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20/04/2012

Fable and I head to a pub in the UofT area, we meet up with his friends who are non PU guys. A little later Tess and a couple of his friends join us. We had a big group of dudes (too much testosterone for me lol) I only knew two people there but I was having a blast. The guys were fun in particular there was one guy I chatted with a bit and was surprised to learn what I did about him. This guy was about 25, works at Abercrombie & Fitch as a model so we spoke about our respective experiences working there, he's an extremely nice, humble guy, very handsome by commercial standards probably a 9/10 but he's a virgin! I'm still a little surprised as to why but it did explain a lot of his behavior he came across as extremely shy when we spoke, he kept on looking down and stumbled a lot in his speech. The lesson I took from him is that looks aren't everything.

Anyhow as we chat, I get a text from Fable pointing out 2 girls behind us HbPharmacist and HbHipster. I tell Tess about it and we both thought they were cute so I decide to go for it. I went it (slightly nervous but I made sure I conveyed confidence) and simply introduced myself, chatted for a few minutes:

Me: What brings you girls to this lovely student bar?
HbHipster: (giggles) Actually we're not even students we just live close by.
Me: So you guys are imposters, how dare you impersonate a student.
HbHipster: (they laugh) Is it against the law?
Me: Of course I'm the sheriff of these here parts.
HbHipster: Well you know I shot the sheriff...
Me: But you didn't shoot the deputy... (I point to Tess)

He joined soon after at this point I was more into HbHipster as she was more my type physically but they way we were positioned kind forced to me focus on HbPharmacist who was cute anyway either way I couldn't lose. Tess and I were standing while the girls were seated, there was no space for us to sit down, and we had shit load of foot traffic forcing us to move every couple of minutes so I said:

Me: Listen girls, it's kind of awkward for Tess and I with all the traffic here, how about you guys join our table over there and we'll have some drinks and a great time. (They looked interested but apprehensive)
Me: (I look them in the eyes and smurk confidently) You know your night's going to be better if you do...(then I walk away without looking back)

So the girls follow my lead ;) we made room for them on the table, I went up to HbPharmacist and said "You're going to sit next to me and she'll sit next to him...(Tess)" They giggled and said "Ok..." At the table I introduced the girls to my the guys and they seemed kind of surprised that we had just pulled some random girls, while I genuinely enjoyed the validation and my ego was stroked, I didn't acknowledge, I pretended like it's the most natural thing in the world. At this point I was just trying to maintain a nice, witty and flirty conversation with my girl lots of eye contact, I complimented her outfit she looked flustered and claimed she doesn't really follow the trends but tries to look good. We were with these girls for about 40mins before we decided to go to a nightclub, I invited them along and even gave an impassioned rendition of Martin Luther King Jr's "I have a Dream" speech (mine might have been about an eclectic mix of people getting shit faced and going dancing but it was profound none the less). The girls were amused and while they were mulling it over Fable, Tess and I went to settle our bills, I assumed that one of the other guys would keep the girls occupied but they all got up to pay as well and by the time we came back the girls had decided against joining us, I #closed HbHipster and left.

We went to the club and I separated from the group to do some approaches, it was pretty much hit and miss and I the A&F virgin I had mentioned earlier seemed to look genuinely terrified and frozen so I felt an obligation to hang out with him most of the night. Overall, I just had a good time hanging out with Fable, Tess and their friends.

Lessons Learned

Escalation - This is something that Fable pointed out to me, I didn't escalate enough. I definitely think this was mainly because we were at a table with about 10guys so it would be kind of awkward but regardless I should have done a little more than I did. In general I mostly focus on verbal escalation in those situations and do escalate whenever possible but his form of fast escalation is significantly more poignant and physical hence why he gets more women than I do and of course because of the part where he's Fable. I'm definitely going to be escalating way more aggressively in the future.

You Life is Amazing and She's Free to Tag Along - When I invited the girls to join us at our table, the frame I had in my mind was "I'm leaving now but I would love for you guys to join us, my night's going to be great regardless." I maintained an outcome independent and dominant frame (dominant because I didn't leave any room for discussion by walking away). I think if you have that frame of mind more often than not the girls will sense that will not want to pass up the opportunity of spending the night with you.

Cover All Your Bases - I genuinely think the girls would have come to the nightclub if I hadn't left them alone, after my truly...just truly remarkable speech lol they were warming up to the idea of clubbing but I think they had a chance to talk amongst themselves and formed a solid excuse. Don't trust AFCs to do your job!

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Day 2 - HbPharmicist
28/04/2012


In the interim week I texted HbPharmacist a little before setting up the date, these days, I don't really try hard in terms of building comfort/trying to be entertaining via text, if she's into me then I don't have to, plus I think I was coming across as try hard in the past (Fable advised me on this). I get her down to my area for what has now become my standard date. The date starts off with us at a coffee place about 5 - 10 minutes away from my place we walk away from it while drinking the coffee but when they're done we began to walk towards my place (presumably to grab food) before I eventually invite her over to have a drink/watch a movie/help me change a light bulb etc. ;) I would go into more details in terms of locations but a man must have his secrets...

So I did that and I've also been trying out this line from Uncle Bad Touch, when transitioning from date#1(coffee) to date#2(food, drinks etc).

Me: I have a little rule on my first dates...
HbPharmacist: Ok, what's that?
Me: My first dates are never longer than about 30mins...
HbPharmacist: haha What why?
Me: Well, because you're going to know within the first 30mins of a date whether you have a connection with this person, so why waste anytime...
HbPharmacist: True...
Me: That being said, I'm really enjoying this date with you and now we can move onto the second date, let's grab some food.
HbPharmacist: Sounds good, I'm glad I could pass your test.
Me: It's not a test, time is valuable, not just mine but everyone's time is valuable, there's no point in wasting it. I'm too honest to do that...

At which point I noticed her hand was bleeding, she explained that she had slammed her hand in the bathroom but didn't notice she was cut. I thought to myself, "This is perfect!" not because she was injured but because this was a reason to bring her back to my place early. We get to my place and I gave her some bandages, then I suggested we hang out and watch a movie because I had some left over food, she agreed but she's a vegetarian so we had to go grab something for her. When we get back, I put on the movie, after we were done eating I went and grabbed a duvet. We started to cuddle and towards the end of the movie I sat her up and kissed her. As we were making out I stopped in between and complimented her lips, I was feeling her up and she seemed to be into it but this girl is extremely passive so she was making me do all of the work. Too be honest it was a little bit of turn off and I wasn't in a rush so after a while I pulled away and asked her what she was up to that night, she said nothing so I suggested we go for a drink. After an hour so at one of the bars across the street, I suggested we leave, at which point she agreed but said she didn't want to miss the subway so we kissed goodbye.

Lessons Learned

Comfort - This isn't much of a lesson, it's more of an observation. I spent around 5 - 6 hours with this girl that day and I find it very interesting that these days if I go on a date or I'm with a girl, they would literally not want to leave even if it's the first time. For now I'm taking it is a huge positive that I can make these women feel that comfortable around me but at the same time, isn't there such a thing as building "too" much comfort?

Keep Moving - I don't think I truly appreciated the idea of location bouncing until I moved downtown, I mean I always did it or tried to do it but it never felt congruent/natural. After a while of living here I realized it just makes sense and feels completely natural in terms of getting women back to my place on the first date. There's a natural ebb and flow in the way I present the date, plus you don't risk the chance of stagnation by staying in one locale the whole time.

The More Passive, The More Dominant - I had a discussion with a couple of guys from the forum about this and deriving from my own experiences this seems to be true. This girl is Asian she's not a FOB but she moved to Canada when she was about 8, is an only child and lead a somewhat sheltered life, until she moved out of her parents house during University. So while she's lived here most of her life she has some FOB characteristics, mainly her passiveness. She literally even said, "I'm a little bit of an introvert but I've been trying to become more outgoing and that's why I enjoy hanging out with someone who will make most of my decisions for me." Translation: "I need a dominant man." Now, the reason I bring this up is because in my experience westernized girls are typically much more sexually aggressive than FOBs. For example, if you escalate 50% on a westernized girl she might escalate 30% on you, where as if you escalate 50% on a typical FOB she'll only escalate 10% on you. Mind you these aren't actual statistics but it's rough idea of the differences between the two. Therein lies the problem for me, I'm used to girls escalating back so for her to sit back and make me do all the work, feels awkward really. A friend of mine said it's almost like you have be so domineering on FOBs, it's as if you have to rape them. :-p Now, obviously he was exaggerating you aren't raping them but you get my point...

