 15...then 20...etc etc. STICK BY YOUR ROUTINE! it will SUCK at first, but once you start seeing and feeling the results, the gym becomes fucking AWESOME!

goodluck bro

I would say keep the beard, and maybe lose the graphic t-shirts. When I see them it reminds me of a high school boy, or a walking billboard for the company on the shirt. Other than that looks good man.

You look fine.

Physical appearance should always be a personal preference. Whatever you want go for it.

Grooming yourself is a must though. Go for the stubble look, as someone already mentioned. Easily done.

Get a modern hair cut. You get what you pay for : A hair stylist will style your hair to suit you. A barber will just fuck it up

New wardrobe can also make a real difference.

Remember all this is about presenting the 'best you'. Good luck man.