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Ok so this hb 8-9 that used to be obsessed with me just said she misses me, i kinda want to fuck her but i'm going away for some time(a week), how should i reply?
btw she said it over facebook.
The question you need to ask yourself is how do you feel about it. I could give you a numerous way of replying to her however it wouldn't do you any favours. In the end she would be getting a taste of my own personality. The moment you hang out, you think she won't notice the uncongruency.
One of the worst factors, in my opinion, is when you develop two personalities, one for online and one in person. It shouldn't alter. You should be replying how you would normally if you were talking to her in person. In short, you have to think about what you actually feel or think about any given situation.
A good benefit of learning game is that it moulds your own unique personality. Your likes/dislikes, your desires, what you want. I agree that accepting advice is good if you're really stuck and learning.
Somethings things do get overthought. Such as 'she said she misses me, what should I write'. This type of thinking only suggests you believe there a 'right way' of responding. Sure when learning game, it teaches you a process of how to seduce and ways to do it. This all gets moulded into your own character. It's that character that decides what he should be doing not what any of us tell you do write.
A final thing to reflect upon: Would you rather be told what to say next or have the ability to think of it yourself?
^ That is obtained through practice and consquering your inner debeliefs/insecurities. Inner game.
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I decided to go with; "Well we could hang out sometime, but i won't be home in 10 days so well have to take it after that

" She instantly replied: Yess!
See how being honest and telling her your intentions can work in your favour. Congrats.
- Kang