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An Epic Weekend

This is from earlier in the summer.

Fri Night

Friday was not a pick up night I went down to Wasaga beach with Frisiviti, Fable and some non PU friends. It was fun, we drank a bunch partied in our hotel room the whole night. The group included two single girls but logistics didn't allow for much gaming of either two. Either way the trip was a blast and I learnt quite a bit observing the crew. Thanks to Fable for inviting me!

Sat Night

After I got home from Wasaga I took a power nap and got ready to go out that night. I went to Devil's with TheShowman and one of his friends (we'll call him Bruce). I'd been out with Bruce a few times already, he's a cool guy somewhat of a natural not into PU but he wants to learn and he just goes with the flow. We get to Devil's and as usual there's a bunch of cougars, bachelorette parties etc. TheShowman and I both start chatting up some bachelorette parties, Bruce joined in and we all danced with a couple of the girls. A while later the girls wanted to grab some drinks and left, we moved on TheShowman and I got some social proof by dancing on stage for a bit, I pulled some girls up to dance but they seemed more interested in getting attention by dancing on the poles. Anyhow TheShowM suggests we head to the patio, he opens a 3set there, Bruce and I joined good flirtatious conversation I tried to pull my girl but she said she couldn't because she had to take care of the bachelorette that night, I settled for her number.

I left the guys and saw one girl (HbLonely) who was part of the stag party we had danced with earlier, she fit a certain criteria that Fable has told me to look for in big groups at night. Keep in mind I'm paraphrasing, "Look for the girl who's part of a big group, she'll be seated with them but slightly to the side, she'll partially participate in the group conversation but will mostly look aloof, almost lonely or disappointed...Why? Because she's the single one in the group, she came out to meet men, to get laid but most guys are either going for the wrong girls in the group or too scared to approach such a large set." Just for fun I approached her with a british accent. :-p

Me: Hey, you mind if I sit here?
HbLonely: No, not at all.
Me: What's your name, love?
HbLonely: Xxxx and yours? Where are you from by the way you have an accent?
Me: Where do you think I'm from?
HbLonely: Uuum somewhere in the U.K....?
Me: Actually, I'm from Japan...You can see it in the eyes...
HbLonely: haha Of course how did I not notice, it's pretty clear from you skin tone.
Me: You racist! This is a tan, I just stayed in too long.
HbLonely: ha! You know...I noticed you dancing with my friends earlier...
Me: Yeah, you were checking me out, it's understandable I am quite sexy.
HbLonely: haha Cocky much? Well none of my friends are single, they're all married or engaged, I'm the only the single one!
Me: :idea: Good to know...(One of her friends comes over)
HbMotherHen: Hey HbLonely, the club's closing soon and we're leaving...
HbLonely: You guys go without me, I'll take a cab home.
HbMotherHen: Hey, I remember you from earlier, Kiz_n right? (I say hi back and nod, she turns back to her) Are you sure you're staying?
HbLonely: Yeah, yeah I'm not ready to leave yet, I'll take cab and text you when I get home. :idea:
HbMotherHen: Ok, have a good night..

Then I introduce Bruce and TheShowM to HbLonely, they got acquainted built up some attraction. After a while I decided to go direct and said.

Me: Listen love, I'm attractive, you're attractive why don't we go back to my place...
HbLonely: Uuum I don't know...I have to get up early.
TheShowM: We all have to get up early just come by for a quick glass of champagne and chill for a bit.
HbLonely: Just a quick a glass of champagne...uuum where do you live?
Me: My condo's right behind The ACC.
HbLonely: Well ok.

We take a cab back to my place, I texted Blackknight to let him know the situation, he was just on his way back to our place but was courteous enough to turn around and leave the condo for the night. As soon as we get in, I show her around and take her to the balcony. We talked, I was building up more comfort and escalating after a while I just grabbed her and pulled her in, we started making out I'm grabbing her ass and she's reaching for my cock. At which point I pulled away because I wanted to turn her on but not go too far before I said this:

Me: (Direct sexual eye contact) You have really soft lips...(she smiled) Listen hun, I have no doubt that I'm going to fuck the shit out of you tonight...
HbLonely: You don't huh...
Me: Of course but I know my friends find you sexy as well so why don't we all ravish your body.
HbLonely: I'm definitely down to fuck you and think you're all hot but I don't know if I can handle the group. I'm actually not supposed to exert myself too much because I had surgery on my stomach about a month ago.

(Caution: on some girls this might trigger ASD.)

She went to the bathroom and I let Bruce and TheShowM know the situation. She came out of the bathroom and the four of us were seated on the couch listening to music and talking when TheShowM asks HbLonely if she's good at giving massages, she complies and starts to massage his back, I joined in and started to massage her thighs and calves. (Bruce seemed a little apprehensive which is understandable) TheShowM took off his shirt and after a few minutes we changed positions, I took off my shirt as well and she she massaged me, I suggested to Bruce that HbLonely's back was lonely (no pun intended). He caught my hint and began to massage her back, TheShowM moved to her tits and I turned around and began to focus on her inner thighs, massaging further and further up towards her pussy. (Honestly I couldn't even believe this was happening? A gangbang really? Me? TheShowM really?

As I massaged her inner thighs TheShowM at this point climbed up on the couch and whipped out his dick she began to suck it. (For a second, I thought to myself 'Ok, that's TheShowM's penis, this is kind of weird but at the same not really', "fuck it") I massaged further up her thighs to her panties pulled them down, hiked up her skirt and pulled out my dick. A certain Russian isn't going to like this but she was quite hairy down there (definitely more hair than on your head!) Honestly, I welcome the change, most girls shave they're pussies so a little hair now and then turns me on. Now she's blowing TheShowM and giving me a hand job, Bruce is kind of seated off to the side trying to decide whether to leave or to drop his inhibitions and join in. I start to rub her clit and finger her she moans while gagging on TheShowM's cock :-p I noticed Bruce still wasn't participating so I tapped his shoulder and signalled for him to join, he shook his head vigorously! TheShowM handed me a condom but I wasn't hard yet (I wasn't completely comfortable with the situation yet) so we switched and he started to fuck her on the couch, the angle wasn't the best so I suggested we move to my bedroom.

As we shifted to the bedroom HbLonely says, "Bruce is the only one of us who still has clothes on right now..." He got undressed and we all got onto the bed. TheShowM presumes fucking her in missionary, while she sucks my dick and gives Bruce a hand job, it was crazy! TheShowM fucked her for quite a while till he came on her, meanwhile Bruce and I swapped positions a couple of times. Next up was me, I was hard now and eager to have my turn, we stayed in missionary the whole time as it was easier for her to handle two guys at the same time (plus we didn't want to over exert her!). Bruce and I took turns switching between getting blown and fucking her for the next hour and a half or so until we decided to take a break. Which turned into a nap, I didn't really sleep and woke up with the sun. I started to rub HbLonely's ass and began to finger her asshole to see if she was receptive to anal, she seemed ok with it but after a while told me she didn't want to do anal that day. Bruce woke up to me fucking HbLonely and left abruptly (I wonder why haha). After we were done I told her she to leave because I had to go somewhere (which was true). As she was in the process of getting her stuff she was freaking out about what story to tell her friends because HbMotherHen had tried to contact her a few times. It was funny, I smiled coyly and said, "Why make up an elaborate story, just tell her you got home safely and fell asleep before she called..." She looked relieved, gave me her number and left. Thus ended one of the craziest nights of my life. The way the guys left was kind of funny it as if we were leaving the scene of a crime!

