Hey, I'm pretty new here. Before I introduce myself, I wanted to ask some question regarding an episode I had with a girl a few months ago, just to get some ideas.
We were both "together", it was pretty hot and everything, it's been awhile since we knew each other but no sex, only kissing.
One day I came up to her and we had some conversation, when at some point she touched my back pocket and felt a "rustling" noise.
She pretended not to notice and kept the conversation, when suddenly she burst out "is that a condom in your pocket?"
I didn't admit it at the beginning because this question seemed irrelevant to me, but she insisted "you know, I feel like you came here with EXPECTATIONS!"
I mean, what the hell is that?
In the end I admitted it "could" be condoms and it's not because I came with "expectations" but merely that I hold it all the time in my pocket "just in case" (which by itself is a problematic response as it entails some promiscuity on my part).
Because she liked me she accepted my behavior and let it go by, but I'm asking this as a general question to all of you: what would you do in such a case?

It's some sort of overly dramatic shit test. I mean "How dare you be prepared to have responsible safe sex?!?"

Another thing, a girl shouldn't be able to find things on your person that you don't want her to find. You should keep your condoms in your car or at your house, not on your person. And if you must carry it on you, then you should be fairly certain you are going to be having sex.

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Always keep it in the wallet man.

We just had a guy who recently posted about a girl seeing his wallet condom on accident. Very similar to this incident. Also, I was told by a doctor not to keep condoms in a wallet because we sit on our wallets and it can stress the condom and possibly make it break or not be as reliable.

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The funny thing is that she didn't even see the condom. It's this characteristic rustling noise of the goddamn wrapping. You can't confuse that for nothing!
A wallet could be a better idea, although I didn't have a wallet that day because I live in her neighborhood and I just "jumped by" without much on me.
Obviously, since it was at her place, and I don't have a car, I couldn't keep it at my house or anywhere else....
In fact, I thought about hiding it in my underpants, but it could fall off, and it would be creepy anyway if we eventually DID have sex.
So, considering the circumstances: you come to a girl's house, you are car-less, and you wouldn't put it in your wallet (either because you didn't take it or out of rupture caution).
And remember, this girl -- I did have sex with her on our next meeting, so she was obviously into me -- but she had some natural sex barrier and for her - knowing that the guy came with a condom - implied that this is the ONLY thing he came for (in her words: "I felt like all the talk we had -- it had only one agenda!!!")

I used to put my weed in my sock. Try that.

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"Yes it is! Safety first, that's my motto..."

"Expectations place limits on where we are going!" Grin...

"Did you just grab my ass? OMG, slow down girl!"

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

I love Contra but prefer Mario World.

Someone had to.

That is a stupid thing for her to have said.

So many responses.

"why what color do you like?"
" it's just for you baby"
" you are trying to seduce me'

et al.

Just turn it around on her and tease her.

I had a girl ask once why I had 2 packets of condoms in my drawer by my bed when I reached out to get one to fuck her.

I said something like "in case I have lots of sex".

Fuck what they say.

Sometimes getting super defensive can be effective. You could go off on her for being immature and tell her that you don't find anything wrong with a man being sexually responsible and carrying protection. And that she needs to grow up and should be thankful she is not with some irresponsible STD carrier who puts her at risk.

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"is that a condom in your pocket."

Me: "it was on sale. Its about to expire wanna make use of it "

"blablabla"


Me: "haha im kidding... (pause) Its pot, wanna get high?"

Aka I'll bullshit my way through it because it seems like shes resdy to play around.

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thanks guys
seeing the humor in the responses I can conclude that basically I did nothing wrong with carrying this in my pocket, only thing is not to be over defensive and just stay relaxed (which actually I didn't... I was feeling so guilty that my voice started to tremble).
funny ways to look at things