Ummm yea....because women love being ignored by their boyfriends. Its far more common for a girl to dump a guy who isn't tending to her attentional needs than the other way around. Hey, its not uncommon for women to 'roam' while their guy is away, in fact it happens more often than not. You're also making an assumption that she's more invested, we don't know this as his being away is more a logistical thing then any indication that he's somehow less invested in her. The so-called "Law of who cares less applies" infers that the person who is less invested holds the balance of power in a relationship, we do not know this to be the case.

you both make strong points....

went to a bar after work w/ some friends. Noticed that she posted on FB where she was.

i sent her a text "name of place" ?

she responded they were just grabbing somthing to eat, and leaving soon.

I didn't respond.

She followed up a few minutes later saying her and her roomate (my buddy) were going home to get stoned and watch a movie.

Again, I didn't reply.

Im thinking this is a hoop....or a shit test.....see if i try to invite myself over....its kinda open ended, yet there was no invitation. Not the first time she as stated somthing like this.

Not sure if this was either slick or stupid, but last night I posted on her wall on FB...."feeling buzzed and sentimental" then a youtube link to Bob dylan's All I want to do", which is the ultimate friendzone song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBO9KKM ... re=related

link to the song.


im hoping this confuses her, yet lets her think Im thinking about her, and turning her on to a cool song. It was my way of friend zoning her, before she could do it to me.

whatta ya' think?