Sun Morning - Night

That morning, on little to no sleep, I met with BK and a mutual friend (we'll call him Jax, who's actually on PSI, I don't know his moniker though) to head to a booze cruise (I told you I had to go somewhere!) The booze cruise was a blast I was on high from the previous night, I was drunk at 11:00 in the morning and all the people on the boat were friendly, I couldn't complain. I had some great interactions, got a few numbers from the cruise and Jax introduced me to a couple girls one of which was a club promoter (HbPromoter) and the other was FOB from Spain (HbSpanglish) I was more interested in HbSpanglish so I built comfort and stole her hat :-) when I brought it back she seemed to trust me more, at the end of the cruise I asked her to give me the hat to remember her by and she told me that she was going a private beach party with HbPromoter and that if I came by there that night she would give it to me. She had literally just arrived from Spain so she didn't have phone but BK had HbPromoter's number so we could contact them later. We parted ways, Jax took a cab with two other girls we had been chatting up earlier, but BK and I were exhausted, we decided to go home and take a nap before going out later that night and when we did we didn't wake up! At least not until it was way too late to go the party!

Observations

I would have never been able to have a weekend like this prior to PU, mainly because I wouldn't have thought it was possible and I didn't have enough friends living exciting lives that could invite me to fun events or were willing to do something simple like have a gang bang. ;)

That Sat was the first time I actively applied Fable's advice about looking for the lonely girl in the huge a group and it was spot on, I will definitely be applying this more often during night game.

HbLonely, Bruce and I had an interesting conversation just before we went to sleep. She told us she had two other gang bangs prior to this one but had never really enjoyed one until that night. She thought we had planned it based on how comfortable and confident we were which made her feel more comfortable as a result. Even though HbLonely would have been down to hang out again I wasn't really interested

If you have a devil's three way or gang bang I suggest doing it with friends you're very comfortable with or close to and that you know are prepared for it mentally. Because it might change the dynamics of your relationships, temporarily or permanently, it happened with both TheShowM and Bruce. I haven't been out with Bruce since and now he's in an monogamous relationship. :-p I think it's safe to say he was traumatized but that's because he wasn't prepared mentally, I know I wouldn't have been less than a year ago. I had a temporary dynamic change TheShowM, we had STI scares because both our condom's broke, but we got tested and luckily we're in the clear.

Now to make it happen, it's important to be confident that the girl would be down, don't ask her, you can suggest it but get her really horny first. To get started I really like TheShowM's massage escalation, it was a great way to get her familiar with more than one guy touching her body simultaneously and naturally progress from there.

I learnt that seeing other men naked in such close proximity doesn't really effect me the way I thought it would, of course it still took a while for my borewors to get comfortable with the situation and come to attention. :-p Also that watching a girl get fucked by another person and moan in ecstasy right in front me of was a huge turn on, it made me really excited for my turn. It's like live porn people! I'm definitely up for some similarly mind blowing experiences in the future. 2 rules though Keep your hands to yourself gentlemen and No eye contact during copulation! haha

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This is from a little later this summer.

A Random Wednesday Night

My roomie's (BK) non-PU friends wanted to hang out at a bar that night, one guy is a little closed minded, opposed to PU (I don't think he fully understands the depth of it) and engaged, but has never felt the warm of his fiancee's lady parts or any vagina for that matter. The other guy is a "nice guy" and eager to learn but follows said virgin's lead, so he will actually never take the step to change his life monumentally via self improvement. I was actually kind of reluctant to head out with these guys but I went in solidarity with Blackknight. So BK and I take the gents to the "BierMarkt" close to our place and we all grab a pint (except said gents, they don't drink). I'm in a good state as I always try to be but these guys make it so hard to hold a conversation, I eventually gave up and focused on chatting with BK while the other two talked to each other, we might as well have been on two different tables! BK and I opened a group of about five ladies and two dudes right next to us, four out of the five seemed very receptive wanted us to go and dance with them. The dudes seemed less than pleased; I'm not too sure if they were actually with the girls, anyhow one of the guys starts to use the non-receptive girl to kind of AMOG BK and I. He wasn't successful but we decided we'd come back to the set later on because, the other two gents we were with would not know what to do with themselves if we left.

The clock strikes 11:30pm and we decided to bounce to the "Fran's", a couple of blocks down the way, for some food (the gents did not appreciate BierMarkt's food selection) I wasn't hungry and just had some dessert, the clock struck 12am and the guys decided to call it a night because they had work in the morning and BK had his girlfriend coming over in a little while. I told him I'd see him at home later, I was going to solo game one of the bars nearby because I was so unsatisfied with the night thus far. He walks me to the bar and I realized that I'd lost my ID earlier on, so I backtrack in an attempt to find it, to no avail "Fuck it." I thought to myself, "I'm a regular at that bar, hopefully they'll let me in." As I crossed the street going back to bar, I see this blonde girl standing next to me, I found her very attractive but chickened out from opening her in the moment. My excuse was something like, "We're about to cross the street, I'll open her on the other side." I don't know if I actually would have, but as the walk sign signals a go, she turns to me and asks, "Excuse me, I don't mean to bother you but do you know where Jack Astors is?" I responded with, "I'm actually on my way there." (this was not true...) "It's close by" (technically true...It was literally across the street.) "I'm going there to grab a drink" (this was true...) She replied, "By yourself? well maybe you can walk me there, I'm by myself too." I agreed but told her she would have to help me get in because I had just lost my ID, she complied and got me in by pretending I was her co-worker, the bouncer was convinced but the bartender was not. :o

So I ordered a soda water at the bar, I didn't really want anymore alcohol but she (HbClairvoyant) was drinking and I felt embarrassed that the bartender had considered me too young to drink in front of her (damn my boyish good lucks! it's a is a gift and a curse really) I texted Fable explaining the situation and he reminded me to not let that affect me, it doesn't really matter unless, I allow it to affect my behaviour. Just like that I moved on...HbClairvoyant starts to hint at a couple of things, she mentions how she works at a Holiday Inn close by but lives in Oakville, had missed her bus, how none of her friends were picking up their phones and that a cab ride back home would cost her $80 plus so she was contemplating getting a hotel room for the night instead...Perfect, me one on one with an attractive woman who keeps on mentioning how she has "nowhere to stay..." I had to take advantage of this situation. I decided to not to whip my dick out and immediately say, "Hey, I don't even know you but that doesn't matter because gee golly you're attractive. Don't stay at a hotel, come and sit on my di...I mean sleep at my place!" I opted instead, to build comfort and get to know her over the next hour or so, then eventually pull her.

As we chatted I made sure to plant the seed, about my place being 5 minutes away and having some leftover alcohol, I could use it to pull her later on. She qualified me and asked me why I came out alone that night, I told her the truth about being out with some friends earlier and deciding to go pick up girls by myself. She seemed surprised and intrigued but I was nonchalant about it. We were flirting and she started to show some insecurities, she mentioned how she's not this forward with most guys and how she's not used to the way people operate in downtown, because Oakville is mostly safe suburbs. I made sure to qualify her back and after about an hour, she just flat out said, "Hey...Rico, how about we head back to your place and finish off that vodka you mentioned earlier..." Besides her obvious hints earlier she showed no indication of being so capable of saying this, so as Yoda would say, "Forward, this girl must be, surprised I was..." but naturally I agreed. She backtracked a bit and said "I want you to know that I'm not normally this forward, it's just that you seem to present yourself very well and you're well dressed, you seem very cool. Plus I don't have anywhere to go after this, it's not like I'm going to sleep with you..." (who are you trying to convince me or yourself?) I coyly smiled and lead her outside, she cautiously asked me how far my place was and I reminded her it was a 5 minute walk so we commenced. On the way there, her insecurities and ASD seemed to kick into overdrive. I tried to address her reputation EN by qualifying her but she still seemed very apprehensive about going home with me. She claimed it was a safety issue but I suspect it was more so reputation. I think she was feeling slutty due to having approached me first and initiating the pull (or so she thought :wink: ) but anyhow I literally introduced her to the security guy (he knows me) and assured her that there are camera's all over the building so she's safe and I'm safe from her. Needless to say, I was getting irritated...

