I believe sometimes I game with a slight alter ego, I dont know if this is the same for you guys too?

I find that I want to be that alpha male, the one who has no fear of approaching and has the right answer for every question. Sometimes I am that guy, and do girls love me? Hells ye they do. Some times however "will" (thats me) comes out instead of his heroic fearless PUA alter ego and i will sit and watch other guys making out right in front of me with the girl I had great eye contact with just a few mintes ago.

So maybe im just weird and have off and on days but how do you guys make sure that you are the ones on top form, and have your alter ego along side to get the woman you want?

I guess how do you create real confidence to carry out with you?

It's a "lens" or frame that you have to view yourself through. A pua's frame should be "I'm an attractive guy that women are drawn to and I'm the life of the party wherever I go and I'll get to close whatever women I choose." But often times men feel like they are this guy that most women don't like because this, that, and the other is wrong with them. Then you outwardly exhibit what your inner feelings are telling you.

This post harkens back to What is confidence and how do I gain more of it, which is the age old question. Been asked and answered many times over. I think a simple answer is just staying positive and acting as if. Act as if you are the guy who gets all the things you want, then this will become a self-fulfilled prophecy because you will enact the life you envision for yourself.

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