so the latest from the girl at work.


I do some schedules chainging so I canrk with her last night.

She's really happy to see me and we have many laughs, joined at the hip again, a lot of kino....her constantly grabbing me, flirting w/ me ect.

FINALLY, I get an invite to her house (she has a nightly ritual of movie night).

We're positioned on a large sectional so that at times out body language is on. Somtimes, are legs are touching ect.

But alas, her roomate is there, making it hard to escalate (she has an outta town bf, so being real obvious about stuff is prollly out for her)

We watch 2 movies, she takes some xanax and smokes.

Im waiting for roomate to crash so I can escalate. he does and i begin trying to make an emotional connection. We start to talk pretty deep, then she says she has to go to bed (its about 330am) and I am welcome to crash on the couch.

I hug her goodnight, and that is all

I should add, at a couple points during the night at work, she remarked how cute another co-worker was, but at another point, she told me I smalled good and i was cute.

gonna see her again at work tonight, and I'll prolly go to her house again after.

thoughts?

Not sure if I'm giving you the BEST advice but,still,I say go fast and try to escelate to a kiss in 20-30 minutes top.

If it ain't working just let her go...Maybe sometime when she sees you with other chicks she'll "realise" she DOES want you after all...

That's that.

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Emotional connection probably took any tension that existed right out of the equation. it's great being emotionally connected to someone, ultimately that's what we all strive for and its healthy. But if you're trying to sex a girl you want to keep the tension high between you and engaging in emotional banter if anything will diffuse that tension. How do you switch from emotional to "I want to fuck you"? You don't.

One word:Kino.

It's tested and proved working...LOL

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Kiss closed her last night......but got the dreaaded..."my bf......"


Grrrrr, then we had a mutual friend stay until 530am. Damn this is getting hard!

I need some bf destroyers and anti-slut defense routines.

Id freeze out, and it worked, but was less effective when her friend was around.

If her friend went to the bathroom, id go for a playful makeout, she would give me the bf excuse, and I'd say..."yeah, I better go" then she would respond "NO!"

You're yet to be ''LMR'ED'' so don't look for an Anti-slut routin right now..long way to go.

Bf d's are a good idea..I don't know any since I don't do "couples".

The playful makeout thing is good..on the other hand,the "yeah,I better go" shit is lame and won't work if you ask me.

Other than that,it's just bad luck man..sorry.

PS:If you don't mind me asking..what exactly did you do to pull the K-close?

PS2:A tip-don't go her place everyday for a month to fuck her..it's obvious.
Instead,reduce contact for a while and come back after for another round-it'll go wayyy better I promise.


Stay fierce bro'!

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my biggest sticking point seems to be patcience. I know what I have to do to get her......but I want her now! its a battle.

For this kiss close, is was sort of a slow escalation. Kino has been on fire since day 1. Last night in front of her friend at the bar, she kept touching me when talking.Playfully, i said "if you touch me again, im gonna kiss you".

sure enough, within a minute, she touched me. She gave that playful resistance but didn't cover her mouth as I kissed her.

(thats not the real close, I know what you're thinking...)

When we left and pulled up to her place, i just gave her the look, saw the DDB eyes, and jst laid it on her.

Her bf returned tonight, putting me on a bummer,,,,,we joked about it breaking my heart, more so her than me, but yeah, I know thats low value.....I would jst try to turn it around telling her we couldn't hang anymore....blah blah. We compared schedules and made tenative plans for tues.

I just can't believe I havent been able to hit it yet. I've played pretty solid game and dealt with a lot of cock blocks.

Im so tempted to text her or tell her stuff like "I wanna make out with you so bad...." but I know how wrong that is.

GGGGrrrr.....i guess this is the pain that makes champions.

"i guess this is the pain that makes champions" --- NICE!

I just hope you'll find your way in...Happy gaming bro'!

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girl has a boyfriend, won't even give you the compliance for a makeout, and you are surprised that you haven't hit it yet?

dude, you got oneitis?

move on and meet new girls, this girl is obviously attracted to you, don't ruin it by friend zoning yourself, just bang her when she is single or make it clear you don't care about her boyfriend and just go for it, if she won't comply stop wasting your time on her

you want to be balls deep in a vagina?

or do you want to be some girls orbiter that she leads on and flirts with for fun, then goes home and fucks her boyfriend?

those seem like your two main options here, just because a girl finds you attractive and likes to flirt with you, doesn't mean she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend/husband for you, but some are willing to cheat, so if you haven't actually given this a confident ''we will keep this a secret and I don't care you have a boyfriend'' effort, then really you are wasting you time, pussy footing around this and spending more time with her escalating at the rate of a snail and not getting something done only brings you closer to not having sex with her, rather then having sex with her, especially if a make out is some big deal, imagine how tough it will be to get her to bend over

if you actually care about this girl sleeping with you right now and can't wait or make a real power play move that risks losing her, then you don't have enough female options and are getting needy, getting pre-occupied with one specific girl when you are not committed to her is a sign you are not meeting enough new girls on a regular basis that are similiar in quality to you

I agree, you are working your way out of the pussy! You need to speed things up and push for the next level. If you are not willing to risk the effort, why should she?


Peace...

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Thanks guys.....

thanks for the inspiration. one-itus was definitley setting in.