Meanwhile back at the Hall of Justice! (My place)

Anyhow we get up to my unit and BK is sleeping in his bed with his girl, HbClairvoyant saw that, her heels and that seemed to put her at ease, I did my usual move by taking her straight to the balcony, to take in the view, talk a bit and physically escalate. At a certain point she tried calling one of her girlfriends (she was out of town) and some guy, it sounded like a booty call, but the guy told her he would be home hours later. We then grabbed some vodka, went to my room and talked some more or should I say she talked some more...

HbClairvoyant: I like that you know about astrology, I'm super into that! See because we're both Aries we think the same way! Aaaand a little bit superstitious, like about the supernatural and stuff.
Me: (I smile and nod) Supernatural huh, what got you into it?
HbClairvoyant: Well...I don't know if I should say, you'll think I'm weird...
Me: I told you earlier I'm a non judgemental person, besides this kind of stuff intrigues me, go on.
HbClairvoyant: Ok...so...one of my friends is from East India and she's like a shaman. So she told me that Aries have like natural powers, like supernatural powers...Which resonates with me.
Me: (I looked a little surprised but I was intrigued) Powers? like what?
HbClairvoyant: No no...you'll think I'm crazy...
Me: I'm not going to force you to tell me anything you don't want to but I won't I can assure you I'm very open minded and won't think you're crazy...
HbClairvoyant: Uummm...well...like ever since I could remember, I was epileptic, like you...(to make a long story short I had only one seizure, when I was a baby, it was treated immediately and I had mentioned to her a little earlier) so I had seizures until I was 21, but every time I had it happened, I had...I had uh...visions...like of the future. That's why Aries tend to have epilepsy. (don't know how accurate that is...) That's all I can I say about it though, I'm being monitored and you're looking at me like I'm crazy. (I mean, could you blame me?)
Me: (As nonchalantly as possible) I don't think you're crazy but who would and how could you possibly be being monitored right now, I don't think anyone would know that you're at my place and there are no "bugs" in here. lol You're safe here...(At this point I just wanted to go as far down the rabbit hole as possible)
HbClairvoyant: I'm being monitored by the University of Waterloo...because of my clairvoyance, the monitoring device is inside me... :shock:

She wouldn't go much deeper than that so I changed the subject and after around 10 minutes, I got bored, I decided to escalate. She was seated on the edge of my bed, I knelt on the bed called, her name and said, "Come here..." she asked why and I said, "You know why..." At which point I grabbed and pulled her onto the bed, got on top of her and kissed her. She resisted the kiss at first but I felt the tension in her body release and her hands embrace and dig into my back. I started to kiss and nibble her neck, (her strawberry perfume or lotion, made me even more aggressive) I could feel her breathing get heavier and her nails dig harder into my back. I take off mine and her top, but when I tried to pull down her leggings, she pushed my hand away. I opted instead to whip out my dick and direct her hand to it, she took my lead and began to stroke me while we made out. I got harder and she was getting more turned on, I pulled up her bra and sucked her tits and she shivered. She had soft skin but a tight tummy, I kissed down her navel and attempted to pull down her leggings again, yes no resistance this time...

I started lightly rubbing her clit over her panties and she moaned out, "I don't know if I should do this, I'm from Oakville, I've never gone home with a random guy before..." Her panties were so wet I could tell that this resistance couldn't hold up for long, I responded, "You didn't come home with me randomly, I allowed you to and I don't invite random strangers to spend the night at my home, obviously I think you're fucking sexy but I also trust you enough to share my bed with you, anything that happens now is me being a man." I don't know if me saying anything even made a difference in this particular situation, but I did it anyway. I began to kiss her again while teasing her by rubbing my dick over her pussy and pretending to penetrate her, while her panties were still on, she was so warm and wet, I couldn't wait any longer. I kissed down to her pussy and lightly rubbed her clit again, she tensed up and moaned, then I pulled off her panties. I rubbed her clit some more slowly increasing in intensity, she was quivering on the bed with each orgasm before she eventually screamed, "FUCK ME WITH YOUR BLACK COCK!" Honestly, I felt offended (why can't it just be a cock, lol why does it have to be black?) but at the same time I was immensely turned on!l This girl who was giving me so much resistance not 5 minutes ago was screaming the dirty sexual racial slurs, holy fuck!. (Something's wrong with me haha) Anyhow, I grabbed a condom and fucked the shit out of her for just about 2 hours, she was an animal, I've never been with a girl who was so athletic and talked so much dirty shit during sex, she didn't even need me to respond really!

After we were done, she tried to call the guy she was talking to earlier, he still wasn't home and didn't seem interested in meeting up with her but she played the, "I'm at a random person's house and scared to spend the night." card. Which I found offensive considering how comfortable she was screaming "MAKE ME CUM WITH YOUR HARD BLACK COCK, PLEASE!" 20 minutes earlier... I asked her why she said that to the guy and she said she didn't mean it, she just wanted to get the guys attention. If this girl is scared that she'll get killed by a random stranger, it wouldn't be because the guy was a deranged psychopathic murderer, it would be because she so fucking irritating! I decided to go and chill on the balcony, she joined me a little later and handed me her phone with a cab company on the line, I gave them my address and asked her where she was heading, since home was too expensive. She said she wasn't going anywhere and was probably going to spend the night with me (why the fuck are you calling a cab then? :roll: ) I didn't even bother asking...I went back inside about 10 minutes later and she had left already without saying anything.

Lessons Learned

The first and most important lesson is that crazy girls are the best lays around! No, but seriously I think this that's true crazy girls fuck like crazy, but luckily she wasn't scary crazy, she was more head in the clouds, kumbaya, believes in the Genie from "Aladdin" crazy (there's a difference). If I feared for my life I would have never slept with her...probably...

Go out by yourself more often - That was the first time I'd gone out at night by myself in a while. I always was say a group of 2 - 3 guys is best for PU but don't underestimate the advantages of being by yourself. The obvious one being that you'll become more independent and grow in confidence. Especially during the week; you don't always find bars and clubs packed with a bunch of sets, you might find a woman having a drink solitarily, with 3 other guys in there too scared to approach her or like me run into a random girl who just got off of work and missed her last bus.

All you guys already this but it's just a reminder, plant the seed in her brain, for the pull early. #JediMindTricks

When a girl you just met is being extremely forward with you, don't jump the gun. It's unusual and I think you need to make her work for it, she must win your trust, be high value, this is a delicate balance. Don't be too aloof but act cautious and friendly initially, slowly opening up your body language and qualifying her. I waited with this girl and she ended up propositioning me instead, maybe I waited too long but either way I think that if I had tried to invite her over too early she would have sensed me being over eager or needy and said no thanks.

I find that the best remedy for LMR if qualifying doesn't work is to just whip your cock out and put her hand on it, I do the same thing on night club dance floors (the hand thing, I don't whip out my cock on dance floors). I don't know if I've said this before but I read a long time ago and have since done this numerous times. I've found that, it's very hard for a girl to resist a hard cock after touching it skin to skin and/or staring it in the face. If she doesn't naturally escalate from there I grab her head and direct it towards my dick. I've always at least gotten a blow job from this so it at least what works for me, I'm curious to hear what you guys do in similar situations...Don't be lazy!

