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The golden rule of the Apocalypse opener is to never use it when there is someone else there. The girl could be really wanting to go with you but if one of her friends or even a stranger hears her say yes then her ASD takes over to preserve her social status and she will either walk off or play the "what type of girl do you think I am card"
When you hold the silence after the question it puts a lot of psychological pressure on the girl to answer and it could go either way but third parties within earshot will 99% tip it the wrong way.
After the question if she says "no" flat out just reply "Ok" and flow into the next piece of your conversation as if nothing has happened and it's no big deal. If however she says "well I don't know" or "maybe" or "well I'll have to see what my friends are doing" this means yes just continue the silence till it's either verbal yes or no.
Use it during the last hour of the night; if a girl has spent 3 hours getting ready and been out with her friends for 2 she will want to enjoy the night and not cut it short to go back to yours.
Use it more on a girl when you see her friends have scored with other guys, she doesn't like being the gooseberry as it drops her social status. By leaving with you she can play the girly "romantic instant chemistry card" on her friends.
This is anecdotal and somebody else has mentioned the same on a current thread but girls who wear red shoes or lipstick are more receptive to the opener. I think it's due to hormonal fluctuation which make girls more sexually charged at the most fertile time of their cycle and gives them a predilection to the colour red.
When you give the question hold full eye contact (increases the tension) and nod slightly, subconsciously the girl picks up the nod and interpretes it as a yes (hypnotists use this a lot)
When you see a group of girls deep in conversation look out for the one looking around the venue and not listening to her friends conversation; she's there to pull a guy and scouting out the room for what guys are there.
When you approach do direct full on without non verbal time constraints full alpha. Yes it takes balls but it's a big turn on for the girl.
In hypnosis there is a phenonema called "the pygmalion effect" where if you totally 100% expect someone to behave in a certain way they will. The reason being you give off very subtle body language cues called BMIR's (behavioral manifestations of internal representations) and the other person picks them up and drops into that frame. So. on your approach expect it to work!!
And finally: when it does work get moving before the mood changes, her excitement levels have peaked so get her out the club/bar within 5 minutes before they drop off.
nicely explained. Ive been lucky enough to have it work a few times, and what you have explained there are the very reasons for that.
(I still disagree with the red dress thing though)
I think that is just the "pygmalion effect" as you mentioned. But why just expect it to work better on girls in red. Get that limiting belief out of your head. It can work just as well with ANY girl there if you believe it.
It really is the lazy mans method, once you get all the important parts down pat.
Use wisely and sparingly! for a couple of reasons... It can limit your game if you go out just relying on this approach. You will basically become lazy, because you start to think that its so easy
why do anything else? Which can hinder you.
You also dont want to blow out of sets where you could have done better if you took a more subtle approach. But I guess if it doesnt work, you can play it off smoothly and just continue the conversation...
One last IMPORTANT note.
Since this is such a great routine, or whatever you want to call it, for getting girls to come home with you. You dont STRICTLY have to use it as an opener. Ive had success with it using it on a girl Ive been talking to for a while... So what, thats not an opener... But its still a damn effective way to get her to come home with you.
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