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Havent had a chance to post her much due to school just starting back and being EXTREMELY busy. Now that i have my schedule down, you guys should be seeing me a little more.
So have you guys every heard of Social Conditioning? If not i will be posting a blog post on it soon, so subscribe to my blog in my signature to get the post when its finished.
So if guys have ever been on public transportation such as a train, bus, etc. You'll know that these are THE MOST social conditioned places. People literally walk around like social robots looking stiff, cold, and so..scared to interact with an attractive person they would like to meet.
Well not i. I may not have the ultimate core confidence(yet), i do have the confidence to go up to a complete stranger, in any situation, and start a conversation, and build attraction.
Being non-reactive, not seeking a reaction is extremely key.
So today on my way to work, i get on the train, and i see this stunner(10) sitting there listening to music. I was about 5 other people also sitting down across the other side just staring ahead waiting for the train to pull off. So everyone is just looking. I calculated my moves to set up the right logistics for us to speak. It was a few guys on the train now just staring, as usual, like social robots. So i set down across from her and she looks at me. So after about 3 more minutes of getting situated i get up walk over and sit in the seat behind her, and before i could sit down, i tap her on the shoulder to get her attention. By this time everyone is staring, but i actually love the attention, and being able to show my confidence, and fearlessness.
Me:"Hey, hows it going!"
She was already smiling before she could turn around, her face was lit up like a christmas tree.
Her: "Heyy! Im good how are you!?:"
Me: "Im good! Listen, i was sitting there and i couldnt help but notice you. I thought you were extremely cute and i had to come over and talk. If i didnt i knew i would be mad at myself for the rest of the day."
Her: "Aww., im glad you did! "(Smiling extremely hard)
Me: "Im ____.(Smile) Whats your name?
Her: "Im ____" nice to meet you _____".
Me: "Its nice to meet you too. Soo _____ What you got going on today?
Her: "Wow, im so late for work right now(Laughing).
Me: "Ha. What time were you suppose to get there?
Her: 9:00!!Hahaha.
Me: Wow! Your a bad girl, i can see it now.
She then begins to qualify herself tellng me her "good girl side" and then i transitioned to getting to know her more and connecting on topics such as nature, traveling, blah blah. Very good interaction and ended when i had to get off the train. Got her number and we decided we would meet up and see each other again. and then a hug, and i had to get off the train.
By the end of the interaction it was about 30 people on the train now, some guys would look like "OMG, i cant believe he is doing it!! HEs TALKING TO A GIRL...ON THE METRO!!!!! Ahhhhh". Its funny...But thats how they look, and to see her actually enjoying it made it better. Hopefull this inspired one of those guys to do the same, and overcome the stupid social conditioning and fear.
Anyway, thats my first post! Enjoy all comments are welcomed.
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