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The last time I tried online dating was prior to pick up, I literally had ZERO results, I was on POF and I tried a few other websites. Since I started gaming just over a year ago I focused on doing approaching in person and didn’t really think online dating was worth my while. I got a little curious when I saw a few guys I respect on the forums have some success doing it. I chatted with Fable about it and he showed me his profile on POF & OkCupid and made me realize that I can still go out and approach during the day & night and when I’m at home send out a few messages to girls, it takes very little maintenance, he showed me what’s been working for him and the simplicity of it. When I made a profile before, I was trying too hard I was either too “nice” or “challenging” it didn’t come across as natural. Anyways I was really surprised at how simple the profile he had up was and how he was not trying to sound confident or too friendly it just seemed honest and interesting, short and simple. I can see how girls would find that refreshing even the messages he sent out were extremely simple. Anyhow, that was at the beginning of the summer and just as I was getting into the swing of things, I lost my password! I didn’t give OKC my real email address and I couldn’t be bothered to make a new profile…

So randomly, a couple of weeks ago I remembered my password and decided to check out my profile on OKC (I’ve found that POF isn’t as successful for me). Funny enough I found a 2 -3 messages, a couple of girls had sent me their phone numbers and one was responding to my initial opener. To make a long story short I messaged HbStockings, back and forth a bit, I got her number built up some more comfort via text and she suggested we met up for some drinks and told me she was free that Thursday, one thing I did that I think worked well was to let her know that I was free on a couple of other days but I wasn’t sure about Thursday yet. I feel it gave off a non-needy vibe and let her know that I had my own life, I texted her a few days later to confirm and eventually we decided to meet up the following Monday because she was sick.

Day 2 HbStockings

We meet up on Mon at a bar in my area at around 7pm had some food and drinks, our conversation was very natural, she was very excitable and bubbly so I didn’t really have to carry the conversation, I sat back and looked pretty :P No but seriously, I just made sure by body language was good and had a flirtatious, fun conversation with her. One thing I made sure to do that Fable advised me on was to find out why she was on OKC in the first place, I’m paraphrasing but he mentioned that asking her puts her in a position where she has to qualify herself and it allows you to let her win you over with her answer. I just asked what brought her there and she explained that she knew someone who said all you find online are creeps and she wanted to find out for herself, plus she’s not really good with first encounters, so she finds it much easier to get to know someone online before meeting up with them. I suspect the latter point is more of the reason why she’s on OKC. Obviously, she's then going to ask you the same question Fable suggested that I say something like a friend of mine met a really great gal off of the website, so I figured I'd check it out. We talked about her experiences thus far, the stigma of online dating, college life, traveling etc. After a while I transitioned the conversation to a more sexual topic, like um sex...I basically asked her what her craziest sexual experiences were and she said didn't have any...as in she's a virgin...Then she asked about mine, I told her about having public sex, she seemed intrigued maybe slightly intimidated, I asked her in the most tactful manor what had prevented from having sex up until this point. She told me how like most girls, she went through a really insecure, bipolar phase in high school. (I got the feeling that her issues are/were deeper than she was letting on but hey I'm not a therapist) Now that she's 19 and in college much more confident in herself she feels ready and isn't looking for "Mr. Right" to take her virginity but rather someone she's comfortable with.

After a couple of hours at the bar I asked her, if she had a curfew (she lives with her parents) she got defensive (I like this line) and said of course not she can stay for as long as she feels like, so I suggested we go for a walk. I took her down to the Lakeshore, it was night, the water reflected the lights from the airport, there's a little artificial beach, it was scenic. We stood and took in the view for a bit, I was holding her waste, there was an awkward pause but not the bad kind, the kind right before you kiss someone...(I still get nervous right before I escalate but now it feels more like excitement pushing me over the edge) I turned to her, cupped my finger under her chin and said, "So how good of a kisser do you think you are?" she giggled shyly and said "Um...I don't know!" I pulled her in and we started making out. (She's a truly awful kisser way too much teeth but I was so turned on by her body I was able to look past that) I kiss her neck, and nibble on it, lick it, she dug her nails into my neck and exhaled heavily, I said "You like that huh?" She moaned "Uh huh..." I continued kissing and licking her neck, I squeezed her tits over her shirt then made my way down with both hands to grab her ass, she was wearing stockings which made me even more horny, I began to rub her pussy from the outside of her stockings her breathing got heavier, I fucking wanted to take her right then and there, I put her hand on my cock and she began to rub more and more aggressively. I started to put my hands down her stockings but I couldn't smoothly push my hands down the thick part of the stockings around her waist, (fuck I love how stockings feel and look on a woman 's body but that thick part around the waist is a bitch sometimes) After a few seconds of my hands trying to push my way in towards her pussy, she pushed them away, I tried again a min later and she pushed my hand away again. I then told her I'm not going to force her to do anything she doesn't want to, which seemed to put her at ease.

At this point I wanted to escalate further, I saw this concrete step behind us so I suggested we sit down, as soon as we did, I pushed her down, climbed on top of her and told her how fucking sexy she was and how much she turned me on, we started kissing again, I pulled my cock out of my jeans and put her hand on it, she seemed surprised to feel the actual skin of my hard cock in her hand but slowly got more into it, after a while I tried to pull down her stockings one more time and she me stopped again. I gave up on that instead I asked if she'd ever sucked a dick before, she said she hadn't, I said go ahead give it a try, don't be scared but to be careful with her teeth :P I sat up and guided her mouth towards my dick, I really doubt she'd never sucked a dick before, that blow job was amazing...I love it when girls unabashedly suck a cock, she wasn't scared to spit on, deep throat till she choked or jerk it aggressively. She sucked me off for about 20 mins, I came close but didn't cum, no pun intended (as much as I love blow jobs, I never cum from them, I need penetration.) At some point a bunch of people started walking towards the Lakeshore where we were, it's funny she didn't even notice but I pulled her head up and we tidied up before we left.

Lessons Learned

As I walked her to the subway and kissed her goodbye, we chatted about how exciting that experience was and she said she couldn't give me everything right away on the first date, she wanted to give me something to look forward to because I'm a player. I talked about my non-judgement of women's sexuality and how we should be treated equally. (Credit to Uncle Bad Touch) It was a nice ego boost but I could give a fuck less, I think I need to work on my qualification more, to let girls know why I think they're unique to me.

HbStockings is a virgin and fairly inexperienced, I think that you have to be patient with girls like this, a lot of things are going to be a first for her, i.e. it may or may not have been the first time she sucked a cock, it was definitely her first experience with exhibitionism. So she was understandably timid initially but also extremely excited turned on, I could have probably fucked her, if we had more time for her to get comfortable with the idea that she was about to lose her virginity to me so quickly.

I'm finding dates to be pretty routine, these days. Apart from a few uniquely quirky or exciting ones once in a while the girls tend to be fairly similar, similar conversations, similar insecurities, depending on the time of day and weather I have set places I always go to and tend to have a solid idea where to lead the date. I used to find myself qualifying to women, these days my self esteem has grown tremendously and I sit back allow these girls to qualify themselves to me. My mindset is I have nothing to prove, fine you're sexy and all but what makes you more interesting that the millions of other sexy girls in this city, what makes you more than just breeder? I'm really enjoying this gaming thing. lol

I don't want to get too ahead myself of course, I have so many things to work on, i.e. my insecurities left over from my AFC days, that's 19 years to be exact. I'm still learning, I will ALWAYS be learning, in student mode, staying humble. It's just difficult sometimes... :D


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The next few posts, I put up on my local Toronto journal (PSI), a long time ago and completely forgot to post this up here. The interactions I had with this girl HbPlaystation was and probably still have beent the greatest lessons I had in game thus far, I learnt a lot about myself, my values, my emotional state and naturally about women.

Tues Night - Jan 2012

To maintain our momentum since moving downtown, my new roomie (BK) and I decide to head to out for some night game. As we walk through the lobby of our building I see a cute petite girl (HbPlayStation, see previous posts). I make eye contact with her and want to talk to her but she's on the phone. As we open the door to exit the building, she quickly follows and stops, I turned smiled and said, "Were you just waiting for someone to open the door for you?" She chuckles, says nothing in return and seemed unreceptive so I didn't bother to advance the conversation. As we turned the corner I hear the "click clack click clack" of someone running in high-heals. It's HbPlayStation hmmm interesting...

BK: Hi there...
HbPlayStation: Hey, ummm do you guys know how to get to the subway from here?
Me: We're actually heading there right now, follow us.
HbPlayStation: Ok, cool. Thanks
BK: No problem my name is xxxx
Me: and I'm xxxx nice to meet you
HbPlayStation: Nice to meet you too I'm xxxx,

We engaged in a little fluff talk.

