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PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 12:47 pm 
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Just seems odd to me because if she says yes, you guys start heading back to your place to fuck. But at some point, especially knowing what you are about to do with her, you'll have to ask a very awkward question. "BTW, what is your name?"

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Just seems odd to me because if she says yes, you guys start heading back to your place to fuck. But at some point, especially knowing what you are about to do with her, you'll have to ask a very awkward question. "BTW, what is your name?"
Do you really need to know her name? I think this is only necessary if you plan on seeing her again. If she doesn't ask, then why bother asking her?


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If she says goodbye to her friends you'll probably hear her name then but if you don't then I would wait till after the act and take her phone number (whether you want to see her again or not) then ask what's her name for your phonebook.

By keeping it friendly you can maybe end up with a new FB but also when the comfort has built up ask her about your approach. How did it make her feel? Why she said yes? etc. Use this knowledge to hone your Apocalypse to perfection till it's magical.


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By keeping it friendly you can maybe end up with a new FB but also when the comfort has built up ask her about your approach. How did it make her feel? Why she said yes? etc. Use this knowledge to hone your Apocalypse to perfection till it's magical.
Fantastic piece of advice :)


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Used this recently with a girl who was giving me IOIs on the dance floor. Just a couple of things to add:

- Any response that isn't a no is a yes. Just a delayed yes while she says bye to her friends, pays her tab, listens to the band's last set, etc...

- Keep your momentum. Just flirt, escalate, and generally make her feel good while she ties up loose ends. Don't regress into small talk (ex. what's your name?). It'll sound like you're having male ASD, which might evoke her's too.

Basically, when you get a positive reaction from this opener, you begin at the seduction phase. Comfort building still helps, but any attraction building routines will only set you back.


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Basically, when you get a positive reaction from this opener, you begin at the seduction phase. Comfort building still helps, but any attraction building routines will only set you back.
I agree. When the girl says yes then the attraction building phase is complete; anymore attraction routines would make her infer that you "can't believe your luck" and your adding further attraction mechanisms to insure she doesn't change her mind: Thats the frame you must avoid at all costs because...if your doubting the process then she will question it too. Personally I drop straight into comfort and act as if she's my girlfriend to set a "safe frame" and let the momentum carry us out the venue while her excitement levels are still high. Once she's out and in your care she will back rationalise the fact that it happened because SHE wanted it to happen and increase the comfort even more.

Once you have performed your manly duty talk about stuff like "instant chemistry" and her being "swept off her feet" to avoid buyers remorse. If she liked you enough to sleep with you and cast aside her worries then she deserves to be made to feel special about it.

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Apocalypse Opener... well buddy all I can tell you is that I had got laid by using the Apocalypse Opener... but I got laid because they were horny , it was late and I was the best option.

nothing more.


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@ Melodical

From all the number of girls you fucked using Apocalypse Opener how many of them will see you again , besides that night ?


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From all the number of girls you fucked using Apocalypse Opener how many of them will see you again , besides that night ?
I met some again. You can just make a good impression after sex or the day after. in a way its up to you

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I've used similar stuff in the past before I even got into this stuff. Mine was more along the lines as, "Let's get out of here."

I think I used the, 'you wanna go home with me' a few times before and a girl gave me an excuse like she has to wake up early tomorrow. Which isn't a flat out no, so I can believe that some girls will go for it.

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From all the number of girls you fucked using Apocalypse Opener how many of them will see you again , besides that night ?
The approaches where spread over about 18 month but three weeks of those were when I was on holiday (Benidorm, Magaluf and Tenerife) where I was out sarging 7 hours every night. 26 approaches got me 9 results (3 were in Tenerife in the same week) As for seeing them again: 2 I had a holiday romance with until they went home, 1 I went out with for 3 weeks, and all but 1 of the others I'm friends with as I usually see them in my local club. I think the one I didn't see again was married.


There is a lot more to the Apocalypse opener than meets the eye. It triggers hardwired responses in a womans mind, if you want to get technical it attenuates the anterior cingulate mediation of the Amygdala allowing the attraction to be back rationalised to the frontal cortex and avoid cognitive dissonance due to cultural conditioning. The anterior cingulate cortex deals with paradoxes and confusing data. Basically your giving "machine code" to the womans mind.

In a bar with a 100 girls 10 will be out to get laid and another 10 will if the opportunity arises. These are you targets. Just because they're out for sex doesn't mean they aren't worthy of being your girlfriend but sometimes "girls just want to have fun" :)


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http://www.cnn.com/2012/10/06/living/st ... ?hpt=hp_c1


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Well according to that link I would say all PUA approaches could be defined as sexual harrassment. Plus....could you honestly see anyone using the Apocalypse opener in day game?


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I had a skim through that link and I'd have to say probably 90% of those reports would be from women who were approached and were creeped out by the guy anybody who opened with the words "hey baby!" and then followed it up with something like "nice rack" or "nice ass" would certainly be sexual harassment.
I don't think I've used any of those 3 phrases in a day game pickup.

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Well according to that link I would say all PUA approaches could be defined as sexual harrassment. Plus....could you honestly see anyone using the Apocalypse opener in day game?
I agree, it would be a very socially unacceptable thing to do if someone used the AO in day game because it would fall into the above, plus they are most likely busy going about their business and in a hurry, she also won't be in the correct frame of mind (with her hands full of shopping or whatever).

The AO works in night game because 1 in 10-15 women are more susceptible to this kind of approach because they are either consciously or subconsciously in the frame of mind of finding a potential mate - women want to be 'swept' off their feet... The AO is a perfectly good example of that in action.


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The article talks about "catcalls."

A guy going up to a woman and telling her than shes stunning/cute/sexy/adorable will most likely make her day.

Doing that is very different than a retarded catcall.

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