For example, I respect the boundary, if he is jealous I acknowledge that they are a couple. But what if the boyfriend still tools on you? for example, I wrote this on a girls wall

"I hope you got in trouble. Have a good day"

BF comments


BF:Fuck off Creeper, she is taken.

I say

Me: Great. I am happy for you both

BF:Thanks. Now stay away from my girl and go jerk off with your tears. Have a good day.

What should i do differently next time?

I am only asking because I am aware that I am feeling defensive. I just need strategies to overcome my ego.

well, she didn't remove the posts......are you being a creeper?

Hey bro. Do you realize you are fucking with some dude's girl? It's okay if it's a stranger and she runs the "I have a boyfriend" line on you and you brush it off. But if you are talking to her online and her dude is reading everything you say, what exactly are you trying to accomplish???

I say leave her alone and find one of the umpteen million girls in this world who don't have possessive boyfriends hovering over them.

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You need a better filter. Don't acknowledge insecure, jealous guys. They are their own worst enemy. Instead, I would have switched to a private message to the girl and said something like, "Lol, your boyfriend seems a bit insecure about your relationship.. you clearly need to be sexing him more often." Or something like that. Use it as an opening to tease her about her relationship.

EDIT: I also heartily disagree with PuaNinja's advice. All hot girls have borefriends. Being very socially and emotionally risk-averse, women will not dump their borefriends until they have somebody new in mind. This is why hot girls are never single for very long.

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Clearly he is insecure, so call him out on it.

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Do you want to bang this girl or something? leave it alone if you do sounds like a relationship waiting to fall apart. If you don't and were just legitametely trying to be friend just go

"Awwww isn't it sweet you getting all jealous and violent over a facebook message. You are certainly "the one" aren't you "

just be a dick, guy sounds like a douche.

Mmmmmm, I love it when you talk dirty!

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I don't understand why everyone is saying he should back off, if he had posted on her wall saying "I want to fuck you" then I'd understand it, for me, it's the boyfriends insecurities that are the problem, not what the OP has said.

Just ignore the guy, if you want this girl just subtly game her and don't come on too strong, be aloof, be fun and be SECURE, whenever she complains about her boyfriend be on his side, say something like "Ah, he lurrrvs you, hes just scared of losing you" eventually she'll start slagging him down, then you're pretty much in.

Jealous guys lose. Simple

Well, right, most hotties have a boyfriend-type figure in their life. But these guys come and go. Hell, often WE are one of these guys. But if he's monitoring her facebook and making you look bad by pwning you, I don't see how continuing to egg him on and pursuing his girl is going to benefit you. It's not like you are going to write this one killer comeback and everyone on facebook will be like "DAMN, you got served son!"

That's why I was asking what you are utlimiately trying to accomplish. But after re-reading the original post, the OP already admitted he is just serving his ego at this point.

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If she's hasn't deleted this crap, she's just showing off to all her friends that some caveman really, really, really loves her and some other guy is really, really, really into her . . . so this must mean that she's really, really, really pretty and really, really, really, special.

So the girl is a mental midget and her boyfriend is probably retarded. What's your interest here? If she's that hot and you want a pop, pm her and get yourself a date. Don't turn it into 2 dates or else you'll become the retarded boyfriend with the mental midget girlfriend and this guy posting weird crap on your FB page.

Not sure about teenager FB protocol but in real life, you do not answer to "Fuck Off" with "Great". You treat him like the little brat he is. . . "My, my . . . such the temper. . . Your mommy teach you to swear like that?. . . Wait, you graduated from middle school, correct? . . . Excuse me, how old are you? . . . just checking. Good luck. . . etc . . ." - Then whatever he replies, "$&#^@#&*", you won't have to say any more.

I have no goal with this girl in terms of fucking, I just want to have her as a friend and build up my social circle game; I see her around but don't talk to her like that so I decided to recruit her as a hot friend.

Now about my ego, I only mean that I feel pity for the guy because he insecure, but I also feel annoyed that guys like that overreact to shit like that. I have an urge to tell him off(my ego talking), but I don't want to cause any grief for the girl nor do I want to keyboard battle with the dude. My ego is telling me to write a comeback, but I am being logical and trying to rationalize that it really is none of my business. I am asking for techniques in framing this in a positive light, because I am personally a positive guy, but seeing shit like this bothers me a little.

I mean come on guys, where in my post indicates that I am going after his girl...put yourself in my shoes, because I put myself in his and I can't see his logic. I didn't even add emoticons.

Oh trust me Kasabi, in real life I would have been amused and done it like that. I just didn't want to cause a comment battle on Facebook and have his friends try to tell me off (I am sure you have seen those posts, for those that have FB). Although, I do feel that would cause a fight in real life...I don't know if you care about my safety at all Kasabi...not that I am afraid of a fight, but I don't like exerting too much unnecessary energy, lol.

Bro. Listen, if your comment was just an innocent remark that was directed at the girl, then it doesn't matter what her boyfriend says in response. It's not that you feel sorry for him and are trying to help him, that's absurd. You are right, it's all your ego talking here. You are trying to save face and put him in his place or get the last word. And he's doing the same thing, but in this case he is justified because you are actually overstepping your bounds a bit based on the comments you are writing to a girl who is in a relationship. I would just let it go. And if you keep commenting to her and he responds, again, let it go. Otherwise it will escalate into a pissing battle and if you aren't prepared to have this dude meet you somewhere and settle it like a man, then it's just a bunch of keyboard warrioring, which is totally gay.

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Tell me you aren't serious...

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