HbPlayStation: So where are you guys heading?
Me: We're going clubbing, xxxx xxxx...
HbPlayStation: Nice...um..Can I come with you guys?
Me: Sure (he says trying to curb his enthusiasm lol)
BK: Sure.

We qualified her on her spontaneity and got to know her a little bit, turns out she's originally from South America but she moved to Montreal as a little girl and recently to Toronto for college. (Sexy little French Canadian accent and her being latina is an even bigger turn on for me :-b ). We get into the club and start dancing, I could see she was a little shy at first but over time she let loose and couldn't stop smiling. We mentioned to her that we were going to pop a bottle of champagne afterwards (Wanted to plant the idea in her head early, we made it sound as though it was still going to happen whether she came or not) As BK and I were killing the dance floor we were getting opened left, right and centre, I had a lot of great interactions one particular blondie approached me about 5 times. HBPlayStation said she was impressed that we were such high energy fun dancers considering how chilled we were when we met her and I could see she was impressed by how much social proof we had. We took turns interacting and escalating with her and I just assumed she would eventually show more attraction towards one of us but she seemed to show equal interest in us. Eventually she asked if she was invited for champagne with the two of us, I qualified her and then said yes. In the end BK and I decided to go for a devil's ménage à trois :twisted:.

When we got back home, we suggested grabbing the drinks and going down to the jacuzzi, (we wanted to get her clothes off) The jacuzzi was closed, so I went to speak to the concierge. While I was gone BK set up the frame for the threesome and she was DTF. We went back up popped the bottle and started to amp the sexual talk, which was good at first but eventually started to feel as though we were trying to convince her to sleep with us which is not sexy or seductive at all, and she could sense that (she even indirectly said it at some point.) She said she was definitely attracted to both us and wants to have a threesome just not that night. The rest of the night we made sure we kept a sexual frame with her and made sure she knew what we wanted from her, we talked for hours on views on sex, relationships, life etc and she really opened up. Anyway she spent the night and the next morning she didn't want to leave lol We talked about our interest and experience with women/men BDSM and she said she had always wanted to try it but hadn't found anybody to do it with. Introduced her to Johnny's (Uncle bad touch lol) paradigm, I don't know about you guys but I find that Johnny's material needs time to permeate in a person's brain before it takes it's full effect. This girl is quite open sexually already she just doesn't meet men who can handle her Sexuality (EN8) or allow her to explore it further. As we were chatting she mentioned something that stood out to us she didn't have a job, she wasn't rich but she said she had something like $13,000 to play with...hmmm...where would an attractive girl get $13,000 without her parents or a traditional job, an escort maybe? It would explain why she asked us a lot of questions on our opinions on girls who work in the business. Anyway, after a while of watching HIMYM ;), BK was napping and I told her I had things to do so she had to go but I would see her soon.

Lessons Learned

We could have definitely had a devil's 3way with this girl but we tried to talk her into it, as opposed to seducing her. The moment a girl feels like you're trying to convince her to have sex with you it's over. She's definitely open to those kind of adventures and wants to do it in the near future, we should learn our lesson for next time, less talking more kino. We could start off with one of us giving the girl a massage and the other joining in order for her to get used our touch and then escalating from there, there was actually no need to go to the jacuzzi or anything like that once we had pulled her back to the condo. (Credit to TheShowman).

Even though we didn't do as much as I would have liked that night, I did learn a lot based on our interaction and picking HbPlaystation's brain, I asked her what she thought of me when she first met me, she said she could tell I was confident, attractive, interesting but my initial approach came across as a little try hard although within a couple of minutes of conversation she knew I wasn't. I loved that kind of feedback from girls, it's ironic because in the previous months I've had a lot of people tell me I came across as douchebag, a little bit too into myself, disinterested at times which can be attractive in the right doses so I had been working to correct that and now I was coming across as try hard! haha Calibration is key.

It's important to be open minded and non-judgemental, the reasons why girls feel like sluts and keep secrets to protect their reputations is because we make them feel the need to. For example HbPlaystation asked us how we felt about escorts and women in the adult industry and we responded with, "We're really open minded and don't judge people based on their jobs, the only reason why those jobs are looked down upon is because society tells us they're bad, personally I don't care, I would date a girl that's fucked a thousands guys, I would date a porn star or an escort, why not? Of course I would have her checked out first though!" :-p She also asked about girls who do/have done recreational drugs again similar answer except, I prefaced it with, "Personally I don't do drugs but of course I don't judge people that do, that's your life, as long you never try get to do something I don't want to." At the time we knew both of these questions had a deeper meaning.

P.S. She had a keychain that read, "Men like you made me into the bitch that I am today!" I told her I wanted to keep it and she said she couldn't because it was a recent gift and she really liked it but then she ended up leaving it in our living room, without the keys...She obviously wanted an excuse to come back...

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To maintain our momentum since moving downtown, my new roomie (BK) and I decide to head to out for some night game. As we walk through the lobby of our building I see a cute petite girl (HbPlayStation, see previous posts). I make eye contact with her and want to talk to her but she's on the phone. As we open the door to exit the building, she quickly follows and stops, I turned smiled and said, "Were you just waiting for someone to open the door for you?" She chuckles, says nothing in return and seemed unreceptive so I didn't bother to advance the conversation. As we turned the corner I hear the "click clack click clack" of someone running in high-heals. It's HbPlayStation hmmm interesting...

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Kizzzz, good gaming that girl with BK! You should both do some kinky stuff to her already. Or you can invite one of your buddies to join you.... HINT FUCKING HINT!

Is it the girl I met at Thompson? Man she seemed totally cool and very cute!

I like the keychain thing, the saying on it is sooooo true:-)

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Kizzzz, good gaming that girl with BK! You should both do some kinky stuff to her already. Or you can invite one of your buddies to join you.... HINT FUCKING HINT!

Is it the girl I met at Thompson? Man she seemed totally cool and very cute!

I like the keychain thing, the saying on it is sooooo true:-)
Hey Footy, yes it the girl you met at The Thompson and I'll make sure you're bald head is present if we're doing some kinky things ;) . I want that keychain man she took it back, now I have her lipstick and OMG, this is soooo totally not my shade!

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Day 2 - HbPlaystation

Reinitiating Contact

It was a weird situation seeing as this girl had both mine and BK numbers, I didn't really know how to approach the situation, would this create an unhealthy competition between us? The best thing in these situations is to be honest, I told him of course I would initially feel disappointed if she chose him over me but that would be probably only last a day, I personally would not allow that to affect our bromance. A threesome would be the ideal solution but creating the perfect conditions for that would be extremely difficult. We were on the same wavelength and in the end he went out of town for over a week so we agreed that I should advance the relationship further and keep the option of a ménage à trois open. I texted her a couple of days later on a Sat:

Me: I'm holding you're keychain ransom, how much can you pay for it? lol
HbPlaystation: hahahaha
Me: No jokes, I want $0.69 cash :P (sexual innuendo)
HbPlaystation: Hahahaha, I have $0.69! haha
HbPlaystation: Hru Rico?! What were u up to last night?

We then texted back and forth for a couple of days and I made sure to take my time replying to her texts periodically to feign disinterest/ a busy schedule and she would send me 3 or 4 texts in a row sometimes before I replied. She's a sexy female engineer meaning she's got a huge amount of male followers texting/calling her all day long. I did not want to be labelled as one of her followers. I tried set up a day 2 for Sun she said was busy that day but kept texting me, so I tried something different. Before she left on the first day, she mentioned how I had gotten her addicted to HIMYM so I mentioned on I was watching the show after class, she said she was so tired because she had pulled an all-nighter but wanted come and join me. ;) I was cooking so I made a little extra...

