I completely understand this but from past experiences (not during sex) where either ive pushed to know what was wrong or simply told them that I think they need time to sort out whatever troubles they are going through I get a "Oh for god sake can't you just forget it happened, I have" sort of response and then a load of anger directed my way.

Who gives a fuck, NEXT. No really, after realizing how short this life is, dontgiveafuckalaria is my disease.

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I think its one of two things.

One. She may have been raped and youre the first guy she fucked since, happened to me before.

Two: She's got a bunch of shit on her mind that you don't need to deal with.

I hate to be a dick but either of those 2 situations aren't good. I'd move on. maybe she'll explain later and then yall can see where it goes.

Yeah I thought it could be the first one when she said it reminded her of something however afterwards I ran a couple of tests by talking about Justin Lee Collins situation which she found funny and I told her a story involving a girl I knew getting abused by her ex bf. Both stories she did not react in a way where she knew what was going on.

Also over the summer shes been telling me via text that she likes her sex "proper dirty" for example "I want you to fuck me on the floor holding my head down and my arms behind my back" I even said "Im going to tie you up, fuck you then leave you in my room till im ready again" her reply "omg thats exactly what I want"

Then when we meet up she wants slow fucking missionary position/slow fucking her on top sex. Another explanation from a psychologist friend is that she has a "deep underlining personal issue that happened during a past emotional sexual encounter" and what we were doing triggered a big emotional response.

Sounds like a red flag to me, i would stay away from her.
Contrary to popular belief, women don't want to be "made love to" they want a passionate caveman like experience, obviously there are limits of course, but i don't believe its that.
I wouldn't take it personally, most likely she has had bad relationships with men starting from her dad, and you just represent another face to the endless psychosexual loop that is her existence.

i have another theory, but it's a bit strange
could it be that this girl ever been raped? a year ago i had similiar experience
when i had sex with a girl, she did same to me: pushed me off and started crying.

When i finally got him to talk, she said that i behaved in sex as her rapist in her youth. that behavior was doggy style. So i promised to her that we don't do doggy style ever after, then we talked a little, kissing and finally had sex again.

This exact thing happened to me too.

I was fucking my ex after we broke up, she was enjoying it, saying "talk dirty to me and oh god this feels so good", I change position, she gets on top of me, more moaning, when I try to do her doggy style, she kinda resists and ask me to stop and says she can't do it.

What was the reason?
She wasn't over her EX.

I think the same goes for you too.

No development as of yet, contact between us is at 0%.

Apart from that my ego and self-confidence has hit rock bottom. This has really effected me in ways that it shouldn't. I mean generally my girlfriends/past fuck buddies have praised my "in bed" skills even to the point where I've had situations where I'm taking a girl/friend out and had the "Lets just get the fuck home so you can fuck the shit out of me!"

However I've NEVER had a girl cry during sex, my housemates and such have stated that it wasn't my fault and I shouldn't let it get to me but it seriously is. My housemates were constantly asking me if I was okay yesterday because whenever they were around me I was staring into space with questions like

"Why did she cry?"

"What did I do wrong?"

"If it is another guy whats wrong with me? im fucking great, what do i need to improve"

"Why did she say this then cry later"

"Why did she change her mind about staying after being all moody and wanting to leave."

Same thing happened to me last year, I went camping with my friends and this girl came with her friends, we ended up as one big group, she was gonna spend the night with one of her girlfriends, I offered her to stay with me in my tent as it was little bigger and she said ok, we started talking...things worked out well, we started making out..I told her if she wasn't ready for more she had to stop me as I have no limits, and guess what, she was horny more than I was and didn't stop me, so things got even better lol.

We were on it enjoying ourselves, we went for a while and then I came, the girl was ok for like 45 seconds, then she started crying and didn't want to talk to me, I mean really really crying! the situation was fucked up, I m in the medal of no were with a girl I barley know and I didn't even remember the girl's name to make the conversation smoother...I couldn't help myself to stop asking what was wrong even though she was saying much other than nothing, nothing, not now, don't talk to me...10 minutes of me not giving up trying to understand what the FK just happen to her, she decided to tell me what was wrong! she said that she was feeling like she never did before and just about to come and I came before she did and so I stopped her orgasm! I promised I'll make it up for her and I did, so she was ok and we could sleep well that night! Maybe you stopped her orgasm before you went to the kitchen for your water.

Same girl (as it became my girlfriend later on) cried another day, when I kept on asking why again! she told me that she felt like I was hard on her and that I was treating her like a slut!

but one thing for sure my friend, you don't wanna get in to the crying routine it sucks, big time! well, my girl was crying while having sex and when we're not having sex for different reasons, if you ask me what I did to stop the crying, we broke up lol

hey BITmixit, I was very interested on your story, any development yet ?