She gets to my place and she had brought me a rose (aaw how cute lol). She claimed to have never bought a guy a rose before but she ran into someone selling them on her way and she thought why not. I don't really believe her I think she was given that rose by a another guy and decided to re-gift it to me. We grab the food, some drinks and start chatting, I enjoyed talking to her, she's obviously aesthetically pleasing but she's also an interesting person,intelligent, opinionated, adventurous and well read (psychology wise), so we had plenty to to talk about and it was stimulating. We started flirting, I teased on a couple of her cutely mispronounced words and she complimented my cooking, qualified her based on her and she qualified me. Eventually we moved to the living room and started watching HIMYM and she almost immediately fell as sleep! I-) hahaha Was a little frustrated but seeing as she had pulled an all-nighter, I decided to let her sleep when she woke up she found in my room. Came to lie next to me and we started talking eventually the conversation moved to sex and we talked for hours about our preferences and established how compatible we were. She understood that at this point in our lives BK and are only not looking for LTRs and she said she wants the same for herself but then she would mention she's like in an LTR, what she misses about them or describe her ideal boyfriend and she would be describing me or BK. lol That night I didn't escalate with her, not out of fear but because I was still thinking about how this might affect my relationship with BK.

Day 3, 4, and So on...lol

The next morning I woke up frustrated I knew if I didn't escalate ultimately I would violate EN8 and EN10 and be friend-zoned. I realized she had moved so close to me in the bed her hand was on my dick...my brain switched off I touched her arm and she immediately pulled away, I knew she was awake. I lightly rubbed my finger tips up and down her lower back, slowly moving down to her ass, the moment I slide my hands under her thong and grabbed her ass I heard her exhale and the more aggressively I caressed her ass, the heavier her breathing got, fuck she was making me horny. Eventually, I moved my hands to the front, towards her pussy, it took her a while but she blocked me just before I could stick my fingers inside her, she looked up at me, smiled and said "Go back to sleep bad boy." I smiled back at her, stared at my rock solid cock and said, "I can't" she laughed looked at it and reached down to give me a HJ. A couple of hours later she was leaving, she asked me what I would be up to and I said I was going clubbing and she said she might tag along. Just before she opened the door I noticed she'd left her bra on the couch, I stopped her and handed it to her. (not this time missy!)

Fast forward to that night, TheShowman, HbPS and I met up with Tesseract at the club. He knew her from before, they got re-acquainted and I didn't do much if any approaches because HbPS was there plus she was following me around the club, she said she didn't want to get approached by random guys. (ironically, a week ago I was a random guy who approached her!) We were all dancing and laughing, overall the night was lots of fun, I was just enjoying a night out with 3 friends (of course I wanted to have sex with one of the friends but hey lol). Later on HbPS and I go back to my place, I poured us some drinks and sat in front of the window watching the view. As we spoke, she was telling me, how unique I was to most people she met but how similar I was to her and she'd never felt so close or comfortable with someone she'd met just a few of days prior. How she normally meets attractive guys who are completely superficial but BK and I weren't. She completely opened up to me, told me how her parents were divorced when she was a little girl and she's had no relationship with her father since. Man after I had began "gaming" I've built enough comfort that people will tell me things they wouldn't normally tell anyone they just met but not like this, this was different. I mean her honesty opened me up, I broke a lot of rules, I divulged a lot of myself to her and the more I told her, the more she told me. Of course because of "pick up" I didn't allow myself to be as open nor as emotional as she was being but I definitely revealed certain things about my life that I've told very few others. It was strange, scary and risky but it also felt really nice and comforting to kind of let go and open up to a girl for once, as "gamers" it's against our nature and we abstain from doing things like that, which can be isolating at times. Anyway at some point she stood up walked towards the window, I went and stood behind her grabbing her around her waist. She got really quiet and said:

HbPlaystation: Kiz_n, can I tell you a something?
Me: Sure...go ahead
HbPlaystation: I've only told one other person this, I don't think I should tell you, like this is my deepest darkest secret.
Me: Hey, you know I've told you before my private life, is my private life. If you feel like you can't trust me with this, that's ok. I'm not going to force you to tell me anything you don't want to...
HbPlaystation: You remember I mentioned a friend who lives in a penthouse?
Me: Yeah.
HbPlaystation: Well, he's actually my...sugar daddy...As in he pays me to go on dates with him two times a month. I just joined this website where older men pay younger women to be their companions. We don't have sex but we go on dates or I'll watch a movie at their condos.
Me: Well, you know how I feel about that, it doesn't change my opinion of you. To me it's just a job. (I meant it by the way)

At this point we started kissing, when I pulled away, she sat down and started to tell me more about the business like how she got into it, how many guys she's seeing, how much they pay her and how one guy even offered to lease a Bentley for her...These are high-powered extremely wealthy men who don't have time or don't know how to attract women by themselves. She says it's mostly easy for her, she had read some psychology on it and an escort's blog to gain some insight but she finds it difficult to always have to pretend to be someone she's not for these men and she hates that they're always texting her. After a while she felt sick and went to the bathroom because she had had too much to drink. I should not have let that happen!

Fast forward to Weds night (yes, she still hadn't left my place at this point), we were cuddling and watching tv on the couch (I know it was all so relationshippy lol) and I started to rub her ass, she was biting my chest a little as I did, then she said, "You remember you told me about your "sensual" inner thigh massages?" I smiled and responded, "Yeah, take off your pants and lie down on the bed woman." She complied and I started off on her thighs massaging down her inner thighs until I was rubbing around her pussy, carefully just touching it slightly every time to build her anticipation she was squirming beneath me and I could feel she was dripping wet but as I tried to pull down her thong she tells me she doesn't want to do anything because she's on her period. I said I understood, she asked me to tell her what I wanted to do to her and as gentleman I cannot repeat those words here lol (it might scare some people, hmm hmm Footy) After I whispered what naughty thoughts I had in her ear she pulled down my pants and sucked me off.

I had a mixture of frustration and satisfaction at this point because while I had gotten a HJ and BJ from this girl she had spent three nights in a row at my place and I still hadn't fucked her. Anyway, I was at least confident that it would happen eventually and I was happy that I hadn't violated EN8 and EN10 by not escalating, I definitely would not be friend-zoned. On Thurs she still wanted to spend the day with me but I told her, I didn't want to be a negative influence in her life, she had to go, she couldn't miss anymore classes....

Lessons Learned

Wow, where do I even begin... :-b
Establish the Right Frame - I say this because while I enjoyed opening up to her I think it was mostly the wrong thing to do it was ultimately detrimental to my goal. I mean it's ok to show some vulnerability at times, it's reassuring for her to feel like you're not too perfect for her. But as she grew closer to me, the more she saw me as a potential boyfriend, I'm just lucky that I'm so honest and having already implemented Uncle Bad Touch's (Johnny) paradigm with her she was shifting her mindset from that way of thinking and becoming more inclined to a open relationship or fwbs. Another problem with such an honest frame is she was comfortable to tell me about all the guys she's into or one never ending fwb situation that she has and she wants my advice on these situations [-X . I in turn told her a lot about the way I interact with girls and about my fwbs. The more she told, the more I told and now I've had to do some damage limitation on this. Don't be like me kids establish the right frame. lol

Understand the Game and You Can Beat the Game - 1. She originally left her keychain at my a place as a reason to come back/or reinitiate contact. 2. When she left on that Tues, she tried to leave her bra behind! =)) I mean seriously a bra? How can you forget something like that? Just imagine putting your on pants without any underwear, you're probably going to feel a breeze...it wasn't even subtle. haha 3. She gave me a re-gifted rose. I had to pass all these little games and tests she put out for me, to advance with her. (Hence HbPlaystation) Prior to "pick up" I passed these kinds of testing but by mistake I probably didn't even realize I was being tested. Now I can tell when girls are testing me so my answers are precise and consciously (a lot of the times subconsciously) structured to address the appropriate emotional needs. (Credit to Frank B. Kermit) Naturally, some girls will test you more than others, HbPlaystation in particular has literally told me she enjoys playing games, of course she says she doesn't do it to me, psssh I'm not fooled bring it on!

Learn How to Cook - Cooking is one of my passions, so this comes easy for me, I can make a wide range of dishes and I'm always learning new ones. First and foremost I learn them for my own satisfaction but I would be lying if I said I didn't partially learn how to make "Chicken Tikka Masala" or "Sushi" to impress girls on dates...If you can cook then you don't have to take girls out for dinner and you have a legitimate, non-ASD triggering reason to pull girls back to your cave. ;) As if that's not enough, you'll save money in the process!

Let her Invite Herself Out - The first time I asked her to come and chill, she was unreceptive whether she was actually busy or not I'll never know but I sensed a different approach was needed. I just mentioned I would be doing something that she would enjoy i.e. watching HIMYM and she wanted to be a part of that, make it seem as though whether she comes or not is besides the point.

Social Proof - Girls approaching me the first time we went out together and everyone staring and cheering BK and I dancing was huge social proof. On top of this her interacting with TheShowman and Tess provided me with even more social proof, because these men are high value males, thanks guys! Girls notice who your friends are, if your close friends are socially inhibited it's going to lower your value, plain and simple. I mean I know it's a tough pill to swallow, some of those socially inhibited chaps may be your best friends but while they may be amazing people, the fact of the matter is they're probably hurting your chances with women.

Be Romantic...Sometimes - This was a purely spontaneous romantic scene but it happened and ended up worked in my favour. We were listening to my Passione playlist, drinking champagne while I held her by the window overlooking the view of downtown with no lights on but the lit up Toronto skyline. I think all of those little things incorporated with the skills I've acquired played into how much she opened herself up to me. Of course I'm not saying you always have to be romantic, (don't have to rent a blimp with her name on it!) you have to be careful that what you do is not corny but a little moment of romance can definitely be a game changer.

Side Thoughts

It's hard enough to get girls out on day 2s most of the time, lol but to meet a random girl one day and then less than a week later have her spend 4 days and 3 nights in a row with you, was paradigm shifting (no pun intended). This was one of the most unique of experience of my life thus far and I don't think anything like that will happen again at least not anytime soon...

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The Sat after my crazy week (see previous post) HbPlaystation called me up to say, she wanted to see if I was free because she wanted to watch HIMYM and take me out, her treat. ;) That night we met up at my place and went to the bar right across the street, while we were drinking she asked if I minded us going to grab some wxxx, before we went home. I said ok, just don't expect me to smoke it with you, I don't do stuff like that. Wasn't really surprised because she had previously told me she had tried some recreational drugs a few times when she was raving and that she smokes wxxx on a semi-regular basis. That night she got blazed out of her mind, she could hardly walk, or form a full sentence and pulled away every time I simply touched her. Personally, I try not judge people who do recreational drugs or not to think they are low-lifes but at the same time these substances can be highly addictive, deadly or they can permanently fuck up your brain chemistry, it's not worth it!

She spent the night but I didn't even bother doing anything with her because I was so put off. The next day (Sun) I told her I didn't like her when she was high and she explained, that's the way she always is when she gets that messed up. It doesn't really matter who's around she's just spaces out into her own world and doesn't like being touched. If that's her on weed I definitely will not be around her on anything stronger. She had definitely lowered her value in my eyes and funny enough I think she could sense that. See my previous post: "My Emotions" for the rest of what happened that day & night.

Lessons Learned

The lessons I learnt from this experience were less about "gaming" and more about myself and how I feel about certain lifestyle choices. Strangely enough, I don't even think if I can really equate those lessons into any discernible language, they were more emotional. If that makes any sense! :-p

I actually knew my answers to a couple of test questions would lead to something like this, she knew that I wouldn't react the way most men would, finding out that she does drugs. I made her feel comfortable enough to be herself good and bad, although I think deep down she realizes that this side of herself is a bad one and that I'm not going to be her enabler or her saviour, that's not my job...
And if it wasn't obvious from my previous posts, I liked this girl, I liked her enough to consider entering an open relationship with her (I will never be monogamous). All that changed after I realized how deep HbPlaystation was into the drugs scene, I could even look past her being an escort despite all the emotional baggage that would carry. At this point all she qualifies for is a fb relationship with me and even then I wouldn't want it to be that regular. It's easy to be fuck buddies with a girl who enjoys an activity you don't participate in and/or agree with because your personal lives would be largely separate, that's much harder to accomplish in an actual relationship, polyamorous or monogamous... I know part of this process is learning how to be non-judgemental about alternative lifestyles but there has to be a line drawn somewhere, right?

P.S. Despite the sombre tone of the post, I wasn't actually hurt or all that emotional, I was mostly just disappointed. I'm actually grateful for the experience these kind life lessons are invaluable.

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The Sat after my crazy week (see previous post) HbPlaystation called me up to say, she wanted to see if I was free because she wanted to watch HIMYM and take me out, her treat. That night we met up at my place and went to the bar right across the street, while we were drinking she asked if I minded us going to grab some wxxx, before we went home. I said ok, just don't expect me to smoke it with you, I don't do stuff like that. Wasn't really surprised because she had previously told me she had tried some recreational drugs a few times when she was raving and that she smokes wxxx on a semi-regular basis. That night she got blazed out of her mind, she could hardly walk, or form a full sentence and pulled away every time I simply touched her. Personally, I try not judge people who do recreational drugs or not to think they are low-lifes but at the same time these substances can be highly addictive, deadly or they can permanently fuck up your brain chemistry, it's not worth it!

Red Ranger Out!
Boy fuck the druggie girl! despite me liking her looks(plus quebec accent) and despite my immense desire to do some kinky shit to her with you, I say its better be on a safe side and just erase her from your life. you never know what to expect from this kinda lunatics( i am very judgmental to druggies,I am fine with it). There is plenty of other women out there who won't put a needle full of heroin into your scrotum while you are banging them;-)

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Social Proof - Girls approaching me the first time we went out together and everyone staring and cheering BK and I dancing was huge social proof. On top of this her interacting with TheShowman and Tess provided me with even more social proof, because these men are such high value males, thanks guys! Girls notice who your friends are, if your close friends are socially inhibited it's going to lower your value, plain and simple. I mean I know it's a tough pill to swallow, some of those socially inhibited chaps may be your best friends but while they may be amazing people, the fact of the matter is they're probably hurting your chances with women.

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Man this is right on! I believe that friends you are out with affect your game and the way you are perceived by females. Lesson here: Choose who to go out with to be social/meet women.

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...On top of this her interacting with TheShowman and Tess provided me with even more social proof, because these men are such high value males, thanks guys! Girls notice who your friends are, if your close friends are socially inhibited it's going to lower your value, plain and simple. I mean I know it's a tough pill to swallow, some of those socially inhibited chaps may be your best friends but while they may be amazing people, the fact of the matter is they're probably hurting your chances with women.
That really means a lot to me dude, thank you.


Now regarding HBPlaystation... I think this was definitely a good "expirience" because it challenged a lot of how you view people, I definitely feel that way with her. Perhaps this is my personal bias because I made this choice but I have to agree with Footy, I would really stop seeing her. She really does play a lot of games, hide a lot of things, and her habits are unhealthy. I think you're having such a hard time with this because she's been so vulnerable to you, and perhaps you to her. If it was a girl you didn't know so well or weren't so intimate (not just in a physical way) with you probably would stop seeing her or the decision would be easier especially since you have multiple options, since you might find the drugs a fault and easily dismiss. But because you know her so well, you brain, dick, and heart are all fucked up... No?

As well, consider that because of her past relationships she may just be trying to really suck you in (in fact I know she is because you said she wanted you to be her bf) so that you become so engrained with her that you cannot let go. Maybe that sounds a bit harsh, and that again could be personal thoughts of mine due to dealing with those who have emotional problems in my past and how they affected me, as well as when I hung out with HBPS what I saw and heard.

But I think in the end you slowly phase out seeing her, and move on to healthier relationships. You don't need negativity in your life of any form. You're an amazing person and though I agree her looks, personality, and wit are attractive, her drug usage, compulsion to hide things, to manipulate, to lie... It's just bad news.

Let me know what you think.

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